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  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1920 - August 07, 2011, 08:57 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 06, 2011, 08:11 PM
    When you find out that those friends that said they'd be there for you through thick and thin, and when you're on the verge of literally killing yourself and you give those friends a chance to prove themselves to you, you call them, you ring them, you text them. But you get no response. That's when you know you're truly all alone in this lonely world.

    Thank you for not picking up the phone today, thank you for making me realise how stupid I was to think that someone actually cared.


    Because god forbid people should be ill or run down right Zaiba?

    Seriously, if your post is referring to me, I don't need to prove anything to anyone.  I reached a hand out and offered support, but even support can get ill.  Can be depressed themselves. Can shut down themselves.

    Or do you somehow think only you feel like shit?

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1921 - August 07, 2011, 09:41 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 06, 2011, 08:11 PM
    When you find out that those friends that said they'd be there for you through thick and thin, and when you're on the verge of literally killing yourself and you give those friends a chance to prove themselves to you, you call them, you ring them, you text them. But you get no response. That's when you know you're truly all alone in this lonely world.

    Thank you for not picking up the phone today, thank you for making me realise how stupid I was to think that someone actually cared.

    Quote from: Zaiba on August 06, 2011, 08:31 PM
    All of them? Even now? 2 hours later? Yeah I don't think so. And I don't care no more. I just don't care. Cry


    not everything is as black and white as we like to think Zaiba, your friends could of been indisposed for a multitude of reasons, this doesn't mean they don't care. Even the greatest of Samaritans Mother Theresa would of had off days. So does that make it right that you give up on them as quickly as you feel they've given up on you. Until you hear what your friends say then it's best to hold judgement instead of jumping to conclusions and making a situation worse than what it needs to be. 
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1922 - August 07, 2011, 10:34 AM
    Quote from: BerberElla on August 07, 2011, 08:57 AM
    Because god forbid people should be ill or run down right Zaiba?

    Seriously, if your post is referring to me, I don't need to prove anything to anyone.  I reached a hand out and offered support, but even support can get ill.  Can be depressed themselves. Can shut down themselves.

    Or do you somehow think only you feel like shit?




    Yes you're in there somewhere, I called Amber, Benny, Yaw, You, Fahima, Anbereen my cousin who I have been helping for the past week or so.  It was 5-6pm, I get calls from these people in the middle of the night, I always call them back, despite my own problems I'm always there for them. Every single one of them. I really fail to see how not a single person could return the call or text and see if I was okay. I'm really sorry but I don't think I overracted. That was my last go at ever reaching out to anyone. My last attempt to see if I could get support from my friends.  Apart from you I just fail to understand why no one cared to find out why I called FFS I never ring anyone and the one time I do this is what I get?
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1923 - August 07, 2011, 10:39 AM
    There is no need to write people off so soon! You're taking a tad bit too personally.

    @ thread: I hate losing things.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1924 - August 07, 2011, 10:52 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 10:34 AM
    Yes you're in there somewhere, I called Amber, Benny, Yaw, You, Fahima, Anbereen my cousin who I have been helping for the past week or so.  It was 5-6pm, I get calls from these people in the middle of the night, I always call them back, despite my own problems I'm always there for them. Every single one of them. I really fail to see how not a single person could return the call or text and see if I was okay. I'm really sorry but I don't think I overracted. That was my last go at ever reaching out to anyone. My last attempt to see if I could get support from my friends.  Apart from you I just fail to understand why no one cared to find out why I called FFS I never ring anyone and the one time I do this is what I get?


    I'm not sure why you're other friends let you down, for myself I was feeling ill and depressed, so when my friend left I slept.  People ofen have other things to do, or have their own issues.  This is why i never call anybody when I am really low.  I just shut down and deal with my emotions myself since if I reached out and people were not there, it would hurt and make the situation worse.

    Simpler to just stop talking until the wave passes, than to talk to people and be misunderstood or let down. 

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1925 - August 07, 2011, 11:03 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 10:34 AM
    Yes you're in there somewhere, I called Amber, Benny, Yaw, You, Fahima, Anbereen my cousin who I have been helping for the past week or so.  It was 5-6pm, I get calls from these people in the middle of the night, I always call them back, despite my own problems I'm always there for them. Every single one of them. I really fail to see how not a single person could return the call or text and see if I was okay. I'm really sorry but I don't think I overracted. That was my last go at ever reaching out to anyone. My last attempt to see if I could get support from my friends.  Apart from you I just fail to understand why no one cared to find out why I called FFS I never ring anyone and the one time I do this is what I get?


    perhaps be more understanding of others, as you yourself wish to be understood by others.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1926 - August 07, 2011, 11:07 AM
    When one is young, they believe hard in friendships, as you grow older, you'll see friends are really nothing than people around you who happen to be at the same time / place,  can help each other within limit.  When it comes to the real crunch, you're on your own,  or if you are lucky, you'd have a loving mom/dad/daughter/son to stand up by you.  Never rely on friends....   as Ella said, they too have their own lives, issues and problems, even if you don't know about it.
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1927 - August 07, 2011, 11:11 AM
    @thread,

