Always been a dom but I am really a switch. My experience was a little similar to tlaloc, in that they wanted to have the upper hand but when they got it, it was too much work for them. I made and braided my own whips. Seven of them. They were soft lamb leather whips and i was told by several play-partners (all of them?) that they are only good for noobs and little girls (so I guess that makes me a noob).
I had to make them soft because when I made the whips, I did not have a proper swing and also I did not know how to make whips and did not want to make a mistake that could cause damage.
I believe I have a compulsive personality so I do not really develop fetishes, just passing interests. My last gf was not into bsdm, the one before her was more into bi- so I did not really get to practice that 'swing' for a while.
What that hobby left me so far is that now when I see a butt that I like I have to think about it for a second if i can slap or not, and I have a strong weakness for fetish furniture.
Creeepy, creepy, creepy.
Look who came out of the woodworks. Long time no see Jack, wish it would have been a lot longer but I guess of all the threads this one peeked your crooked interest. A vanilla punk rocker stepping into a scene he was never meant to see.
Unfortunately, still as with all the other threads you slime with a brush of nothing, all you do is attack a poster, and fail to post anything about your experiences in life that would contribute to the value of the thread.
To the new posters on this site, Jack is one of those top candidates to test the ignore button on. He is like this Green ghost from the First Ghostbusters. A little cute in small doses. You can ignore him, that way you only get to read him when you choose to, instead of have him automatically pop at you just cause he chose to slime a thread.