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  • Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     OP - August 19, 2010, 01:08 PM

    So I was walking down to the train station one day, on my way home, and this bloke stops me and tries to flirt with me. Tells me I should smile, meh. I'm not too good with those situations, never know how to handle them. Any way he asks me for my number so I told him I already have a bf (which I do). He said he justs wants to be friends (do guys actually mean this when they say that or do they just like a challenge? Huh? I really want to know this so would appreciate some answers). So I gave him a fake number and then said I'm gunna be late for my train, I ran off before he could call me (so I can receive his number) and realise it's a fake number. (The reason I'm reluctant to give my number to strangers is due to bad experiences in the past).

    You'd think that'd be a hint that I don't wanna talk to you but I guess not. I met him again a few days later and he asks for my number again. Couldn't get out of it this time, I'm too nice (aka lack the balls) to say 'fuck off' so I had to give it to him this time. When he called me, it turned out that I'd met this guy before cause I already had his number saved. I cant remember who he was exactly, but I do remember that he either annoyed me or bored me to death the last time he was texting me. Oh the joy! Now I have to put up with this again.

    He texted me later that night with the message- "You ok". What a conversation starter! You can tell he's an expert! I decided not to bother replying to him. I really cant be asked dealing with this moron again. You'd think that'd reinforce the message that I don't want to talk to him but did it fuck. I've had several messages from him since. They're either some weird chain message asking me to smile or how I am, or he's just asking me how I am with his amazing conversation starting skills.

    8 messages on and I hadn't heard anything for 2-3 days. Thought he'd given up, but yesterday on my way to see my bf I bumped into him again. He tried to greet me but I told him I'm off to see someone and walked off as fast as I could. You really would think that he'd start getting the bloody hint by now! But noooo!!! I've had two messages since yesterday!!! Fucking hell! Give up already! I'm half tempted to text back a 'fuck off' but I'm too scared I'll bump into him again. I get the feeling that he'd probably still try and talk to me. Why the hell is he so obessed?!!!
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #1 - August 19, 2010, 01:17 PM

    Why the hell is he so obessed?!!!

    You must have really big boobs ^_^

    But, on a serious note, just tell him you do not like him?

    Do not look directly at the operational end of the device.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #2 - August 19, 2010, 01:20 PM

    "Just friends." Grin
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #3 - August 19, 2010, 01:22 PM

    He said he justs wants to be friends (do guys actually mean this when they say that or do they just like a challenge? Huh? I really want to know this so would appreciate some answers).

    Your question is badly formulated.

    Obviously, some guys actually mean it, while some others want more.

    Out of the ones who actually mean it, there is probably some who do not even think of sexing you, and some others who would not mind sexing you once you become "available".
    And out of the ones who do not actually mean it, there is probably some who would try anything to convice you to sex them, and some others who will just want to sex you so badly but will just eat their hands in envy and do nothing since you are "not available".

    Do not look directly at the operational end of the device.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #4 - August 19, 2010, 01:23 PM

    Tlaloc, are you a guy or girl?
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #5 - August 19, 2010, 01:24 PM

    Tlaloc, are you a guy or girl?

    Genetically, physically, or mentally? ;P

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  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #6 - August 19, 2010, 01:25 PM

    So are you m2f or f2m? Tongue
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #7 - August 19, 2010, 01:29 PM

    Mwahahahaha.

    I am physically male.
    On the "inside" I do not feel like I belong to any specific sex, so I find it a pain to follow the typically manly gender role.
    When it comes to sexual preference, I am only interested in (some) girls.

    Do not look directly at the operational end of the device.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #8 - August 19, 2010, 01:34 PM

    Your question is badly formulated.

    Obviously, some guys actually mean it, while some others want more.

    Out of the ones who actually mean it, there is probably some who do not even think of sexing you, and some others who would not mind sexing you once you become "available".
    And out of the ones who do not actually mean it, there is probably some who would try anything to convice you to sex them, and some others who will just want to sex you so badly but will just eat their hands in envy and do nothing since you are "not available".


    Lol fair enough.

    You must have really big boobs ^_^

    But, on a serious note, just tell him you do not like him?

    My boobs are average for my size I think. My sis has massive ones though, especially for her size  wacko

    I don't want to say that 'I don't like him', seems too harsh. If he texts me again then I will have to tell him to stop texting me, I just don't know how to say it in a way that isn't too harsh but will actually get through to him.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #9 - August 19, 2010, 01:36 PM

    Mwahahahaha.

