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  • Question: Do you agree with Osama bin Laden's opposition to the French burqa ban?
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 Topic: Another question for ex-Muslims

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  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #90 - October 31, 2010, 01:13 AM

    I don't know if he is an ex Muslim.  I find his logic too be too consequential, like many neocons imo.  But he isn't a traditional neocon, so I'm willing to listen to his ideas. 

    So once again I'm left with the classic Irish man's dilemma, do I eat the potato or do I let it ferment so I can drink it later?
    My political philosophy below
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  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #91 - October 31, 2010, 01:18 AM

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    Nor do I – lol – I was making the point that when a person doesn’t want to have a dialogue, when they don’t want to learn but stick to their closed minded views because it feels right to them – then if such people are disagreed with, then it’s good for there is be disagreement, because just like having an enemy you profoundly disagree with, it is a good thing since it shows you stand up for something.



    you crazy bro

    HO is a nutcake - Winston Churchill

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #92 - October 31, 2010, 01:26 AM

    HO - You remind me of Reihan Salam http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reihan_Salam (Q-man - you come across him before, do you know if he's an apostate too?)

    He's the son of American Bangladeshi immigrants (probably currently the highest profile Desi in USA today), an ex-Harvard thinker & political commentator.


    Had no idea about him! Thanks!  Afro
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #93 - October 31, 2010, 02:16 AM

    If I can answer some of your points:

    Your drink-driving analogy is silly, a woman wearing burqa doesn't present a danger to anyone else. You could argue it causes social division - this is sad and regrettable, but you can't stop someone from wanting to socialy segregate themselves - once again sad, but it's the individuals choice. It's a little like saying you want to ban people from being reclusive - you can't control people in this manner.

    Some women do choose to wear the burka only after they've reached adulthood - so we can't put it down to indoctrination here - in fact i think actaully that most women who wear burka only start doing so from adulthood. And again if a woman wants to segregate herself in this manner, then it's up to her although we may find it  a bit stupid. And it is her indivdual choice - she is not causing 'social division' in the general sense i.e. she is not making other women wear the burqa - every woman who chooses to wear the burqa makes her own choice - those who choose to wear the burqa choose to cut themselves off from the rest of society - but this is their choice and they have the right to do so, again no matter how stupid we may find it.


    I won't deny that a balnket ban on the burqa would be a good thing in terms of it will give women who are being forced to wear it a good reason and argument not to wear it to their husbands/parents - and this almost makes me want to support such a ban. But of course this isn't the full story - those husbands and fathers that force women to wear the burqa in the first place are not the type to listen to reason and in a lot of cases it would have the opposite of the desired effect - these women wouldn't be allowed out the house. A reasonable husband/father would not force the burqa in the first place. And a lot of women do wear the burqa out of choice - if it is banned, again it could have the opposite of the desired effect - they would stay at home, not go to university, not be exposed to new ideas etc. In my opinion a blanket ban would be more counter-productive than lead to the progress you are so confidently claiming it would. I think such a ban would cause an already regressive community to regress even more.

    But regardless of these practical issues, there are fundamental principles at stake here which you appear to have little or no regard for. You want to take away peoples freedom in an unreasonable manner and appear to have no regard for the rights of your fellow human being in this situation. I too beleive in progress but not at the expense of taking away the rights of others - and I beleive in change that actually leads to progress.

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #94 - October 31, 2010, 02:24 AM

    They’ve changed a lot actually you’ve only noticed me until I reached a tipping point of pragmatic and consequentialism based views which has changed my view on things entirely.


    1. Well, I remember not long after you and I both came here you described yourself as a "neocon". Back when you had Rodin's "The Thinker" as your avatar.

    2. Yeah, see, you're a consequentialist. I'm not. Or at least I'm not for the most part-- where deontological ethics aren't clear, I will err on the consequentialist side, and sometimes a decision can be based primarily on concerns of deontological justice, but secondarily on consequentialist concerns. But overall , consequentialism is the road to hell, and, ironically it's a very Leninist kinda ethics. You know your neocon heroes never really shed their Leninist roots, right?

