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 Topic: Your Last Birthday

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  • Your Last Birthday
     OP - September 11, 2010, 09:39 PM

    Where were you? and who did you celebrate it with? did you get any gifts?

    Mine was earlier this month. I celebrated it with my mum, dad, sister, and aunt at my aunt's place. We were in a short visit to London. We bought a small frozen cake from Marks and Spencer and waited for it to defrost for like an hour.

    I got a Burberry fragrance, a T-shirt, and new sunglasses.

    It was nice but boring !
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #1 - September 11, 2010, 09:54 PM

     Cheesy
    My birthday's weren't ever special either but It was always awsome to have family around.
    Those are nice presents....here is my birthday present to you...




    "A good man is so hard to find but a hard man is so good to find"
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #2 - September 11, 2010, 09:55 PM

    For a moment I thought that was you.

    I am disappoint.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #3 - September 11, 2010, 09:56 PM

    Well, it's my skin colour...so use your imagination and do with me what you will...

    "A good man is so hard to find but a hard man is so good to find"
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #4 - September 11, 2010, 09:57 PM

     Cheesy
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #5 - September 11, 2010, 09:58 PM

    My birthday was on July 7th....where's my present?

    "A good man is so hard to find but a hard man is so good to find"
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #6 - September 11, 2010, 10:01 PM







    19:46   <zizo>: hugs could pimp u into sex

    Quote from: yeezevee
    well I am neither ex-Muslim nor absolute 100% Non-Muslim.. I am fucking Zebra

  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #7 - September 11, 2010, 10:02 PM

    I haven't celebrated my birthday for the past 4 years. Go figure.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #8 - September 11, 2010, 10:05 PM


     Cheesy
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #9 - September 11, 2010, 10:06 PM

    Well, it's my skin colour...so use your imagination and do with me what you will...

    I need measurements.

     dance
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #10 - September 11, 2010, 10:06 PM

    No-one nearby to celebrate it with. It's just another day otherwise.


    Oh, 1st week of August.

    I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I remain.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #11 - September 11, 2010, 10:09 PM

    My birthday is in 3 weeks. I'll be all moved into a new city. I have some friends there, so I'll see what to do. Perhaps a night out clubbing.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #12 - September 11, 2010, 11:37 PM

    I was a Muslim for my 21st birthday, so I was sad because I couldn't drink or gamble.  Cry My birthday is July 4th, so a lot of things were closed. I did spend it with family (in which the Muslims that were keeping tabs on me said I was being sinful doing that) and went out to dinner.

    When I renounced the faith 26 days later, I celebrated promptly by drinking alcohol and gambling.

    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #13 - September 12, 2010, 12:08 AM

    I never celebrated my birthday, apparently according to our culture its unislamic, and my dad thought there was no point in celebrating it because it meant we were a year closer to death.

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  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #14 - September 12, 2010, 12:10 AM

    I never got why birthdays were unislamic. ::shrug::  finmad

    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #15 - September 12, 2010, 12:35 AM

    Cheesy
    My birthday's weren't ever special either but It was always awsome to have family around.
    Those are nice presents....here is my birthday present to you...
    (Clicky for piccy!)


    those are fake.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #16 - September 12, 2010, 12:49 AM

    My birthday was on July 7th....where's my present?


    Is Saathiya your real name?

    I don't listen to Indian songs much. But this is among my favourites.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gBXjR-CPvGs

    I prefer the original, which is Tamil. The natural sceneries throughout the song are incredible.
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mNHWikQ32J0

    I believe the music is strongly British Isle folk/traditional (especially the starting part - chorus)? (Celtic?)
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #17 - September 12, 2010, 12:55 AM

    No-one nearby to celebrate it with. It's just another day otherwise.



    Same here
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #18 - September 12, 2010, 01:07 AM

    It's not necessarily birthdays, but the customs that go along with it. Candles on the cake, birthday wishes, etc... all supposedly "pagan" origins.

    The only thing we have to fear is fear itself
    - 32nd United States President Franklin D. Roosevelt
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #19 - September 12, 2010, 01:14 AM

    birthday cakes seem to originate from greek and/or roman ideas, so technically, pagan.

    Not too sure about the wishes and candles though.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #20 - September 12, 2010, 01:26 AM

    Frankly. If it makes you happy, and hurts no one, do what you want on your birthday.