    I am physically male.
    On the "inside" I do not feel like I belong to any specific sex, so I find it a pain to follow the typically manly gender role.
    When it comes to sexual preference, I am only interested in (some) girls.

    The "typically manly gender role" doesn't exist beyond stereotypes and models. Anyone who thinks he fits it is probably faking it. It's a social construct.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #10 - August 19, 2010, 01:39 PM

    Tell him you used to be a guy.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #11 - August 19, 2010, 01:39 PM

    I don't want to say that 'I don't like him', seems too harsh. If he texts me again then I will have to tell him to stop texting me, I just don't know how to say it in a way that isn't too harsh but will actually get through to him.

    Well, reread what you wrote so far.
    It's kinda obvious that you do not like him.

    Maybe you are scared of telling him that because, in your own eyes, it will be like admitting that you are shallow since you are passing a hasty judgment on a guy you barely know.
    BUT then again, you should realize there is nothing wrong with that.

    He also "shallowly" decided that he wanted to know you.

    So, just tell him you do not like him, cause it's pretty close to the truth.
    If you really really want to do him a favor, tell him WHY you do not like him, so maybe he learns from it? :S

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  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #12 - August 19, 2010, 01:41 PM

    The "typically manly gender role" doesn't exist beyond stereotypes and models. Anyone who thinks he fits it is probably faking it. It's a social construct.

    Agreed.
    But a lot of people seem very comfortable in it.

    I find it painful to bear.

    That's probably why I confuse internet people about my gender ;P
    I chatted with lots of users who doubted I was actually a guy after I introduced myself.

    Amusing Cheesy:D:D

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  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #13 - August 19, 2010, 01:45 PM

    So I was walking down to the train station one day, on my way home, and this bloke stops me and tries to flirt with me. Tells me I should smile, meh. I'm not too good with those situations, never know how to handle them. Any way he asks me for my number so I told him I already have a bf (which I do). He said he justs wants to be friends (do guys actually mean this when they say that or do they just like a challenge? Huh? I really want to know this so would appreciate some answers). So I gave him a fake number and then said I'm gunna be late for my train, I ran off before he could call me (so I can receive his number) and realise it's a fake number. (The reason I'm reluctant to give my number to strangers is due to bad experiences in the past).

    You'd think that'd be a hint that I don't wanna talk to you but I guess not. I met him again a few days later and he asks for my number again. Couldn't get out of it this time, I'm too nice (aka lack the balls) to say 'fuck off' so I had to give it to him this time. When he called me, it turned out that I'd met this guy before cause I already had his number saved. I cant remember who he was exactly, but I do remember that he either annoyed me or bored me to death the last time he was texting me. Oh the joy! Now I have to put up with this again.

    He texted me later that night with the message- "You ok". What a conversation starter! You can tell he's an expert! I decided not to bother replying to him. I really cant be asked dealing with this moron again. You'd think that'd reinforce the message that I don't want to talk to him but did it fuck. I've had several messages from him since. They're either some weird chain message asking me to smile or how I am, or he's just asking me how I am with his amazing conversation starting skills.

    8 messages on and I hadn't heard anything for 2-3 days. Thought he'd given up, but yesterday on my way to see my bf I bumped into him again. He tried to greet me but I told him I'm off to see someone and walked off as fast as I could. You really would think that he'd start getting the bloody hint by now! But noooo!!! I've had two messages since yesterday!!! Fucking hell! Give up already! I'm half tempted to text back a 'fuck off' but I'm too scared I'll bump into him again. I get the feeling that he'd probably still try and talk to me. Why the hell is he so obessed?!!!

    The fact he didn't accept the "I have a boyfriend" hint is a good indicator that he'd be a pita. The simplest way to extricate yourself from the situation is probably to text him a polite but firm message that you have a boyfriend whom you're happy with and are otherwise very busy so not looking for new friends. If he continues to text after that just ignore the messages until he gives up.

    In future, if someone asks for your number and you don't want to give it just say it's a policy of yours not to give out your number. If they persist and you really wish to placate them then offer to take theirs as a compromise and then simply delete it afterwards.

    Each of us a failed state in stark relief against the backdrop of the perfect worlds we seek.
    Propagandhi - Failed States
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #14 - August 19, 2010, 02:03 PM

    Tell him he's buttfuck ugly and would rather fuck a dog than fuck him.