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    You are actually starting to share some thoughts now.


    I always was sharing thoughts-- you just didn't like those thoughts or the way I was expressing them. In fact, if writing is not the expression of thoughts, then what is it?

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    This is good, now why couldn’t we do this before all the swearing, name calling and negativity?


    Cause Fuck You, that's why.  dance

    Seriously, though, although I think you're a nice guy, you support, politically, much that I'm against. You are authoritarian, I'm anti-authoritarian. If I insult you every now and then it's because, well, you're the fuckin enemy, and sometimes that overshadows the fact you're a nice guy as far as I'm concerned. I'm sure my grandpa wasted plenty of Krauts in WWII that if there hadn't been a war on, he would have loved to hang out with and have a beer with.

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    (which btw, in my opinion implement the ideas of people like Locke/Jefferson for the safe keeping of individual rights and religion tolerance where applicable).


    Where applicable? Nah, fuck that. I'll take the idea of personal autonomy and limited civil government as a total package and not just apply it where it suits me, thank you very much.

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    I am sure at this stage you agree with me.


     Cheesy No, no I don't.

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    because just like having an enemy you profoundly disagree with, it is a good thing since it shows you stand up for something.


    Yeh, I dunno about that-- Hitler and Stalin had plenty of enemies after all. They stood for something, but that something is important.

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    clap This is what I call sharing thoughts and learning from each other.  Afro


    D'okay

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    3: No women freely wears a burqa Q-Man. I really hope this makes sense. Any woman who says “I wear it because I want to” says that because she has been indoctrinated from a young age or at some point in her life to think wildly incorrectly. For the lady who wears it because of indoctrination – this is unacceptable.


    Everybody is indoctrinated in something or other. This is no excuse for the state to step in. You will indoctrinate your children according to your belief system, as will I should I ever have kids. I was subject to semi-secular indoctrination in the public schools I attended-- I broke free of this indoctrination as have others.

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    Men is Islam are not forced to wear one, and do they wear one? No.


    How bout the Taureg?  grin12 Those are Berber Muslims where the women are not expected to cover their faces, but men are.

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    Women on the other hand are forced to wear one, and so they wear it. If you experienced the shouting matches between my sisters and mother Q-Man, perhaps this would be ingraved in you emotionally like it is in me.


    Your personal experience, however emotionally powerful, is ifuckinrelevant. My mom's marriage to my dad ended with my pop being shot down on my front steps, then a few years later him ending up in prison. So fucking what? Do you see me arguing for laws to prohibit sleazy Egyptians from knocking up and marrying young White women?

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    As for the grown up women who wear one, say recent  converts, well just like it is idiotic of them to go drink driving, I would say it is idiotic of them to wear one because of the negative consequneces is has on society including social division (e.g. asking a burqa woman a question at a bus stop) and promoting such a ridiculous fashion accessory when evolution over millions of years wanted her to show her face in order to COMMUNICATE with people.


    Gotcha. You don't respect her choice cause you think it's idiotic, so you link it up with some horrible consequences to justify the state banning it.

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    Which the burqa does, I really do think. It affects Muslims sons and daughters growing up. It affects the society at large for social integration. Do you accept this? If you do no, we *completely* disagree and can't help each other if (I think) you can't see the blindingly obvious *facts* here (obvious to me, that is).


    So, then, let me ask you-- should the state be allowed to stop Christian families from teaching their children creationist ideas? Should the government prevent Orthodox Jewish families from teaching their children that women should wear wigs and garments that cover their arms and legs? Or that men should not shave and wear yarmulkes or hats? How far are you willing to go with this?

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    Which comes back to the issue of having a platform whereby law and order has a feedback mechanism for control. Wilders will be fine, because there is this platform. The Wilders hate speech trial has collapsed for this reason.


     Roll Eyes Read DeTocqueville, and a history book while you're at it. Majoritarian rule doesn't always have such cheery outcomes.