    I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I remain.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #21 - September 12, 2010, 01:27 AM

    It's not necessarily birthdays, but the customs that go along with it. Candles on the cake, birthday wishes, etc... all supposedly "pagan" origins.


    Blah, Muslims are just as bad as Jehovah's Witnesses. They don't believe in birthdays either.

    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #22 - September 12, 2010, 01:39 AM

    I don't have a link to this excerpt as it's in an email I got ages ago, but I thought it might be interesting enough to post:

    Quote
    What are the origins of some of the customs used to celebrate birthdays? Following are some secular publications and their comments of these origins.

    The German periodical "Schwäbische Zeitung" (magazine supplement Zeit und Welt) of April 3/4, 1981 on page 4 stated: "The various customs with which people today celebrate their birthdays have a long history. Their origins lie in the realm of magic and religion. The customs of offering congratulations, presenting gifts and celebrating - complete with lighted candles - in ancient times were meant to protect the birthday celebrant from the demons and to ensure his security for the coming year. . . . Down to the fourth century Christianity rejected the birthday celebration as a pagan custom."

    The book The Lore of Birthdays (New York, 1952) by Ralph and Adelin Linton, on pages 8, 18-20 had this to say: "The Greeks believed that everyone had a protective spirit or daemon who attended his birth and watched over him in life. This spirit had a mystic relation with the god on whose birthday the individual was born.

    The Romans also subscribed to this idea. . . . This notion was carried down in human belief and is reflected in the guardian angel, the fairy godmother and the patron saint. . . . The custom of lighted candles on the cakes started with the Greeks. . . . Honey cakes round as the moon and lit with tapers were placed on the temple altars of [Artemis]. . . . Birthday candles, in folk belief, are endowed with special magic for granting wishes. . . . Lighted tapers and sacrificial fires have had a special mystic significance ever since man first set up altars to his gods. The birthday candles are thus an honor and tribute to the birthday child and bring good fortune"

    This same book, on page 20, also had this to say about the traditional greeting of 'Happy Birthday': "Birthday greetings and wishes for happiness are an intrinsic part of this holiday. . . . originally the idea was rooted in magic. The working of spells for good and evil is the chief usage of witchcraft. One is especially susceptible to such spells on his birthday, as one's personal spirits are about at the time. . . . Birthday greetings have power for good or ill because one is closer to the spirit world on this day."

    And Horst Fuhrmann, professor of medieval history at the University of Regensburg, made this comment about birthdays: "The birthday celebration was in honor of one's guardian angel or god, whose altar was decorated with flowers and wreaths; sacrifices were offered to the god of festival, friends offered congratulations and brought gifts." Furthermore, he stated in the German newspaper "Süddeutschen Zeitung": "Great prominence was given the birthday parties held for the emperor, replete with parades, public banquets, circus plays, and the hunting of animals: spectacles disgusting to the [early] Christians."

    --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    [part of an article from a Christian's site]

    Origin of Birthdays

    Then where did birthdays come from? The astonishing answer is from the pagan practice of astrology! Thousands of years ago, when men looked up into the night sky and charted the stars, they invented calendars and calculated the birth dates, to the very hour, of kings, rulers and their successors. These ancient pagan astrologers meticulously examined horoscopes and birthday omens because they believed that the fate of the rich and powerful might affect an entire society. Even to this day, men have been putting their trust in horoscopes instead of God.

    In ancient Egypt, the pharaohs ordered businesses to close on their birthdays and gave enormous feasts for hundreds of servants. In ancient Greece, wealthy males joined birthday clubs composed exclusively of men who shared their birth date. Once a month, the club celebrated with a feast. When a member died, he left money to help pay for future parties. In Persia, noblemen observed their birthdays by barbecuing an ox, a camel and a donkey and serving hundreds of small cakes to the celebrants.

    In ancient Rome, the emperor gave huge parties in honor of his own birthday, which included parades, circuses, and gladiatorial combat. The celebration of days was so important to the average Roman citizen that the Roman calendar designated a majority of days for some form of celebration—including many birthdays of gods and famous men.

