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Reply #30 - September 28, 2013, 12:54 AM

So now that I have given more substance to the three words? Do you still disagree - because even I disagree with the original comment of three words.

Btw - open to all - Now that I have told you my two best friends are lawyers, if any of youse does have a legal problem that they might want advice on and are prepared to discuss it on board or PM if you don't mind me knowing what it is, my lips would be sealed - but it is free and my friends are good. My reason for doing this - I hardly haver to go out of my way to help, it just comes naturally. I meet one of them every Friday at the very least. I don't care if none of you take up the offer, but it is there...

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Reply #31 - September 28, 2013, 01:01 AM

I'm not saying it's bad advice. I've known people who have been date-raped like Berbs does. I might have taken what you said in a way you didn't mean, if I did I apologise. Out of the three people I'm close with that had been date raped, two of them said they were spiked/drugged the other specifically said rohypnol. I didn't ask to see a doctors report I just took her word on it, she might have mistaken it for something else. When I read your comment my mind just flashed to her. Again, I think I took your comment the wrong way. I apologise.

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Reply #32 - September 28, 2013, 01:12 AM

Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on September 28, 2013, 01:01 AM
I'm not saying it's bad advice. I've known people who have been date-raped like Berbs does. I might have taken what you said in a way you didn't mean, if I did I apologise. Out of the three people I'm close with that had been date raped, two of them said they were spiked/drugged the other specifically said rohypnol. I didn't ask to see a doctors report I just took her word on it, she might have mistaken it for something else. When I read your comment my mind just flashed to her. Again, I think I took your comment the wrong way. I apologise.

Well, there is no need to apologise for taking my comment the wrong way 'rohypnol is a myth (fuck it is four words, you know what? I have not even read my original comment, to see the context, even so)is can only be read one way.

What bought me here, was that instead of waiting for me to respond to berbs comment, you had your tuppence worth and said -this is why I bring this thread up - knowing that you had a least one willing to fight the same cause. Posted twelve minutes after berbs comment, not brave enough to be first. Apologise for that, we cool. Don't, we still cool. Good night Quod.

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Reply #33 - September 28, 2013, 01:18 AM

Like I said, there are people I'm close with who have been date-raped. It was an emotional reaction on my part, I think I took what you said the wrong way because of that.

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Reply #34 - September 28, 2013, 08:36 AM

My 2 friends didn't even bother going to the police, figuring no one would believe them.

In fact many girls avoid the police when they have been drugged, since everyone of them would have heard how quickly traces of it vanish from the system, and how testing for it, successful testing must be done quicker than the time it usually takes numerous women to decide they feel brave enough to go to the police, that is that testing should happen within 24 hours.

Your friend did what, 20 cases of rape over a 20 year period, rohypnol hasn't been a date rape drug (as in recognised, discussed, joked about by dick heads) for 20 years.

I would rather hear the experience of solicitors and barristers who specifically dealt in rape cases, than the experience of a man who has pretty much factored 1 rape case per year.

The facts are that rape is under-reported, and when it is reported, catching the traces of a rape drug are hard since there is a small window of opportunity.

It is also the case that when rohypnol is used, your memory of the events will be cloudy, fragmented, which in turn puts women off reporting what has happened.

I am not arguing against alcohol being an issue, it is an issue, it is the biggest date rape issue, however I am arguing your flimsy reasoning as to why rohypnol use shouldn't be watched out for.

Telling your daughter not to drink too much is all well and good, she may follow your advice and only have a few, but what if, because you didn't bother to also warn her that she should never leave her drink unattended, nor should she accept a drink from a man unless she was able to watch the entire process of it being poured at the bar and given straight to her, you in turn leave her exposed to that mythical danger?

Also Quod, why are you wasting your time apologising? the way I see it, the only one on the attack war path, with you as his target, is devilsadvokat, who if anyone should be apologising, it should be him.

It's perfectly ok to misconstrue anything he says, since for the most part, he does that on purpose.

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Reply #35 - September 28, 2013, 10:19 AM

My friend may have dealt with only twenty rape cases himself but that does not mean he has no knowledge of other cases. But I take your point he is not a solicitor who specialises in rape cases. I don't disagree with many of your points of unreported/unbelieved/etc cases of rape with or without Rohypnol. he would deffo know of rape cases in our hometown or elsewhere that involved the solicitors/barristers that are in his circle. Murder (he defended Shafelia Ahmed's mother - pure evil as his kids and I told him), Grooming, People trafficking, VAT fraud, the Asians and east Europeans keep him busy.

I was not solely basing it on my friends testimony. I read up about alcohol/rohypnol and rape, iirc they did test within the 24 hrs, obviously they tested it on individuals who thought they had been subject to the drug.

Myth was the wrong word. Overblown danger might have been better. But when it happens to you, statistics are cold comfort.

