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OP - November 28, 2015, 09:27 PM

So I have a crush with this dude and I really want to marry him, he's a muslim and a bisexual but he also like men more and he didn't want to come out to his parent's since his family is also a typical conservative family and he is afraid of coming out, we were friends for two years now we have a lot in common though like playing video game, doing art and talking about bodybuilding stuff like that, and he started to like me which is really great for me I really feel the same way for him. But I'm a senior now and he had finished school, and I really want to take him to America since it's a free country and the Supreme Court has made Gay marriage legal and I'm going to marry him there and live there for the rest of our lives. but I felt that I couldn't take him there with me and I sometime cry when I think about him not taking him there and let him suffer in that miserable tyrannical country (Malaysia), I just really want to hug him.
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Reply #1 - November 29, 2015, 02:24 AM

Do you live in Malaysia too, Jason?

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Reply #2 - November 29, 2015, 05:14 AM

Welcome. Why do you feel you couldn't get him to the US?

`But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
`Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.'
`How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
`You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
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Reply #3 - December 20, 2015, 10:03 AM

Quote from: Cheetah on November 29, 2015, 02:24 AM
Do you live in Malaysia too, Jason?

Yes...I live in Malaysia....
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Reply #4 - December 20, 2015, 10:04 AM

Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on November 29, 2015, 05:14 AM
Welcome. Why do you feel you couldn't get him to the US?

Somehow I just feel So hopeless...he is really dreamy.
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Reply #5 - December 20, 2015, 10:15 AM

I'm assuming you've been reading up on the laws and requirements for immigration, marriage/spouse visas, work visas etc. If you can meet these requirements there's no reason it can't happen. You're young so it'll take a while, but if your relationship lasts, well, stranger things have happened.

`But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
`Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad. You're mad.'
`How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
`You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
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