I wish I was in a position to do this, but I can't at the moment.
I can do the "other ways" though.
I want to get to that point, one day...
I think it will be fine as long as I'm not famous.

I can't imagine my parents reaction to my apostasy in general, but I'd guess that, if they accept it eventually while still broken-hearted, that the one condition would be for me not to go around publicly stating that I'm an ex/talking negatively about Islam. I would have a problem with the latter because obviously it would keep me from speaking about what I believe in... and there really is a gray line there. Should I be negative? I won't criticize just for the sake of it/just to be ugly/mean-spirited, but Islam/muslims have to be open to constructive criticism and learn not to get offended easily.
What do you guys think about that? As far as family and being open publicly about it (sometimes, extremely public, like in the media)?