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  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #30 - May 20, 2010, 07:21 PM
    You need to get laid.
    He's no friend to the friendless
    And he's the mother of grief
    There's only sorrow for tomorrow
    Surely life is too brief
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #31 - May 20, 2010, 07:21 PM
    @ Q-man

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    Just start masturbating in front of them-- that should fix your problem.


     Cheesy I don't think it's a sexual attraction... it's more like meeting an angel or something...

    Quote
    What's your PhD in?


    EE.
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #32 - May 20, 2010, 07:21 PM
    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 07:11 PM
    I do talk to a lot of women (at school and in public), it's just that I experience total metldown when I'm interacting with exceptionally beautiful ones... such inexplicable power they possess!

    You have to realise that they're not superhuman. They have the same fears, worries, concerns, and insecurities we all do. Most of them don't want to come off as intimidating, so there's no reason to freak out if you need to talk to them. Also, don't pressure yourself into thinking you need to be impressive at all times. Just act naturally, and try not to over think things.

    Quote from: Q-Man on May 20, 2010, 07:14 PM
    Just start masturbating in front of them-- that should fix your problem.

    Disregard what I just said. Do this instead.
    You need to read this book.
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #33 - May 20, 2010, 07:24 PM
    Quote from: Hassan on May 20, 2010, 07:20 PM
    "I love you will you sleep with me!"


    I just got an image in my head of a big retarded dude shouting that in a loud but monotone voice at a woman.
    fuck you
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #34 - May 20, 2010, 07:25 PM
    Thank you Hassan and Islame for being so honest... now I know I'm normal, phew!
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #35 - May 20, 2010, 07:28 PM
    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 07:11 PM
    I do talk to a lot of women (at school and in public), it's just that I experience total metldown when I'm interacting with exceptionally beautiful ones... such inexplicable power they possess!

    The religious indoctrination around sex, and being brought up in a gender-segregated society doesn't help matters either.  (Although, I don't know if you were brought up in Saudi Arabia.)
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  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #36 - May 20, 2010, 07:37 PM
    Glad it went well. Afro

    As for your question, I used to feel awkward when I first started hanging out with girls (16-17). My friends told me I used to put both hands in my pocket when I talked to girls. Grin Not anymore though. It doesn't make a difference if the girl is attractive or not unless I'm hitting on one  Wink

    I only get a little embarrassed/awkward around women taller than me. I'm 5'7  Cry Cry so that's a lot of women.
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #37 - May 20, 2010, 07:38 PM
    Were the friends who were mocking you Arab?

    Agree with Ateapotist, I went to a boys grammar school, so its not surprising that I shared the same issue as you in my early years..
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  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #38 - May 20, 2010, 07:41 PM
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    The religious indoctrination around sex, and being brought up in a gender-segregated society doesn't help matters either.  (Although, I don't know if you were brought up in Saudi Arabia.)


    I was. But I left Islam for a few years and I never tried to approach women... I admit I'm shy around them, but usually I act like:  nyanya around them.. as if I don't care... but when they're just too damn beautiful, that's when I breakdown and look like a total retard Embarrassed
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #39 - May 20, 2010, 07:43 PM
    Quote from: IsLame on May 20, 2010, 07:38 PM
    Were the friends who were mocking you Arab?

    Agree with Ateapotist, I went to a boys grammar school, so its not surprising that I shared the same issue as you in my early years..


    One Korean American, the other one an Arab, yes.
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #40 - May 20, 2010, 07:44 PM

    Just smile at her and if she smiles back, chat to her.

    Simple.


    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #41 - May 20, 2010, 07:46 PM
    Quote from: Iraqi Atheist on May 20, 2010, 07:37 PM
    Glad it went well. Afro

    As for your question, I used to feel awkward when I first started hanging out with girls (16-17). My friends told me I used to put both hands in my pocket when I talked to girls. Grin Not anymore though. It doesn't make a difference if the girl is attractive or not unless I'm hitting on one  Wink

    I only get a little embarrassed/awkward around women taller than me. I'm 5'7  Cry Cry so that's a lot of women.


    you started hanging out with girls at 16?!I was still cooing and drooling, like a baby at that age.
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #42 - May 20, 2010, 07:49 PM
    Quote from: billy on May 20, 2010, 07:44 PM
    Just smile at her and if she smiles back, chat to her.

    Simple.