    The Roman calendar, with its emphasis on continual celebration, has had great influence on modern society. Consider the following quote about the origin of the Roman calendar:

    “Our [Roman] calendar is not Christian in origin. It descends directly from the Egyptians, who originated the 12 month year, 365 day system. A pagan Egyptian scientist, Sosigenes, suggested this plan to the pagan Emperor Julius Caesar, who directed that it go into effect throughout the Roman Empire in 45 B.C. As adopted it indicated its pagan origin by the names of the months—called after Janus, Maia, Juno, etc. The days were not named but numbered on a complicated system involving Ides, Nones, and Calends. It was not until 321 A.D. that the seven-day week feature was added, when the Emperor Constantine (supposedly) adopted Christianity. Oddly enough for his weekdays he chose pagan names which are still used.” (Journal of Calendar Reform, Sept. 1953, p. 128.)

    Modern birthday parties and celebrations by children take their form mainly from Germany, where the birthday child received gifts, chose a menu and received a candle-ringed butter or jam cake. The lighted candles for the cake may have originated from the birthday of the Greek moon goddess Artemis. Pagan worshippers honored her every month with moon-shaped honey cakes. Because the moon glows with light, the cakes were decorated with lighted candles.

    Saying “happy birthday” to friends and loved ones was society’s superstitious way of protecting them from evil spirits. Birthday thumps, bumps, pinches, etc., were said to bring luck and send away evil spirits. Party snappers, horns and other noisemakers were also intended to scare off bad-luck spirits.

    It should now be clear that birthdays are not only unbiblical, they are pagan!


    The only thing we have to fear is fear itself
    - 32nd United States President Franklin D. Roosevelt
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #23 - September 12, 2010, 03:13 AM

    Meh...  I stopped celebrating my birthday after I turned 30.  I still take the day off work if I can and will usually stay home and have a day long bake fest.

    Atheism is a non-prophet organization.

    The sleeper has awakened -  Dune

    Give a man a fish, and you'll feed him for a day Give him a religion, and he'll starve to death while praying for a fish!
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #24 - September 12, 2010, 12:33 PM

    Then I love celebrating my Pagan birthday!  dance I guess there was a reason why I enjoyed being a pagan.  yes

    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #25 - September 12, 2010, 12:44 PM

    I had an awesome time at my last birthday. Smiley 

    On my birthday after work Thinky said we're just going for some drinks and I thought ok it's cool, but instead he took me this lovely posh vegetarian restaurant and spoiled me! Then to top it off he gave me an awesome gift, a baby laptop.  dance

    Then that weekend we went out for a meal with close friends, drinks at a bar and then topped it off by going to a desi club night - he he good laughs!

    I'm lucky I got spoiled by lovely gifts -  I got perfumes, bags, shoes, jewellery and make up.  Smiley



     

    'The greatest glory of living lies not in never falling but in rising everytime you fall'
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #26 - September 12, 2010, 01:45 PM

    Last birthday didn't go to plan. I was supposed to be with friends but we got snowed in so restuarants got cancelled. Instead, we went bowling and then a fancy italian. Presents wise i got a cocktail dress, shoes, quiant earings, bath stuffs, monies, kitchen stuffs. I'm still waiting on half my present from my other half: pearls < *grumbles*>

    I've yet to have a birthday cake.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #27 - September 12, 2010, 02:17 PM

    I had an awesome time at my last birthday. Smiley 

    On my birthday after work Thinky said we're just going for some drinks and I thought ok it's cool, but instead he took me this lovely posh vegetarian restaurant and spoiled me! Then to top it off he gave me an awesome gift, a baby laptop.  dance

    Then that weekend we went out for a meal with close friends, drinks at a bar and then topped it off by going to a desi club night - he he good laughs!

    I'm lucky I got spoiled by lovely gifts -  I got perfumes, bags, shoes, jewellery and make up.  Smiley



     


    I am jealous.  whistling2

    Is your grammar defective? Just askin'.


    "The wound is the place where the Light enters you." - Rumi

  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #28 - September 12, 2010, 03:01 PM

    Me too.  sad

    I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I remain.
  • Re: Your Last Birthday
     Reply #29 - September 12, 2010, 03:40 PM

    Ohhh no! Don't be jealous and teary guys... one day you can meet me and I'll make your birthday wonderful!  grin12


    'The greatest glory of living lies not in never falling but in rising everytime you fall'
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