Sadly this is a friend of mine, and that phone call continued for almost 4 hours.

I find myself always having this debate in my head, where I ask myself if her belief that she is too pretty for the world, and this makes her life far more difficult than for regular girls, is any worse than my belief that i am so ugly it makes my life more difficult than other girls?
I feel quite disgusted when she starts down that road of over self loving, but then disgusted with myself for reacting so hostile to self love and confidence.
Is it really so bad to believe yourself attractive? I find maybe we judge very harshly people who view themselves as attractive, and have more understanding for people who have bad self esteem.
Is this part of that whole beauty culture, in which the goal is to always be seeking to be more attractive, rather than believing yourself to be it already?
and so, this is why I remain friends.
The 4 hours was mostly an argument in which I was pointing out to her that ugly people get raped too, since she was suggesting they didn't. and that ugly people get sexually harassed too.
if they didn't, I wouldn't have experienced that shit. So it was quite a heated conversation, in which I pointed out also, for the umpteenth time that this constant "all the men in here want me" attitude was why I was her only friend.
But like I said, I am and remain friends with her in spite of this, because I struggle to see how her problem is any different from my problem, accept that mine comes with more understanding.