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    If the state is thinking better than it's populous, has rational, scientific, mathematical, social and subject matter expert reasoning to doing so; together with a platform for alterations, protests, demonstrations, being sued in the courts; then I think there are very good reasons (namely progress) for allowing the state do what is best for it's people, which means change and putting through laws. Look, I don't like some of the rushed technology bills/acts being put through, but there is a platform to change this. Law and order is very important just like bureaucracy (procedures, protocols, regulations) is important in multinational organisations for them to survive when there are thousands of workers. Yes, sometimes it is wrong, but with a platform to correct it, the pipes and filters of law and order which affects millions of people need to be constructed as time goes on otherwise you are halting progress for country/continent/human advancement.


    Wow, just, wow!

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    To me it feels like you are saying, "I'm not sure this will work, it feels like a slippery slope, I'm scared, so I will do nothing". Wake up, please wake up, progress comes with change mon ami.


    Bwahahahaha! You're arguing with someone who advocates social revolution and accuse them of fearing change. That's too fuckin awesome, man.  Cheesy

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QtORI3ZlPeg&feature=related

    "In battle, the well-honed spork is more dangerous than the mightiest sword" -- Sun Tzu
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #95 - October 31, 2010, 02:25 AM

    The problem with the banning the burka is it makes liberalism lose the ideological high ground as well.  If liberalism is truly about safeguarding individual choice over "society" then the burka ban cannot hold up.  This isn't to say that I am sympathetic to the plight of women who are forced to wear it, but it must be their choice and I am willing to help them in any way possible.  

    So once again I'm left with the classic Irish man's dilemma, do I eat the potato or do I let it ferment so I can drink it later?
    My political philosophy below
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwGat4i8pJI&feature=g-vrec
    Just kidding, here are some true heros
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBTgvK6LQqA
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #96 - October 31, 2010, 02:39 AM

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    I'm not sure about this one Cheetah. Before I get into it, I better just clarify that I'm not against a general blanket ban because I think the burqa, or any other aspect of any religion for that matter, needs to be respected or whatever - but simply because I think the state is unjustified in taking this choice away from women.


    What's so special about women?  I respect the fact that you're not engaging in special pleading for your religion, but I have to question why special, kid glove treatment   should be given to women.  The French state banned Jewish men/boys from wearing those silly skull caps in school, they banned Christians of both sexes from wearing crucifixes in school.  If people of those faiths are so freaked out by the prospect of sitting in a classroom without their favourite religious symbol on their heads or necks, I don't give a rats ass, and I don't expect the French to either.

    This is really not the same thing as the blanket burqa ban, which I do disagree with.  Its slightly comparable to the ban on burqas by private businesses/employers, in the sense that the state is paying for it, so they have a right to set some ground rules.  However, it is more  comparable to the US ban on teachers in public schools leading their classes in prayer, or teaching creationism, (or "the controversy" as it is known nowadays), in science classes.  The US govt is only violating the rights of students who are offended by these secularist limits if they deny them the right to an education outside the public sphere.  The same goes for France.

    As it happens, there are plenty of options outside state funded schools and universities in France.  Muslim women don't actually have to choose between their burqas and their future.  All they have to choose between is their burqas and a state funded education, and if they choose their burqas they can damn well pay for the privilege. 

    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #97 - October 31, 2010, 02:48 AM

    I'm with Rev Winton Dupree (aka Q-Man) and Cheetah.

    "Many people would sooner die than think; In fact, they do so." -- Bertrand Russell

    Baloney Detection Kit
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #98 - October 31, 2010, 02:56 AM

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    What's so special about women?


    nothing much - it's just we were discussing the burqa ban. i actually don't think that any religous symbol should get in the way of a good education and i personally wouldn't get behind the state banning them in their universities

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #99 - October 31, 2010, 02:59 AM

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    I respect the fact that you're not engaging in special pleading for your religion


    ...I'm Muslim but I don't have a religion  grin12

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #100 - October 31, 2010, 03:01 AM

    @abuyunus2 you remind me of my friend , he believes that islam is probably false but he still follows it
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #101 - October 31, 2010, 03:03 AM

    nothing much - it's just we were discussing the burqa ban. i actually don't think that any religous symbol should get in the way of a good education and i personally wouldn't get behind the state banning them in their universities

    But abuyunus, don't you think that if the niqab was not banned in state schools/colleges/universities, some Muslim girls would continue to wear it because they will not have an excuse to abandon it?  I don't think you can assume that *all* Muslim girls will avoid education completely (and stay at home) because of the ban.

