wasnt sure if i'd subsequently missed it,as you said this previously
I guess I got more used to 'getting to know' forumers (in other, usually different places like music and student boards) through their overall contribution to topics. Mainly, though, I visit online communities to escape personal stuff or divulging in my personal drama. However, I got especially more attached to this forum during my recent stay here in Jordan, where I really do feel rather isolated. So getting personal might not be such a bad idea.
Still, I've come to understand the courtesy of an intro thread in such a community during my stay here.