I don't know whether to laugh or be angry!! Men like you are so pathetic! You think you know everything about us women yet you have no fucking idea! Absolutely fucking none!!!
Women also need to be aroused! Do you know what happens when we're forced to have sex when not aroused? We're dry down there and as a result it hurts like fucking hell when men try and shove their fucking penis in! Not to mention some women end up bleeding or become soar for several days! Which is then made worse when our partner wants sex again and now we're not only dry, but also fucking soar!
Men get a hardon when they are aroused, we get wet which acts as a lubricant so we don't have to suffer pain and can actually enjoy sex. We both need to be available physically! Get it now?!
And don't get me started on the mental damage you fucking idiots can cause by ignoring our feelings on matters as intimate as this!
There will ALWAYS be times when one partner is not in the mood for sex. It is the usual course of a relationship. Sadly Islam's answer moronic answer is to punish the wife for it with angels curses.
This always happens. Try to understand what I'm typing, because you really jumped to a conclusion you already had in your mind. If all you see are demons, then it doesn't even matter what I type because that's what you will see.
What I was referring to was that men do not get aroused the same way. It's something physical which will get us going. For the woman, you could buy her something really beautiful or heartfelt and she'll get very aroused.
If you don't love your husband, or don't care about him obviously you won't feel anything. The rules are meant to soften her heart more to feel something, because as you should clearly know men don't soften so easy. I shouldn't even have to explain this, since most girls in the west seem to have a general sentiment that all guys are jerks.
Try to understand what I'm saying please.
And where is that found in the scripture? Last I checked the man is allowed to withhold sex as a punishment (see Quran verse 4:34). Not to mention the physical and mental abuse she has to put herself through by being forced to have sex whenever her husband demands it (or get cursed by angels). I can tell you that no one in a healthy relationship goes through any of this bullshit.
If either side is neglecting the other person's rights, they would simply withhold the other person's rights.
Don't men get the cold shoulder often when they do something wrong to their wives? What happens after? It works both ways here.
In a healthy relationship, people don't worry about it because it's healthy. It is when the relationship is unhealthy that we face all sorts of problems. People are becoming very selfish in marriage. Marriage is about mutual respect, love, and deep bonds. You're taking one single part of marital law in islam, and dehumanizing it.
Really? Do they now? I never knew this! You see, I thought my bf treated me as a beloved companion, he never makes me have sex on demand when I'm not in the mood, he always respects my feelings (and I also respect his). We don't have different rulings in regards to sexual matters, we treat each other equally instead. We've been together for several years and intend on staying together for the rest of our lives. I have many friends in similar situations. I never realised these men were treating us like meat. I must've been mistaken! Thank you for opening my eyes!! I feel like a veil has been lifted! I shall now obey my partner whenever he demands sex to ensure he is not treating me like a piece of meat. Obviously respecting my wishes when I don't want sex is treating me like a piece of meat.... Wait, that doesn't sound right....
Take a look around the west. What do you see on most TV ads? Who as the prostitute industry fashioned for? Why are the men always in such a rush to get into a woman's pants?
I didn't say all men are like this. I didn't say there aren't great relationships. I'm talking about society here, not individuals.
What the fuck is that supposed to mean?
Ok let's lay this bare.
Exhibit A: Wife refuses. Man doesn't want to cheat, so he forces her
Exhibit B: Wife refuses. Man goes and cheats on her.
Both are wrong in islam. What's so hard to understand?
Who says so?
Most interpretations of Islam are not backwards. They are positively retarded. Predictably. That's what usually happens when people take some Bronze Age shit seriously.
You should probably come back and reply once you are calmer =/.
Try to expound on these points with evidence to back your presumptions.
Take a look at reality. Anyone who's been in a serious relationship can tell you this, if they aren't arrogant. Sure, everyone is stimulated physically. But it's very different for the woman, look at how marketing campaigns work.
I'll give an example. In the diamond industry, they have maintained sales over the years by selling the idea of how emotionally important diamonds are to women. The significance of the ring is to women far greater than men. These things just appeal to her.
I'm give a crude example, but I can go in depth here. I didn't think something this basic would be questioned =S.
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