    "Many people would sooner die than think; In fact, they do so." -- Bertrand Russell

    Baloney Detection Kit
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #102 - October 31, 2010, 03:04 AM

    nothing much - it's just we were discussing the burqa ban. i actually don't think that any religous symbol should get in the way of a good education and i personally wouldn't get behind the state banning them in their universities


    I don't think the state's ban on religious symbols is getting in the way of muslim women getting a good education - like I said, there are plenty of other options in France.  The French government  are simply setting ground rules in the schools and universities which they pay for.

    Any muslim girl/woman still has the option of a faith school, a private school, or home schooling. 

    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #103 - October 31, 2010, 03:05 AM

    @abuyunus2 you remind me of my friend , he believes that islam is probably false but he still follows it


    i don't 'follow' islam  Tongue

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #104 - October 31, 2010, 03:06 AM

    ...I'm Muslim but I don't have a religion  grin12


    I don't have a religion either, but I will kill you if you deny the existence of teh Yeti.   ghost

    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #105 - October 31, 2010, 03:09 AM

    @ it's not so easy for the women to take the burqa off , she may even prefer death over that you don't know the mentality of these women ,

  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #106 - October 31, 2010, 03:11 AM

    Yes, I do.  I just don't think the French government should be financially supporting it.

    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #107 - October 31, 2010, 03:15 AM

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    I don't have a religion either, but I will kill you if you deny the existence of teh Yeti.   

     


    worship

    ''we are morally and philisophically in the best position to win the league'' - Arsene Wenger
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #108 - October 31, 2010, 03:17 AM

    @Cheetah i approve of the ban too , it's just i hate seeing people throw off their education ,
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #109 - October 31, 2010, 05:14 AM

    I'm with Q-Man and abuyunus. I couldn't articulate it better myself.  Afro

    But I'll try.  Tongue

    Alright, I think we all agree that burqa is fucking oppressive! BUT, what you and I feel about burqa is irrelevant to the issue of state-imposed ban on something that doesn't have any effect on you and me. Replace burqa with socks worn with sandals or whatever disturbing thing you may find, to put it in perspective. The key point here is - Does Not Have Direct Effect On You. So drink-driving analogy is not applicable here.

    Everybody is indoctrinated in something. I find it sickening when the authority/state dictates and forces on us what is acceptable and and what is not. I live in a country where Islamic moral policing is rampant, and it really pissed me off when people support this kind of mentality. What's some guy eating in public during Ramadan got to do with you? Same thing here - What's some woman wearing additional piece of clothing got to do with you?

    I hate burqa. I hate what it symbolises. But who am I to force them to adhere to my thoughts and feelings? I bet when you were still a Muslim, you wouldn't have liked people to force you to eat during Ramadan because they feel that fasting for long hours is not healthy for you. Or to force you to chew gum because they hate your stinky fasting breath. Tongue

    The only thing we can strive towards is by education and greater awareness that they have the support (especially in Western countries, I hope) if they choose to break free from the indoctrination or abuse (being forced to wear one).

    "He hoped and prayed that there wasn't an afterlife. Then he realized there was a contradiction involved here and merely hoped that there wasn't an afterlife."
    ~ Douglas Adams
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #110 - October 31, 2010, 05:29 AM

    The problem is also that it can be used in reverse.  What is to stop an oppressive Islamic society to say that NOT covering the head is offensive and it should use state power to force women to cover up....

    Oh wait that already happens........


    See where the road goes......

