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  • Sad news
     OP - November 14, 2009, 11:24 AM
    So, I went for my 12 week scan yesterday and the foetus appears to have stopped growing at 6 weeks but my body hasn't caught on yet and still thinks I'm carrying a viable pregnancy.  If there's no change by next week then I will probably have to have an induced miscarriage.  Cry

    Although it was purely a freak accident I was actually looking forward to carrying this pregnancy to full term and giving life to a little person, even though I was planning to give it up for adoption for several personal reasons.

    My mom was sad when I told her but I think my father was relieved, so was the father-to-be although neither would admit it.

    When I told my partner in crime who is a Hindu, he mentioned that according to his astrological charts which he firmly believes in he was not supposed to be a father at this point in his life anyway but that's still no comfort to me.

    Being a female really SUCKS sometimes!   Cry
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #1 - November 14, 2009, 11:26 AM
    Sorry to hear about that. Hope it turns out okay for you.
  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #2 - November 14, 2009, 11:27 AM
    Sorry to hear that, Nour.   far away hug
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     Reply #3 - November 14, 2009, 11:35 AM
     far away hug
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     Reply #4 - November 14, 2009, 11:41 AM
    Thanks guys.

    I'm still in shock a bit and afraid to go into town for fear of seeing all the families with babies which will probably start me off sobbing and blubbering.

    Life is such shit sometimes.
    Atheism is a non-prophet organization.

    The sleeper has awakened -  Dune

    Give a man a fish, and you'll feed him for a day Give him a religion, and he'll starve to death while praying for a fish!
  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #5 - November 14, 2009, 11:48 AM
    Quote from: Nour on November 14, 2009, 11:24 AM
    So, I went for my 12 week scan yesterday and the foetus appears to have stopped growing at 6 weeks but my body hasn't caught on yet and still thinks I'm carrying a viable pregnancy.  If there's no change by next week then I will probably have to have an induced miscarriage.  Cry

    Although it was purely a freak accident I was actually looking forward to carrying this pregnancy to full term and giving life to a little person, even though I was planning to give it up for adoption for several personal reasons.

    My mom was sad when I told her but I think my father was relieved, so was the father-to-be although neither would admit it.

    When I told my partner in crime who is a Hindu, he mentioned that according to his astrological charts which he firmly believes in he was not supposed to be a father at this point in his life anyway but that's still no comfort to me.

    Being a female really SUCKS sometimes!   Cry


    Sorry to hear this, Nour <hug>
  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #6 - November 14, 2009, 11:53 AM
    My condolences Nour.. sadly nature has no conscience.  I cannot even begin to think how difficult it must be.
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     Reply #7 - November 14, 2009, 11:57 AM
    My condolences Nour,
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #8 - November 14, 2009, 12:03 PM
    My thoughts are with you qalbi as well, I had a relative who went through the same experience....
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #9 - November 14, 2009, 03:08 PM
    Quote from: Nour on November 14, 2009, 11:24 AM
    So, I went for my 12 week scan yesterday and the foetus appears to have stopped growing at 6 weeks but my body hasn't caught on yet and still thinks I'm carrying a viable pregnancy.  If there's no change by next week then I will probably have to have an induced miscarriage.  Cry

    Although it was purely a freak accident I was actually looking forward to carrying this pregnancy to full term and giving life to a little person, even though I was planning to give it up for adoption for several personal reasons.

    My mom was sad when I told her but I think my father was relieved, so was the father-to-be although neither would admit it.

    When I told my partner in crime who is a Hindu, he mentioned that according to his astrological charts which he firmly believes in he was not supposed to be a father at this point in his life anyway but that's still no comfort to me.

    Being a female really SUCKS sometimes!   Cry

    Sorry to hear that Noor,  far away hug
    I know how bad it is to have a miscarriage, cuz my mom had 2 in her life. However don't get too depressed over it, you still have a full life ahead of you, and I hope one day you get the chance to be a mom  Wink
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #10 - November 14, 2009, 04:03 PM
    I'm sorry about this Nour. 
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #11 - November 14, 2009, 04:22 PM
    My condolences Nour. I hope in the future, you get to be a mother. I'm sure you'd be a good one.
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #12 - November 14, 2009, 04:42 PM
    So sorry about this Nour.... take care of yourself. There's no rhyme or reason for these things... you just have to get through it to the other side of the pain.
     far away hug
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #13 - November 14, 2009, 06:11 PM
     Cry
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #14 - November 14, 2009, 07:29 PM
    Sorry 2 hear, my condolences, and hope u do become a mother in the future.
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #15 - November 14, 2009, 08:39 PM
    Thanks, you guys.   far away hug
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    Give a man a fish, and you'll feed him for a day Give him a religion, and he'll starve to death while praying for a fish!
  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #16 - November 15, 2009, 12:24 AM
    Sorry to hear this Nour  Cry

    Take care
     far away hug
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #17 - November 15, 2009, 12:32 AM
    so sad to hear Nour, life can be cruel at times but the beauty of it is that just as there are bad days there will always be joyful days ahead, so juust hang in there and am sure you will be fine....remember you were strong enough to get past islam so am sure you will get passed this misfortune and come out a stronger individual...peace
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #18 - November 15, 2009, 06:51 AM
    Sorry to hear that Nour :( (Big hug)
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #19 - November 15, 2009, 07:00 AM
    Nour, It's so sad to hear of your loss. Hope all goes well over the next week and stay strong.
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  • Re: Sad news
     Reply #20 - November 15, 2009, 09:45 AM
    Sorry to hear that Nour  far away hug
    But u are a strong lady , and u still have all ur life ahead of u .
    best wishes for u dear  Kiss
    أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وأن محمدآ عبده ورسوله
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