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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #60 - March 30, 2010, 06:15 PM
    Quote from: liberated on March 30, 2010, 06:10 PM
    it works both ways..


    Yeah, apparantly it does.

    I made a thread about it once elsewhere and many girls admitted to seeing men in the same meat market way.  Although in nowhere near the same amounts as guys do.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #61 - March 30, 2010, 06:18 PM
    Quote from: liberated on March 30, 2010, 03:26 PM
    So why pick 'retarted', why not pick 'stupid' since both have physical/mental reasons outside their control responsible for their conditions?

    Not always, the whole point of calling someone retarded is to bring in the disability aspect into it as part of the joke.  Calling someone stupid doesnt quite have the same affect, as stupid can mean someone has missed the obvious or having a bad day etc.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #62 - March 30, 2010, 06:20 PM
    Quote from: IsLame on March 30, 2010, 06:18 PM
    Not always, the whole point of calling someone retarded is to bring in the disability aspect into it as part of the joke.  Calling someone stupid doesnt quite have the same affect, as stupid can mean someone has missed the obvious or having a bad day etc.


    and yet when I use the word retarded I am not calling out on a disability, I am calling them stupid.  To me, it's just another way of saying stupid.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #63 - March 30, 2010, 06:27 PM
    Quote from: Heyjustlooking on March 30, 2010, 03:35 PM
    Ye, it is offensive, I have used many of those words but usually in a joking way without thought. Although it doesn't make it right.

    However not many people seem to care and it's not a grave wrong-doing so it does not bother me that much. I would add though as long as there is no ill intent behind the remark, then it's not really a bad thing, amongst friends.

    In the context of a joke a lot can be got away with, but using something as part of everyday language imo is different.

    Thats the thing, my limit for private jokes between friends is different to what I would be prepared to say on a public forum, where anyone could be listening.  That includes parents of such children, who spend all day loving & caring for them.  I dont think its fair, considering the priviliged position we are in, to start mocking such disabilities.

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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #64 - March 30, 2010, 06:30 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on March 30, 2010, 06:20 PM
    and yet when I use the word retarded I am not calling out on a disability, I am calling them stupid.  To me, it's just another way of saying stupid.

    +1
  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #65 - March 30, 2010, 06:30 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on March 30, 2010, 06:20 PM
    and yet when I use the word retarded I am not calling out on a disability, I am calling them stupid.  To me, it's just another way of saying stupid.

    I know - its become so common place that people forget what it actually derives from and what it actually is meant to mean.  I have never heard it as much as I have heard it on this forum.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #66 - March 30, 2010, 06:31 PM
    Quote from: IsLame on March 30, 2010, 06:27 PM
    In the context of a joke a lot can be got away with, but using something as part of everyday language imo is different.

    Thats the thing, my limit for private jokes between friends is different to what I would be prepared to say on a public forum, where anyone could be listening.  That includes parents of such children, who spend all day loving & caring for them.  I dont think its fair, considering the priviliged position we are in, to start mocking such disabilities.




    I have a sister with a mental disability, I have seen her teased by "normal" children.  That still doesn't make the word, in the way it's used, the way I do, as offensive........unless it is said to her, to insult her for the way she is.  The way she really is.

    I would never insult someone with something that was real to them, that could cause them pain through my words.

    So if someone is truly obese for instance, and we argued, I wouldn't call them fat, I would call them something else.

    Sounds really oddly thought out when I say it, I know, but it makes sense in a way that fits well with me.....or used to.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #67 - March 30, 2010, 06:57 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on March 30, 2010, 06:31 PM
    I have a sister with a mental disability, I have seen her teased by "normal" children.  That still doesn't make the word, in the way it's used, the way I do, as offensive........unless it is said to her, to insult her for the way she is.  The way she really is.

    Anybody who would try and insult a person with a mental disability by calling them a retard is the real retard.


  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #68 - March 30, 2010, 08:17 PM
    Quote from: Shahid Raza on March 30, 2010, 05:41 PM
    I really dislike the use of the word 'motherfucker' and I can't believe that it's so commonly used, especially in lyrics of rap songs.

    Some people ever refer to themselves as a motherfucker.  "I'm a bad motherfucker, yeah!!!"  Roll Eyes

    Seriously though, you must have a pretty perverted mind if you use that word.


    It doesn't mean you fuck your own mother.  A man who sleeps with the mother of his children is a motherfucker.    Motherfucker is my absolute favourite word.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #69 - March 30, 2010, 10:07 PM
    Actually it does mean that, originally at least.
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #70 - March 30, 2010, 10:57 PM
    Shut it you motherfucker!
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #71 - March 30, 2010, 11:05 PM
    Retard. Tongue
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #72 - March 30, 2010, 11:13 PM
    At least I ain't no motherfucker bunny
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #73 - March 30, 2010, 11:18 PM
    Can't prove a negative, baby. Why would anyone take your word for it?  Cheesy
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #74 - March 30, 2010, 11:56 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on March 30, 2010, 10:38 AM
    Slut, whore, slag etc.


    Not even during rough intercourse?
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #75 - March 31, 2010, 12:31 AM
    There is no Word that should be forbidden... freedom of speech is the highest gift and right we have, and im fucking gonna use it, even if you dont like how i do so!

    As we are, once again, drifting into the Sex topic. Just this weekend i had a nice little experience with my GF. I know she likes it rough from time to time, but on sunday (lol) she speificly asked me to... well... call her names. Dirty names... quite a turn on i have to say.  whistling2 (i say this, because it was not like before.  We used to do that, but she really wanted me to go for the nasty ones this time!)

    Im a bad boy... grin12
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #76 - March 31, 2010, 02:44 AM
    i thought you were gay digdeep  Huh?.. hence the name digdeep  cool2
  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #77 - March 31, 2010, 10:58 AM
    Ah well... names often misguide people.  dance
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    "Only the wisest and the stupidest men never change." - Confuzios
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  • Re: Words you wish members would not use
     Reply #78 - March 31, 2010, 12:04 PM
    Quote from: osmanthus on March 30, 2010, 11:18 PM
    Can't prove a negative, baby. Why would anyone take your word for it?  Cheesy

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