    Actually, he'll probably think it's a challenge. Just invite him to a threesome with your boyfriend. I'm sure it'll be fun.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #15 - August 19, 2010, 02:05 PM

    Quote
    In future, if someone asks for your number and you don't want to give it just say it's a policy of yours not to give out your number.

    Lol yup. I'm gunna try and be firmer from now. Thanks for the advice. If he texts me again then I will reply with some sort of firm message.

    Maybe you are scared of telling him that because, in your own eyes, it will be like admitting that you are shallow since you are passing a hasty judgment on a guy you barely know.
    BUT then again, you should realize there is nothing wrong with that.

    I know Wink I'm aware I passed a hasty judgement but I don't care. I got a bad vibe from him when he first stopped me so meh.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #16 - August 19, 2010, 02:09 PM

     Why the hell is he so obessed?!!!

    Put on buraqa and see what happens.. or may be ask your boyfriend put on burqa and walk next to you and see the fools  reaction..

    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim
     
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #17 - August 19, 2010, 02:10 PM

    Just say your boyfriend is really possessive and doesn't like you talking to other guys. Oh and you have a stalker on your hands.

    19:46   <zizo>: hugs could pimp u into sex

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    well I am neither ex-Muslim nor absolute 100% Non-Muslim.. I am fucking Zebra

  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #18 - August 19, 2010, 02:16 PM

    Well if this type of behaviour counts as stalking then he is the third stalker I've ever had. All my stalkers have been asian too, what is it with these asian-male types and stalking?!!
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #19 - August 19, 2010, 02:16 PM

    Theyve seen too many bollywood films.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #20 - August 19, 2010, 02:17 PM

    Message him saying that you are pregnant and that you are sure he is the father.
    And that your family DEMANDS marriage.

    Then he'll think you're batshit crazy and will run away scared ^_^

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  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #21 - August 19, 2010, 02:18 PM

    Or maybe he'll accept.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #22 - August 19, 2010, 02:19 PM

    So I was walking down to the train station one day, on my way home, and this bloke stops me and tries to flirt with me. Tells me I should smile, meh.


    Jesus christ I hate when that happens. Mind your own fucking business, I'll smile when I want to Angry

    Also, next time someone bothers you with 'I just want to be friends', tell him you already have friends and don't want new ones. Works for me.

    He's no friend to the friendless
    And he's the mother of grief
    There's only sorrow for tomorrow
    Surely life is too brief
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #23 - August 19, 2010, 02:24 PM

    Why are you so pissed, Naerys? Turn that frown upside down.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #24 - August 19, 2010, 02:24 PM

    Tell him you've always wanted to fuck a guy with a strap-on.  Smiley

    19:46   <zizo>: hugs could pimp u into sex

    Quote from: yeezevee
    well I am neither ex-Muslim nor absolute 100% Non-Muslim.. I am fucking Zebra

  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #25 - August 19, 2010, 02:24 PM

    Grin
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #26 - August 19, 2010, 02:28 PM

    Tell him that you are bi curious and have had sex with girls and therefore are a bad influence and he wont go to heaven.
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #27 - August 19, 2010, 02:37 PM

    Change your phone number then next time you see him tell him to "Get Lost" then just walk away.

    "The greatest general is not the one who can take the most cities or spill the most blood. The greatest general is the one who can take Heaven and Earth without waging the battle." ~ Sun Tzu

  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #28 - August 19, 2010, 02:44 PM

    Tell him that you are bi curious and have had sex with girls and therefore are a bad influence and he wont go to heaven.

     I don't think that telling a guy that you have sex with guys and girls will scare him away. Tongue

    So once again I'm left with the classic Irish man's dilemma, do I eat the potato or do I let it ferment so I can drink it later?
    My political philosophy below
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwGat4i8pJI&feature=g-vrec
    Just kidding, here are some true heros
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBTgvK6LQqA
  • Re: Some annoying git wont stop texting me!!!
     Reply #29 - August 19, 2010, 02:53 PM

    Change your phone number then next time you see him tell him to "Get Lost" then just walk away.

    People with certain personality disorders can react badly to outright rejection. It's generally best to be polite in expressing your disinterest, imo.

    Giving your phone number to someone might seem innocuous to you but be interpreted very differently by the other person, who might see it as a reward for their persistence and sign that you are interested in them. The problem is that you've set yourself up because they will read continued hesitance or unwillingness on your part as an act at playing hard to get. ie. If they continue the same pattern of behaivour you'll probably give in yet again.

    Each of us a failed state in stark relief against the backdrop of the perfect worlds we seek.
    Propagandhi - Failed States
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