    I hate it when people are late. It always pisses me off.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1928 - August 07, 2011, 11:11 AM
    Quote from: Fara7 on August 07, 2011, 11:07 AM
    as you grow older, you'll see friends are really nothing than people around you who happen to be at the same time / place


    totally disagree, colleagues at work are just that but I don't see my friends in that light at all.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1929 - August 07, 2011, 11:12 AM
    Quote from: Ifrit on August 07, 2011, 11:11 AM
    @thread,

    I hate it when people are late. It always pisses me off.


    me too, but I do not mind making people wait for me!   whistling2 grin12
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1930 - August 07, 2011, 11:16 AM
    You know what? Forget it, I'm always wrong because in not even human am I? It's all good when someone needs me, it's all good for them when they need a fucking friend to lay over, you guys think I don't know what problems they have? I'M THE FUCKING ONE THEY COME TO WITH THEIR PROBLEMS. I KNOW EVERYTHING THERE IS TO FUCKING KNOW ABOUT THEM AND NONE OF THEM ARE HAVING SEVERE PROBLEMS. NONE OF THEM. OKAY? so please keep your taunts to yourself, you're not even trying to understand what the fuck I am going through.  Arghhh that's it. I can't take it anymore.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1931 - August 07, 2011, 11:17 AM
    Quote from: blossom76 on August 07, 2011, 11:11 AM
    totally disagree, colleagues at work are just that but I don't see my friends in that light at all.


    You are very lucky then,  I didn't have schooling in the UK, so didn't make these strong frienship ties, people I made friends after I cam here are people I met at uni, at work or other mums, or colleagues at work, all these were with people who happen to me at the same time/place, we shared a lot, and I have very good friends (mostly not English)  I know they would help when they can,  but I know there is a limit to their help and understanding. 
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1932 - August 07, 2011, 11:19 AM


    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 11:16 AM
    You know what? Forget it, I'm always wrong because in not even human am I? It's all good when someone needs me, it's all good for them when they need a fucking friend to lay over, you guys think I don't know what problems they have? I'M THE FUCKING ONE THEY COME TO WITH THEIR PROBLEMS. I KNOW EVERYTHING THERE IS TO FUCKING KNOW ABOUT THEM AND NONE OF THEM ARE HAVING SEVERE PROBLEMS. NONE OF THEM. OKAY? so please keep your taunts to yourself, you're not even trying to understand what the fuck I am going through.  Arghhh that's it. I can't take it anymore.


    Who the fuck is taunting you?

    Seriously, what did any of us just say that was taunting?

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1933 - August 07, 2011, 11:21 AM
    You are human, and as such you are complex. People will let you down, fuck it. Don't let it drag you down or turn it back to think you are somehow deserving of it. Nobody is taunting you.

    @ thread: stuffy weather.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1934 - August 07, 2011, 11:23 AM
    I have no idea why I visited this thread today, I normally avoid the hate thread becaue I don't like negative vibes, I can do with all the costiveness I can get...

    Zaiba pet, what's troubling you dear?? Are you worried about your next mortgage payment? Are your kids depending on you and you need to feed them, help them with homework and its taken over your life?  Is your boss being an ass and he is bullying you? Can you not afford dot eat?  Can you not afford the heating bills?  Are you worried about your love having cancer and dying on you??   Can you not find food to eat, or clean water to drink?  tell me??    
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1935 - August 07, 2011, 11:25 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 11:16 AM
    You know what? Forget it, I'm always wrong because in not even human am I? It's all good when someone needs me, it's all good for them when they need a fucking friend to lay over, you guys think I don't know what problems they have? I'M THE FUCKING ONE THEY COME TO WITH THEIR PROBLEMS. I KNOW EVERYTHING THERE IS TO FUCKING KNOW ABOUT THEM AND NONE OF THEM ARE HAVING SEVERE PROBLEMS. NONE OF THEM. OKAY? so please keep your taunts to yourself, you're not even trying to understand what the fuck I am going through.  Arghhh that's it. I can't take it anymore.


    who said you are wrong?

    all that's been said is that there are factors to be taken into account, because of how you're feeling everything is emphasised and feels/looks worse than what it is, just take your time before telling everyone to, in layman's terms, fuck off. It could be that your cutting your nose of to spite your face. Until you hear from friends as to why they didn't/couldn't reply just hold fire on the vitriol of aggression.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1936 - August 07, 2011, 11:28 AM
    You all are taunting me! Telling me I'm overreacted? Telling me I should be more understanding of others? All I've done is been a good fucking reliant friend. And when it was time to return the favor no one was there for me. That's all I came here for, to say that  I hate I was used.  I hate that no one understands me. So enough of your pointless advice that is making everything worse.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1937 - August 07, 2011, 11:31 AM
    Log off, go do something else. Cook, go for a walk, draw, watch tv, eat chocolate, but don't say things you will end up regretting. If absolutely nobody cared then nobody would even bother to respond to you, or try to reason.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1938 - August 07, 2011, 11:32 AM
    I am actually getting a bit tiered of the drama ....I hate drama
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1939 - August 07, 2011, 11:33 AM
    Who are you to tell me to log off?! I dot have to go anywhere. I'll do what I want and say what I want.

