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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1080 - November 27, 2008, 02:15 PM
    Is she teaching social anthropology?
    Then she might be interested in a person being brought up in a totally different culture and might want students to get an exposure of other side of the world.
    And it is totally upto you how many things you want to make public. If you are not comfortable, you can deny.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1081 - November 27, 2008, 02:29 PM
    Quote from: learn2bcalm on November 27, 2008, 02:15 PM
    Is she teaching social anthropology?
    Then she might be interested in a person being brought up in a totally different culture and might want students to get an exposure of other side of the world.
    And it is totally upto you how many things you want to make public. If you are not comfortable, you can deny.


    Yes, it's social anthropology.  Well aside from talking in a class full of students, it wouldn't be proper exposure, still I hate public talking so I'm still not sure.

    I am torn, I want to start doing more, to be more visual so that more doubting muslims get a chance to see others leaving Islam, but again I hate public talking lol I am no Maryam namazie.  Tongue
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1082 - November 27, 2008, 02:41 PM
    Berbs, where can I find your blog?
    The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts. - Bertrand Russell
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1083 - November 27, 2008, 02:43 PM
    I think this is her blog.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1084 - November 27, 2008, 07:04 PM
    It's a sort of bloggy thread. parrot
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1085 - November 28, 2008, 03:42 AM
    Quote from: BerberElla on November 27, 2008, 02:29 PM
    Quote from: learn2bcalm on November 27, 2008, 02:15 PM
    Is she teaching social anthropology?
    Then she might be interested in a person being brought up in a totally different culture and might want students to get an exposure of other side of the world.
    And it is totally upto you how many things you want to make public. If you are not comfortable, you can deny.


    Yes, it's social anthropology.  Well aside from talking in a class full of students, it wouldn't be proper exposure, still I hate public talking so I'm still not sure.

    I am torn, I want to start doing more, to be more visual so that more doubting muslims get a chance to see others leaving Islam, but again I hate public talking lol I am no Maryam namazie.  Tongue


    This could be an opportunity to make a name for yourself  dance Would be helpful in getting 'known' and getting books published  Wink
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1086 - December 11, 2008, 06:08 PM
    Keep forgetting to add the latest in Berb's soap drama life, BerbEnders  parrot

    Yesterday was my the final court date, in a long line of 2 and half yars of court dates.  (not quite last, there is a review in six months but that's a minor).

    Anyway the judge awarded me a non molestation order, and a prohibited steps order to prevent him obtaining passports or taking them out of the country or my care, and a residence order for sole custody.  dance  All these things my ex refused but the judge gave to me because a promise from a liar (as the judge put it) would not be sufficient.  Afro

    I gave him access to the children to progress in incremental stages, 3 months of day off site with no supervison for 5 hours once a fortnight, then 3 months of one over night stay per fortnight, finally to progress to whole weekends after the review in 6 months.

    The only issue that remains unsolved is the courts say in 6 months it will be my responsibilty to facilitate hand over for those full weekend sessions by way of meeting the father in a public place, I have refused and said that if forced into that situation I would be happy to be dragged back to court when I stop access again over it.

    This is how I feel now though, maybe in 6 months I will be ready to face a public handover like that, I certainly feel stronger within myself, but I;m not totally there so for now I stand by what I have said.

    I am very pleased to reach the end of this madness, not that future madness won't rear it's ugly head when my ex inevitably fucks up in some way, but right here, right now it feels over for awhile.

    I genuinelly hope from the bottom of my heart that my ex does not screw up this opportunity because it would break the childrens hearts if they were let down by him, but even the judge is weary that this is just a long rope that he can hang himself with.

    I just feel like I am in a really good place in my life right now, I am socialising, I am living more than I have been for the past 4 yrs, and things seem so possible.

    Let's hope it is all onwards and upwards from here.

     bunny
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1087 - December 12, 2008, 02:18 AM
    Congrats Berbs!

    I'm so happy for you that you are finally on the path to what you deserve - happiness. You seem to be a great mother, and a very strong woman. I admire you.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1088 - December 12, 2008, 03:14 AM
    Quote from: heartbomb on December 12, 2008, 02:18 AM
    You seem to be a great mother, and a very strong woman. I admire you.

    Seconded.  Afro
    I chose to get circumcised at 17, don't tell me I never believed.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1089 - December 12, 2008, 07:35 AM
     hugs
    "Poor human nature, what horrible crimes have been committed in thy name!"
    - Emma Goldman
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1090 - December 12, 2008, 11:14 AM
    Sounds like the judge saw sense after all. Good stuff. Carry on socialising. parrot
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1091 - December 12, 2008, 11:59 AM
    the judge always sides with women in marital affies 90% of the time custody of the kids is handed to the mother, and 90% of the time mother wants custody so she can claim benefits, its an easy living.

    If I was a judge I would only give custody to the parent which was working or willing to work and not on benefits, at the end of the day money provides better education, children from poor families or families calming benefits on the whole are less educated and less cultured, then wealthy families.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1092 - December 12, 2008, 12:16 PM
    Oh fuck off. Tongue
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1093 - December 12, 2008, 12:22 PM
    Quote from: osmanthus on December 12, 2008, 12:16 PM
    Oh fuck off. Tongue


    [sarcasm]I see you are really encouraging debate and discourse here.[/sarcasm]
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1094 - December 12, 2008, 12:27 PM
    Well you were talking rubbish, as is your normal MO, so once again I maintain that you do nothing to encourage debate and discourse.
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1095 - December 12, 2008, 12:33 PM
    Quote from: osmanthus on December 12, 2008, 12:27 PM
    Well you were talking rubbish, as is your normal MO, so once again I maintain that you do nothing to encourage debate and discourse.