    I'm not trying to hit on any of them, it's just like feeling all bare and naked all of a sudden when I occasionally see one of those unusually gorgous ones.
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #43 - May 20, 2010, 07:54 PM

    Dude, that's normal. Most people get a little shy around people they are attracted to.



    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #44 - May 20, 2010, 07:55 PM
    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 06:44 PM
    Thank you guys for your sentiments... it went very smoothly, thank God, and they didn't ask for any modifications.

    Now, I have a question only *boys* can answer.

    When I see a gorgeous girl in public, for example, a waitress in a restaurant or at a coffeshop, I start trembling, my feet could barely carry me, and I feel like I'm almost going to faint... this happened to me a few times already, the last time was today, in a restaurant, after the defense...The girl at the reception was supremely beautiful and she asked a simple question: "how many today?" I couldn't answer... I went like: "Ahhh... Ahhh.. Ahh..." and then I lowered my head towards the ground, like a bad schoolboy standing in front of the school's principal. My friends kept making fun of me the entire time at the restaurant.

    My question is: did this ever happen to any of you? My friends say no, and I really can't explain it, but what is it exactly that makes me feel so *inadequate* around supremely beautiful girls?

    Please guys, be honest, and do tell whether this ever happened to you... could it be normal? why does it happen?


    Congrats on the smooth defense, Mr. Debunker  Afro

    And as for being nervous around beautiful women... not so much anymore. I don't really see myself as having a chance anyway, so it's no loss if I make an ass of myself in front of them.

    Unless, of course, I particularly like her. Then I can get pretty bad nerves. I tried to ask a girl out recently and my nervousness was pretty frigging noticeable, I can tell you that.
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #45 - May 20, 2010, 07:58 PM
    Quote from: Zebedee on May 20, 2010, 07:55 PM
    Unless, of course, I particularly like her. Then I can get pretty bad nerves. I tried to ask a girl out recently and my nervousness was pretty frigging noticeable, I can tell you that.

    Asking a girl out is a totally different matter.  It took me 3 attempts to get my words out to ask my first girlfriend out, and that was without being able to look at her straight in the eye.
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  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #46 - May 20, 2010, 08:07 PM
    Quote from: billy on May 20, 2010, 07:54 PM
    Dude, that's normal. Most people get a little shy around people they are attracted to.


    I would say my shyness is what prevented me from dating during my adoption of Deism... so it turned out for the best...

    Although, my being shy around girls, I guess, is what failed my first engagement... I was talking to her (over the phone), as if she were one of the guys (I didn't know what else to do)... she ended up accusing me of being a heartless, emotionless person...
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #47 - May 20, 2010, 08:10 PM
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    Unless, of course, I particularly like her. Then I can get pretty bad nerves. I tried to ask a girl out recently and my nervousness was pretty frigging noticeable, I can tell you that.


    like Islame said, asking a girl out is something completely different.. something I never even tried.
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #48 - May 20, 2010, 08:11 PM
    Quote from: IsLame on May 20, 2010, 07:58 PM
    Asking a girl out is a totally different matter.  It took me 3 attempts to get my words out to ask my first girlfriend out, and that was without being able to look at her straight in the eye.


    Yeah, it's hard, man. And it didn't help that the girl in question was beautiful. So much so that I'm still attracted to her, even though I don't even particularly like her.  But at the same time, I worked myself up about it, thought far too much about. That's probably the single worst thing you can do in such a situation.

    In future, I won't get my hopes up. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #49 - May 20, 2010, 08:13 PM

    Oh debunker. Thats just sad.



    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #50 - May 20, 2010, 08:13 PM
    Quote from: Zebedee on May 20, 2010, 07:55 PM
    And as for being nervous around beautiful women... not so much anymore. I don't really see myself as having a chance anyway, so it's no loss if I make an ass of myself in front of them.



    What the hell? Are you a hunchback? A midget? Are your front teeth missing? Why do you always put yourself down like that when it comes to women and relationships? I've seen a picture of you and thought you're pretty good looking.
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    And he's the mother of grief
    There's only sorrow for tomorrow
    Surely life is too brief
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #51 - May 20, 2010, 08:24 PM
    Quote from: billy on May 20, 2010, 07:44 PM
    Just smile at her and if she smiles back, chat to her.

    Simple.


    Weak. If you don't show her your cock, there's no way to know if she's really interested or just being polite.

    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 07:46 PM
    you started hanging out with girls at 16?!I was still cooing and drooling, like a baby at that age.