    So once again I'm left with the classic Irish man's dilemma, do I eat the potato or do I let it ferment so I can drink it later?
    My political philosophy below
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwGat4i8pJI&feature=g-vrec
    Just kidding, here are some true heros
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBTgvK6LQqA
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #111 - October 31, 2010, 05:35 AM



    'Duct Tape Bandit' charged in robbery.

    Hey, let's ban duct tape!  grin12

    "He hoped and prayed that there wasn't an afterlife. Then he realized there was a contradiction involved here and merely hoped that there wasn't an afterlife."
    ~ Douglas Adams
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #112 - October 31, 2010, 10:14 AM

    If I can answer some of your points:

    Your drink-driving analogy is silly, a woman wearing burqa doesn't present a danger to anyone else. You could argue it causes social division - this is sad and regrettable, but you can't stop someone from wanting to socialy segregate themselves - once again sad, but it's the individuals choice. It's a little like saying you want to ban people from being reclusive - you can't control people in this manner.

    Some women do choose to wear the burka only after they've reached adulthood - so we can't put it down to indoctrination here - in fact i think actaully that most women who wear burka only start doing so from adulthood. And again if a woman wants to segregate herself in this manner, then it's up to her although we may find it  a bit stupid. And it is her indivdual choice - she is not causing 'social division' in the general sense i.e. she is not making other women wear the burqa - every woman who chooses to wear the burqa makes her own choice - those who choose to wear the burqa choose to cut themselves off from the rest of society - but this is their choice and they have the right to do so, again no matter how stupid we may find it.


    I won't deny that a balnket ban on the burqa would be a good thing in terms of it will give women who are being forced to wear it a good reason and argument not to wear it to their husbands/parents - and this almost makes me want to support such a ban. But of course this isn't the full story - those husbands and fathers that force women to wear the burqa in the first place are not the type to listen to reason and in a lot of cases it would have the opposite of the desired effect - these women wouldn't be allowed out the house. A reasonable husband/father would not force the burqa in the first place. And a lot of women do wear the burqa out of choice - if it is banned, again it could have the opposite of the desired effect - they would stay at home, not go to university, not be exposed to new ideas etc. In my opinion a blanket ban would be more counter-productive than lead to the progress you are so confidently claiming it would. I think such a ban would cause an already regressive community to regress even more.

    But regardless of these practical issues, there are fundamental principles at stake here which you appear to have little or no regard for. You want to take away peoples freedom in an unreasonable manner and appear to have no regard for the rights of your fellow human being in this situation. I too beleive in progress but not at the expense of taking away the rights of others - and I beleive in change that actually leads to progress.


    POTM
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #113 - October 31, 2010, 11:01 AM


    Its important to remember that the burqa is effectively banned in certain contexts in society already. You are not allowed to have your face covered inside a bank. I believe that shops are permitted to prevent those with faces covered to enter their premises. There was a case in Dewsbury in which a woman who wore a burqa wanted to work in a childrens school and it was not permitted.

    So their options for participating in society are already restricted by the wearing of a burqa.

    Personally speaking I'm not in favour of a blanket ban, but I would be in favour of supporting institutions that disallow faces to be covered on their premises, and I would investigate any school or Islamic institution that mandated it as compulsory for children to wear niqab / burqa. In fact, I consider any child who is made to wear burqa as being subjected to child abuse and involve social services in this matter.

    I also think its everyones responsibility to support in civil society those who advocate against the facial veiling of women, to speak truthfully about its misogynistic horror, and hold in our minds two thoughts - that as much as there might be some women who 'choose' to wear a shroud that reduces them to a genital stump of black, there are deep coercive pressures that play out in areas and societies where the burqa is seen regularly, and that many Muslim women do feel intimidated and pressured into accepting the veil in myriad, small and large ways that either appear off the radar, or are not registered or admitted to at all.


    "we can smell traitors and country haters"


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  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #114 - October 31, 2010, 11:03 AM

    But overall , consequentialism is the road to hell, and, ironically it's a very Leninist kinda ethics. You know your neocon heroes never really shed their Leninist roots, right?