I will look into it again.

Yes, I would advise my daughter. Keep an eye even on the soft drinks. Just wanted to put things into perspective.

Warpath? I have my reasons, Quod is not wasting his time apologising because I accept his apologies, I am sure I have apologised to Quod before for any posts lost in translation.

As for misconstruing anything I say, or the majority of what I say because I mean it so - Interesting. I think it is bollocks. I won't even ask you to bring forth example. It was one rash post on a night of long and many posts. It was not the reason (Quod misconstruing my post) for my ire directed at him. I explain as much. You read the bit where I say, he does not need to apologise to misconstruing 'rohypnol is a myth'.

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Reply #36 - September 28, 2013, 02:26 PM

Perhaps an analogy can be drawn between tobacco and alcohol, in the sense the real gateway drug to soft and hard drugs is more likely than not the humble cigarette - I only know of a handful of people who just smoke cannabis and most often than not most of these still started on cigarettes, but tobacco, big business, big taxes - the media is not going to push that line.

Likewise with alcohol. 2/3rds of rapes UK involve rape, obviously some of them might involve rohypnol and alcohol (Idk how they do the figures, but big business and big taxes would mean that that statistics does not become a warning on the side of the bottle.

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Reply #37 - September 28, 2013, 02:34 PM

Vis a vis Quod and I. perhaps I am suffering from a persecution complex lol.

If any of you are familiar with knocking on your typical Pakistani door to met with the typical Pakistani housewife, the reaction you receive is dependent (if you are random) on whether you are white or brown. If you are brown, the door is always half open, peering, not looking directly and being overly modest, if you are white then they are still modest but there is slightly more freedom in movement and welcome.

Likewise, if Quod chats about sex, gender and sexual violence compared to when I did/do it (not withstanding the fact that we argue from opposite poles)the difference is palpable. If Frankie Boyle can get away with the stuff he says, or his vibe, why can't I. Not just the dark/irreverent humour but generally too. is it because I am a paki? if a paki who says he is a paki says stuff like this, we have to judge him on a different criteria. the criteria that he is a paki.

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Reply #38 - September 28, 2013, 02:53 PM

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If I explained to you my sense of humour then you may stop believing in it.

Chief - where do live in the Uk. Don't have to give specifics if you don't want to.

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Reply #39 - September 28, 2013, 02:59 PM

devilsadvokat, if I misunderstood what you said then I apologise. I'll clarify. Are you saying not just that one specific drug (I'm speaking only of rohypnol and I want to say quite firmly that I don't agree that it's a myth) but that date-rape using any kind of drug used specifically for impairing someone's ability to consent/resist sexual advances are a myth?

That's how it came across to me, that date rape drugs do not exist/are not used. They do and they are. If that's not what you're saying, my apologies, it came across that way and a little too close to victim blaming. If you are saying date-rape doesn't happen, then I don't apologise and strongly feel the need to call you out on it.

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Reply #40 - September 28, 2013, 05:11 PM

3. Issue a fatwa making it a religious duty to educate yourself on the realities of date-rape drugs of all kinds and sexual violence, including victim stories and medical/legal reports.

4. Include in the fatwa the clarification that the point of learning about it isn't so you can become a more efficient rapist.

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Reply #41 - September 28, 2013, 05:16 PM

Quote from: devilsadvokat on September 28, 2013, 02:53 PM
Chief - where do live in the Uk. Don't have to give specifics if you don't want to.

Mein North of England mein rehta hun.

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...that date rape drugs do not exist/are not used.

it's rather disheartening that this topic (worthwhile as it is) descended into the silliness it did when I assume we here ahve come to the realisation that God does not exist based upon FACTUAL, EMPIRICAL, VERIFIABLE EVIDENCE. I would expect that most if not all discussions would be predicated upon the aforementioned

There is plenty of evidence that indicate that 'date rape' drugs are real and their sever consequences. No need to argue.

http://www.police.ufl.edu/community-services/myths-and-facts-about-date-rape/

http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/date-rape-drugs.html

Additionally, Dr Phil famously ignited a #date rape' controversy on Twitter:

http://guardianlv.com/2013/08/dr-phil-asks-his-twitter-followers-if-date-rape-is-ok/

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Reply #42 - September 28, 2013, 05:24 PM

Aww Jedi, you listened to my fatwa

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Reply #43 - September 28, 2013, 05:29 PM

I always listen to you.

If you were a girl I'd marry you.

Now stop fighting mummy and daddy. Stop fighting!

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Reply #44 - September 28, 2013, 05:52 PM

Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on September 28, 2013, 02:59 PM
devilsadvokat, if I misunderstood what you said then I apologise. I'll clarify. Are you saying not just that one specific drug (I'm speaking only of rohypnol and I want to say quite firmly that I don't agree that it's a myth) but that date-rape using any kind of drug used specifically for impairing someone's ability to consent/resist sexual advances are a myth?

