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  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #30 - December 11, 2014, 11:02 AM

    Depressing.

    Shameless, nay proud, racism.  It's got to stop.


    Spoken like a true Race Traitor™!

    Ri, I wish I had a mother like yours. Granted, her reaction was far from perfect, but it's light years ahead from what my own mother would say or do if I told her about my apostasy. I think that for a muslim she is quite open-minded and that whatever you do in your life in the future, she will come around and accept it.

     far away hug

    He's no friend to the friendless
    And he's the mother of grief
    There's only sorrow for tomorrow
    Surely life is too brief
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #31 - December 11, 2014, 12:35 PM

    Ye your mums seems like a good person that loves you a lot, it's a big leap from former reactions observed

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #32 - December 11, 2014, 01:18 PM

    Like I said, I feel worse telling her now since she constantly starts talking to me about Islam. She thinks I'm going through a phase and that she once questioned Islam too. She still wants me to live by her rules (which is kind of the reason I wanted to tell her because I don't want to live fully like she wants me to) and thinks as I get older I'll accept Islam and understand it.

    Bad news is:
    You cannot make people like, love, understand, validate,
    accept, or be nice to you. You can't control them either.
    Good news is:
    It doesn't matter.
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #33 - December 11, 2014, 01:40 PM

    Ah ye Smiley the phase part....

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #34 - December 11, 2014, 01:52 PM

    Oh man. She just had another conversation with me and asked me if I thought people sleeping together before marriage was wrong and I said no I don't find it wrong. Our conversation ended on that note and I walked out the room. Ugh. Cry

    Bad news is:
    You cannot make people like, love, understand, validate,
    accept, or be nice to you. You can't control them either.
    Good news is:
    It doesn't matter.
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #35 - December 11, 2014, 02:17 PM

    Oh man. She just had another conversation with me and asked me if I thought people sleeping together before marriage was wrong and I said no I don't find it wrong. Our conversation ended on that note and I walked out the room. Ugh. Cry


     far away hug to you sweetheart! Just wish I could give you one for real.

     thnkyu all here standing up for what they think, you are an inspiration to me!
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #36 - December 11, 2014, 03:04 PM

    Spoken like a true Race Traitor™

    Takes one to know one.
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #37 - December 11, 2014, 04:29 PM

    :( Yeah I could use a hug.. or few. far away hug
    She just came in my room to tell me she feels like I'm playing some kind of game with her.  Huh?
    She said she tried to add up everything I've told her, e.g. travelling countries alone, moving out and now telling her I don't believe in God.
    Her conclusion, "I think you want me to hate you so you're trying to tell me things so I kick you out."

    what the fuck..... asdfghjkl.

    Bad news is:
    You cannot make people like, love, understand, validate,
    accept, or be nice to you. You can't control them either.
    Good news is:
    It doesn't matter.
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #38 - December 11, 2014, 04:32 PM

    hmmm seems like she is having a delayed reaction to what you told her...

    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #39 - December 11, 2014, 04:48 PM

    She even told me to go take a vacation to Pakistan yesterday (what a coincidence). I refused.

    Bad news is:
    You cannot make people like, love, understand, validate,
    accept, or be nice to you. You can't control them either.
    Good news is:
    It doesn't matter.
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #40 - December 11, 2014, 04:50 PM

    :( Yeah I could use a hug.. or few. far away hug
    She just came in my room to tell me she feels like I'm playing some kind of game with her.  Huh?
    She said she tried to add up everything I've told her, e.g. travelling countries alone, moving out and now telling her I don't believe in God.
    Her conclusion, "I think you want me to hate you so you're trying to tell me things so I kick you out."

    what the fuck..... asdfghjkl.


    Right! Or are just growing up so developing into your own sentient being!

    She even told me to go take a vacation to Pakistan yesterday (what a coincidence). I refused.


    Don't go to PK whatever you do! Serious maternal instincts coming in here.

    Love all of you guys!
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #41 - December 11, 2014, 04:51 PM

    I must add, I appreciate every one of you and your opinions/advice. You are so lovely and I'm so lucky to have come across this forum.

    Bad news is:
    You cannot make people like, love, understand, validate,
    accept, or be nice to you. You can't control them either.
    Good news is:
    It doesn't matter.
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #42 - December 11, 2014, 05:39 PM

    Perhaps back track a little? Just a little to get her off your back for now? It sounds like she needs a small victory over you, before she perhaps leaves you alone to find your own way back to the fold. Tell her you'll read into things more and get back to her?

    Baby steps Rhi. You're not going anywhere and neither is she.


    Hi
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #43 - December 11, 2014, 09:01 PM

    Musivore is giving great advice, Ri. Hang in there!
  • ❀ Random breakdowns
     Reply #44 - December 12, 2014, 12:57 AM

    Have a big hug from me.
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