    No need to compare yourself to IA-- he's a smooth cholo fucker

    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 07:49 PM
    I'm not trying to hit on any of them, it's just like feeling all bare and naked all of a sudden when I occasionally see one of those unusually gorgous ones.


    Hey, man, if you're gonna feel like your naked anyways, you might as well actually be naked.

    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 08:10 PM
    like Islame said, asking a girl out is something completely different.. something I never even tried.


    Why the fuck not? I mean, seriously? What's the worst that happens? She says no.

    Now do you think it's reasonable to expect every girl you're attracted to is also going to be attracted to you? Of course not-- so why is the prospect of rejection such a big deal? Just means that particular chick you asked out and she said no isn't interested, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.

    Quote from: Zebedee on May 20, 2010, 08:11 PM
    Yeah, it's hard, man.


    You better believe it baby, hard as...oh, you were talking about something else. Never mind.
    fuck you
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #52 - May 20, 2010, 08:27 PM
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    Weak. If you don't show her your cock, there's no way to know if she's really interested or just being polite


    Weak. Some mens smiles are like a cock.

    In all seriousness, if you strike up a conversation, or just exchange a few words, you'll sense if she's just being polite or is flirting.

    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


    Quote from: arX on May 01, 2011, 03:33 AM
    God is Love.
    Love is Blind. Stevie Wonder is blind. Therefore, Stevie Wonder is God.

  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #53 - May 20, 2010, 08:28 PM
    Dude, all I know is that if debunker doesn't drop his drawers and furiously masturbate in front of the next beautiful woman he encounters in a restaurant, he's gonna regret it for the rest of his life.
    fuck you
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #54 - May 20, 2010, 08:30 PM
    congrats debunker, i is proud of you  far away hug i can imagine Engineering being a difficult subject area to get a PhD in. must be a load of your chest - doing anything nice to celebrate?

    don't worry about the girl thing, it tends to wear off once you get married - just make sure you marry a hot girl  Afro
    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #55 - May 20, 2010, 08:33 PM
    Quote from: abuyunus2 on May 20, 2010, 08:30 PM
    don't worry about the girl thing, it tends to wear off once you get married - just make sure you marry a hot girl  Afro


    Bad advice man

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1ZJiBHh-Yw

    fuck you
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #56 - May 20, 2010, 08:35 PM
    @ Q-man

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    Why the fuck not? I mean, seriously? What's the worst that happens? She says no.

    Now do you think it's reasonable to expect every girl you're attracted to is also going to be attracted to you? Of course not-- so why is the prospect of rejection such a big deal? Just means that particular chick you asked out and she said no isn't interested, doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you.


    I don't think it's fear of rejection, as much as her laughing at me for being delusional enough to think I might even have a chance. Anyway, I'm getting married soon, God willing, and all these insecurities, will be behind me.
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #57 - May 20, 2010, 08:39 PM
    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 08:07 PM
    I would say my shyness is what prevented me from dating during my adoption of Deism... so it turned out for the best... 

    Why is that for the best?  You dont know, you might have built up the courage to ask a girl out, date her for a while, fall in love, maybe not.  But you would have been more confident at least, and it would have added to your life experiences?  Little chance of that happening in Saudi.. something I would definitely regret for the rest of my life as a chance missed. 
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  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #58 - May 20, 2010, 08:41 PM
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    congrats debunker, i is proud of you   i can imagine Engineering being a difficult subject area to get a PhD in. must be a load of your chest - doing anything nice to celebrate?


    thanks, Abu.

    Celebration? only inviting a few friends over the weekend for sweets.

    PS. regarding convincing you that Hell is literal, and all that stuff, I changed my mind... I realized I was just super nervous because of my defense and I was redirecting my attention towards forcing you to see a truth you don't want to see...  I could still do it, if you're interested though  grin12
    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Dr Debunker, Good Luck!
     Reply #59 - May 20, 2010, 08:43 PM
    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 08:35 PM
    @ Q-man

    I don't think it's fear of rejection, as much as her laughing at me for being delusional enough to think I might even have a chance.


    What, are you super ugly or something?

    I see hot chicks with average or even below-average lookin dudes all the time-- sometimes they don't even have money either.

    Quote from: debunker on May 20, 2010, 08:35 PM
    Anyway, I'm getting married soon, God willing, and all these insecurities, will be behind me.


    Wow, that's sad dude-- you're gonna get over your insecurities around women by getting married?

    If I were you, I'd stick in the US for a while longer and just resolve myself to try to pick up every pretty girl I see.
    fuck you
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