    If you're getting tired of my so called DRAMA then why you sill reading my posts? Put me on ignore if I'm fucking up your oh so perfect life.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1940 - August 07, 2011, 11:34 AM
    Quote from: Ferrero on August 07, 2011, 11:31 AM
    Log off, go do something else. Cook, go for a walk, draw, watch tv, eat chocolate, but don't say things you will end up regretting. If absolutely nobody cared then nobody would even bother to respond to you, or try to reason.


     Afro
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1941 - August 07, 2011, 11:41 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 11:33 AM
    Who are you to tell me to log off?! I dot have to go anywhere. I'll do what I want and say what I want.

    If you're getting tired of my so called DRAMA then why you sill reading my posts? Put me on ignore if I'm fucking up your oh so perfect life.


    to put it bluntly you're doing yourself no favours at all, the only one you're hurting here is yourself, people here have tried to be reasonable but you're just pushing them away, and just as you Fara can do or say what they want too.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1942 - August 07, 2011, 11:45 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 11:33 AM
    Who are you to tell me to log off?! I dot have to go anywhere. I'll do what I want and say what I want.

    If you're getting tired of my so called DRAMA then why you sill reading my posts? Put me on ignore if I'm fucking up your oh so perfect life.

    Gosh, it was a well-intentioned suggestion. Stop taking your anger and upset out on everyone. I could be very harsh in my postings, but i'm not and neither are alot of other people so what does this say about people actually giving a damn?


    (Just to keep on track:
    @ thread: getting caught in the rain)
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1943 - August 07, 2011, 11:46 AM
    Quote from: Ferrero on August 07, 2011, 11:45 AM
    (Just to keep on track:
    @ thread: getting caught in the rain)


    I don't mind it, I love the rain and freshness it brings.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1944 - August 07, 2011, 11:47 AM
    the tiredness of being alone
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1945 - August 07, 2011, 11:48 AM
    Quote from: blossom76 on August 07, 2011, 11:46 AM
    I don't mind it, I love the rain and freshness it brings.

    After you've just had a shower?  Wink
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1946 - August 07, 2011, 11:51 AM
    Just for the record, my life is far far from perfect, not even close, but I make the best out of the lemon I've been given and love being alive.... oh wait, I mentioned love, wrong thread.
    Teach us to care and not to care / Teach us to sit still.
    What do we live for; if it is not to make life less difficult to each other
    You are the music while the music lasts.
    T.S.Eliot
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1947 - August 07, 2011, 11:53 AM
    Quote from: Ferrero on August 07, 2011, 11:48 AM
    After you've just had a shower?  Wink


    that too, but I'm on about when you've had a good downpour and the air smells clean and fresh or is that something you only get living out in the countryside like I do.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1948 - August 07, 2011, 11:54 AM
    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 11:28 AM
    You all are taunting me! Telling me I'm overreacted? Telling me I should be more understanding of others? All I've done is been a good fucking reliant friend. And when it was time to return the favor no one was there for me. That's all I came here for, to say that  I hate I was used.  I hate that no one understands me. So enough of your pointless advice that is making everything worse.


    The only person making everything worse here is you right now.  You are being extremely rude to people who are only trying to make you feel better by giving you a more rational way to look at things, rather than the irrational reaction you are having.

    Quote from: Zaiba on August 07, 2011, 11:33 AM
    Who are you to tell me to log off?! I dot have to go anywhere. I'll do what I want and say what I want.

    If you're getting tired of my so called DRAMA then why you sill reading my posts? Put me on ignore if I'm fucking up your oh so perfect
    life.


    Again, uneccesarily rude to someone for just trying to advise you to take some time away from the pc since ALL you are doing is attacking people who are trying to help.

    I could dig up posts of yours in which you say no one on the forum cares because they don't reply to you quite easily, and then compare them to these posts of yours telling everyone who does reply to them, exactly how useless their replies are.

    Whatever your problem, you are wrong to take it out on us just for fucking replying to you.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: I hate...
     Reply #1949 - August 07, 2011, 11:58 AM
    Oh Zaiba, Zaiba, Zaiba.  

    Well I want you to tell us something now, never mind anything else for the moment, just answer me this:

    What words or actions from us do you expect to read, see or hear here that would make you feel that "yes they do understand me, yes they do know what I'm going through"?   Huh?
    "The greatest general is not the one who can take the most cities or spill the most blood. The greatest general is the one who can take Heaven and Earth without waging the battle." ~ Sun Tzu

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