That's how it came across to me, that date rape drugs do not exist/are not used. They do and they are. If that's not what you're saying, my apologies, it came across that way and a little too close to victim blaming. If you are saying date-rape doesn't happen, then I don't apologise and strongly feel the need to call you out on it.

I thought we had been through this once before

firstly - where would you get the idea that date-rape don't happen?I have explained the word 'myth' was erroneous, overblown maybe.

again if you read what I said iirc from research (google) done, people often mistake rohypnol exposure for too much drink.

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Reply #45 - September 28, 2013, 05:54 PM

Quote from: Jedi on September 28, 2013, 05:16 PM
Mein North of England mein rehta hun.

it's rather disheartening that this topic (worthwhile as it is) descended into the silliness it did when I assume we here ahve come to the realisation that God does not exist based upon FACTUAL, EMPIRICAL, VERIFIABLE EVIDENCE. I would expect that most if not all discussions would be predicated upon the aforementioned

There is plenty of evidence that indicate that 'date rape' drugs are real and their sever consequences. No need to argue.

http://www.police.ufl.edu/community-services/myths-and-facts-about-date-rape/

http://www.womenshealth.gov/publications/our-publications/fact-sheet/date-rape-drugs.html

Additionally, Dr Phil famously ignited a #date rape' controversy on Twitter:

http://guardianlv.com/2013/08/dr-phil-asks-his-twitter-followers-if-date-rape-is-ok/

True - lets put all the glare and focus on date rape drugs and ignore the one right in front of your face. Let's all have a look at a female glass to see if someone pops a pill innit, forget the fact that might be her tenth/twentieth glass.

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Reply #46 - September 28, 2013, 06:02 PM

No, let's take into consideration that she would be drunk and thus vulnerable/susceptible to pervs who prey on women like that. However, not all people are like that, if you know the woman and have been drinking with her then you should be mature enough to judge the situation for yourself.

If a drug is used to incapacitate the woman and you proceed to have sex with her then you should be tried and judged.

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Reply #47 - September 28, 2013, 06:07 PM

Quote from: devilsadvokat on September 28, 2013, 05:52 PM
where would you get the idea that date-rape don't happen?I have explained the word 'myth' was erroneous, overblown maybe.

So you're saying I misunderstood you then? If so I can accept that and have no problem saying I made a mistake.

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Reply #48 - September 28, 2013, 08:51 PM

Quod - At a loss of understanding as to why you would think that the myth was associated with the concept of date-rape. The term 'myth' was wrongly applied to date-rape drugs not date rape.

If we ever do meet up fella, we will have to go over events this week. Lol

The way I see it

You pissed me off with the resurrection.
I vented on a different thread.
You then posted a great post. Reading it, I was ready to bury the hatchet.
Before I get a chance to reply.
You posted right after Berbs. The hatchet remained.
I explained the 'myth' apparently well enough to sate berbs for the moment at least.
Somewhere towards the end, I managed to suggest I would not meet you because you are not muslim/Pakistani.
Hopefully a couple of posts have managed to dissuade you from this notion.
No warpath...fresh start...or at least less pissing off and less intense posts.

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Reply #49 - September 28, 2013, 09:08 PM

Just to clarify, I'm not out to humiliate you. I responded to Berbs comment when I saw it. I don't need to wait for someone else to reply first, I just happen to do other things. At that moment I was probably on the phone, cleaning, making dinner, or nipped to the local shop for food. I wasn't sitting in front of the screen waiting to pounce.

As for the other thread I commented on, I didn't go through the whole thing. I don't know what you said you didn't want bringing back. I actually still haven't read it. I get the impression you think I'm targeting you for some reason. I'm not. There is nothing you'd said to me that would make me have a grudge against you. And you still haven't.

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Reply #50 - September 28, 2013, 09:28 PM

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I wasn't sitting in front of the screen waiting to pounce.

I am not suggesting that. Just that your post came after berbs, perhaps my mention of 12 minutes alludes you to this. Forget the twelve minutes.

You had posted what I term a 'great post'......no post referring to myth.......berbs posts.......you follow with you 'this is why I bought it up' (not only not allowing me the chance to respond to berbs) - I suggest you could have posted it before berbs post because you had logged on and replied on the other thread that was hosting our tete-a-tete. Suddenly berbs post and you come out all emoticons.

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As for the other thread I commented on, I didn't go through the whole thing. I don't know what you said you didn't want bringing back. I actually still haven't read it. I get the impression you think I'm targeting you for some reason. I'm not. There is nothing you'd said to me that would make me have a grudge against you. And you still haven't.

Cool dude.

Lol - Now all we need to do is examine my fantasies and perversion comment and then this matter can be laid to rest. Sometime later rather than sooner.