    Oh rely? Maybe you should click the link in my signature.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1096 - December 12, 2008, 12:34 PM
    It doesn't link to a topic on this forum.
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1097 - December 12, 2008, 01:11 PM
    Quote from: osmanthus on December 12, 2008, 12:34 PM
    It doesn't link to a topic on this forum.


    So now you want to play this stupid game. Why can't you just concede to a point I make? why is it always an uphill battle with you guys.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1098 - December 12, 2008, 01:15 PM
    You haven't made a point yet. My point was that on this forum you specialise in nonsense. So far you have done nothing to refute that. I'm hardly flabbergasted by this.
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1099 - December 12, 2008, 02:08 PM
    Quote from: osmanthus on December 12, 2008, 01:15 PM
    You haven't made a point yet. My point was that on this forum you specialise in nonsense. So far you have done nothing to refute that. I'm hardly flabbergasted by this.


    So your saying I've never contributed anything decent to this forum?
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1100 - December 12, 2008, 02:13 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on December 12, 2008, 11:59 AM
    the judge always sides with women in marital affies 90% of the time custody of the kids is handed to the mother, and 90% of the time mother wants custody so she can claim benefits, its an easy living.

    If I was a judge I would only give custody to the parent which was working or willing to work and not on benefits, at the end of the day money provides better education, children from poor families or families calming benefits on the whole are less educated and less cultured, then wealthy families.


    As Os said "oh fuck off".  Roll Eyes
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1101 - December 12, 2008, 02:31 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on December 12, 2008, 11:59 AM
    the judge always sides with women in marital affies 90% of the time custody of the kids is handed to the mother, and 90% of the time mother wants custody so she can claim benefits, its an easy living.

    If I was a judge I would only give custody to the parent which was working or willing to work and not on benefits, at the end of the day money provides better education, children from poor families or families calming benefits on the whole are less educated and less cultured, then wealthy families.


    King Tut,

    Go to your room, and don't come out until you can tell us what is wrong with what you said. Don't make we whoop you.  finmad
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1102 - December 12, 2008, 02:32 PM
    Anyway thanks everyone who said nice things  grin12

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1103 - December 12, 2008, 03:05 PM
    Quote from: Shaneequa on December 12, 2008, 02:31 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on December 12, 2008, 11:59 AM
    the judge always sides with women in marital affies 90% of the time custody of the kids is handed to the mother, and 90% of the time mother wants custody so she can claim benefits, its an easy living.

    If I was a judge I would only give custody to the parent which was working or willing to work and not on benefits, at the end of the day money provides better education, children from poor families or families calming benefits on the whole are less educated and less cultured, then wealthy families.


    King Tut,

    Go to your room, and don't come out until you can tell us what is wrong with what you said. Don't make we whoop you.  finmad


    Am sorry, but it is generally true here in England. ?500 pounds a week for one child, have  6 - 7 babies and you can live a lavish life-style all funded by the tax-payer, this is why I am going to move to Germany then dudes know how to finance.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1104 - December 12, 2008, 03:09 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on December 12, 2008, 03:05 PM


    Am sorry, but it is generally true here in England. ?500 pounds a week for one child, have  6 - 7 babies and you can live a lavish life-style all funded by the tax-payer, this is why I am going to move to Germany then dudes know how to finance.


    As if lol for a guy who gets no benefit you display your ignorance time and time again, I could only wish to get that much money a week.  Roll Eyes
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1105 - December 12, 2008, 03:19 PM
    Hey Berbs. It's been a long time! I hope all is going well with you. Do you mind if I look back on your blog and try to catch up on how you're doing?
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1106 - December 12, 2008, 03:26 PM
    Quote from: Shaneequa on December 12, 2008, 03:19 PM
    Hey Berbs. It's been a long time! I hope all is going well with you. Do you mind if I look back on your blog and try to catch up on how you're doing?


    No problem, go ahead, that's what it's here for  Tongue

    Where did you vanish to shan?
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1107 - December 12, 2008, 03:46 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on December 12, 2008, 03:26 PM
    Quote from: Shaneequa on December 12, 2008, 03:19 PM
    Hey Berbs. It's been a long time! I hope all is going well with you. Do you mind if I look back on your blog and try to catch up on how you're doing?


    No problem, go ahead, that's what it's here for  Tongue

    Where did you vanish to shan?


    I was glued to the Sean Hannity forum as we were getting into the election stuff. The 'Washington Politics' was crazy! It had at least 3 new threads per second. After Obama won, it slowed back down again, but I decided to stick around for awhile.

    Sean Hannity is an American Conservative news guys on Fox News...that's why his forum gets alot of traffic.


  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1108 - December 12, 2008, 03:55 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on December 12, 2008, 03:09 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on December 12, 2008, 03:05 PM


    Am sorry, but it is generally true here in England. ?500 pounds a week for one child, have  6 - 7 babies and you can live a lavish life-style all funded by the tax-payer, this is why I am going to move to Germany then dudes know how to finance.


    As if lol for a guy who gets no benefit you display your ignorance time and time again, I could only wish to get that much money a week.  Roll Eyes


    So how much is it? am sure it must be more then 200 pounds a week... I don't even earn that much a week while busting my ass off:


    98 quid for 12 hours.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #1109 - December 12, 2008, 03:58 PM
     Cheesy Do you need glasses Tut?  I mean look at the size of the text on your screen.  Cheesy
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
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