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Reply #51 - September 28, 2013, 10:50 PM

When you post something on a public forum open for any member to comment on, I assume it's okay to comment. Rather than dedicate your time to insulting me and trying to humiliate me for an imagined slight, you could of sent me a PM. I would of replied. Instead of sending me a private message you decided to publically attack me, ask about my masturbation habits, infer I'm a pervert and will sink further into perversion, ridicule me, and so on. I responded by doing none of this.

Also, in response to your comment on having to curtail your Friday five-a-side, I accept no responsibility for this. You're a grown man, you're a husband (I'm assuming) and a father with enough years under your belt that I could be your son. I in no way whatsoever hold myself accountable for you making the choice to respond right then rather than going to your game and responding when you got home or the next day.

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Reply #52 - September 28, 2013, 10:55 PM

STOP IT MUMMY AND DADDY!

STOP IT!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkZC7sqImaM

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Reply #53 - September 28, 2013, 10:59 PM

Love John Lennon

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Reply #54 - September 28, 2013, 11:30 PM

Okay, my above post might seem like I'm trying to drag this out. I don't want to drag it out so I agree, let's bury the hatchet. I've already acknowledged that I could easily have misunderstood you and attempted to clarify. I've posted the words "I apologise" but how you behaved was not only childish but deliberately and needlessly insulting. I did get the impression that there was a bit of sidedness coming from you because of my religious and racial background, but you've said that's not the case and I'm willing to take you at your word. As for the rest of it, if you wish to take back what you said and apologise to me, I'll accept you at your word and we'll never mention this again. Hatchet buried

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`Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.'
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Reply #55 - September 29, 2013, 12:45 AM

Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on September 28, 2013, 10:50 PM
When you post something on a public forum open for any member to comment on, I assume it's okay to comment. Rather than dedicate your time to insulting me and trying to humiliate me for an imagined slight, you could of sent me a PM. I would of replied. Instead of sending me a private message you decided to publically attack me, ask about my masturbation habits, infer I'm a pervert and will sink further into perversion, ridicule me, and so on. I responded by doing none of this.

Btw - this a rewrite. Somrthing happened to the computer, re-writes are never as good as the originals.

masturbation habits. Like what creams you use, how many times etc? No. Just the fantasies - lol a female friend said to me that checking her boyfriends browsing history she come across his porn viewing and something about sister(s) fucking came up. I had to explain to her that taht does not mean he wants to fuck his sister. i did not expect you to respond with your own fantasies, just wanted to make a point (make you feel uncomfortable) - but credit is due for you not replying in kind instead it showed up behind berbs post. Is that what you mean. It is understandable.

Ah PM's never sent an unsolicited/solicited? Pm in my life. Think I have sent two in my entire time on this forum, one to harakaat in a return post, and two to hypocrucifier when he sent mr four. Social awkwardness. Too familiar? How do I know how a person reacts to an unsolicited PM from me. Though next time, I will.

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Also, in response to your comment on having to curtail your Friday five-a-side, I accept no responsibility for this. You're a grown man, you're a husband (I'm assuming) and a father with enough years under your belt that I could be your son. I in no way whatsoever hold myself accountable for you making the choice to respond right then rather than going to your game and responding when you got home or the next day.

At best dramatics. At worse arrested development. Oh went to the game 9 to 10pm, it was afterwards at the meal, checked the site, turned to me mate and said i want to back home by one instead of the usual near two after a smoke and cruise.

I apologise for venting my ire, for wanting you to reel after a reading a post (I have had a few my way, i know how they work), I should know better. I should have sent you an PM and resolved it. I don't care if I don't have the last word. (fingers crossed)

My apology is sincere and genuine. I have been a bit of a bully. It is out of character. Hope you forgive me.

I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
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Reply #56 - September 29, 2013, 12:46 AM

Quote from: Jedi on September 28, 2013, 10:55 PM
STOP IT MUMMY AND DADDY!

STOP IT!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RkZC7sqImaM

Lol - both of us are adult enough, well I know Quod is. No stress.

I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
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Reply #57 - September 29, 2013, 12:48 AM

No worries mate. Forget about it

`But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
`Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.'
`How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
`You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
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Reply #58 - September 29, 2013, 02:27 AM

You know what Quod, i will have the last word. I don't know if you have done a jedi mid trick on me but i feel I have to admit to more than being a bit of bully. I might regret this post tomorrow but this is how i feel right now - no worries i am not suicidal - basically i was a cunt. That was a cuntish thing to do, in mitigation that thread was current/handy to vent like I did, but still it was downright nasty. I did feel uncomfortable after my posts popped back up but i am repeating myself here, it did not warrant a second post on that thread.

Getting too big for my boots. If I have caused you undue stress/emotional hurt/annoyance/insert, once again i apologise. I don't want you to reply. Good night.

I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
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