    See this is why I like debating with you - to learn things. I've done some googling and I'm not convinced. Whatever it’s root, Neocons are starkly different. Plus, you’re the communism lover here if you don’t mind me saying so! Tongue

    If I insult you every now and then it's because, well, you're the fuckin enemy,


    Q-Man, please grow up. Smiley

    Yeh, I dunno about that-- Hitler and Stalin had plenty of enemies after all. They stood for something, but that something is important.


    Pure relativism.

    Everybody is indoctrinated in something or other. This is no excuse for the state to step in. You will indoctrinate your children according to your belief system, as will I should I ever have kids. I was subject to semi-secular indoctrination in the public schools I attended-- I broke free of this indoctrination as have others.



    So, then, let me ask you-- should the state be allowed to stop Christian families from teaching their children creationist ideas? Should the government prevent Orthodox Jewish families from teaching their children that women should wear wigs and garments that cover their arms and legs? Or that men should not shave and wear yarmulkes or hats? How far are you willing to go with this?


    Now this Q-Man, is a good point which I see Lukatic is also pointing out. On the one extreme, extremists groups who indoctrinate young men into being suicide bombers is plainly something for the state and people to be concerned with. While at the same time indoctrinating a child about God for plainly having faith is entirely different. The DIFFERENCE is the impact that indoctrination has in the ACTIONS people take. Yes this is an application of consequentialism. Now I’m really interested, why does this not make sense to you two?

    It’s getting tiring btw … not sure I can debate this – not many more bases to cover or rocks to turn. It's been good though, real good.  Afro
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #115 - October 31, 2010, 11:05 AM

    Children being forced to wear a burqa is horrific. Or even hijab, but the burqa, that's just cruel.
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #116 - October 31, 2010, 11:26 AM

    Your drink-driving analogy is silly, a woman wearing burqa doesn't present a danger to anyone else.


    At a macro level there is impact abuyunus. It impacts the earning power and productivity of females in my family who never got the chance to go to uni. It impacts my cousin who died because she was too shy to see a male doctor. It impacts the confidence of my aunts who are oppressed by uncles in daily life. I would be very surprised if you’ve not seen any such instances in your wider family (especailly the stricter ones).

    You could argue it causes social division - this is sad and regrettable, but you can't stop someone from wanting to socialy segregate themselves - once again sad, but it's the individuals choice. It's a little like saying you want to ban people from being reclusive - you can't control people in this manner.


    As I’ve said before, wearing the burqa IS largely FORCED onto women. As for those converts who do it out of their misguided choice – if a person had a misguided choice to kill all people in a town – then it is up to the state to stop that. You might not see ther difference between being reclusive and wearing a burqa, and I highly recommend reconsidering this point.

    Some women do choose to wear the burka only after they've reached adulthood - so we can't put it down to indoctrination here - in fact i think actaully that most women who wear burka only start doing so from adulthood.


    Abuyunus2, I’m so surprised at your very light touch on Islam. The reality is young girls are forced to act shy, cover up, are forced to fast during Ramadan (and make up for the days over their periods), restricted to higher education as well as wearing a scarf/burqa. If you’ve not seen the reality of this – then I conclude you must be a very liberal Muslim and it would be great for all of them to be like you – but there are hundreds of thousands of Muslim girls/women being affected with the 2.4 Million Muslims in the UK.
    A reasonable husband/father would not force the burqa in the first place. And a lot of women do wear the burqa out of choice - if it is banned, again it could have the opposite of the desired effect - they would stay at home, not go to university, not be exposed to new ideas etc. In my opinion a blanket ban would be more counter-productive than lead to the progress you are so confidently claiming it would. I think such a ban would cause an already regressive community to regress even more.


    Okay – let’s see what happens in France, next spring yes?

    You want to take away peoples freedom in an unreasonable manner and appear to have no regard for the rights of your fellow human being in this situation. I too beleive in progress but not at the expense of taking away the rights of others - and I beleive in change that actually leads to progress.


    Not really abuyunus2, more that I have so much regard for Muslim women and their rights to being confident, showing their face, and doing well in life and living a happier life that I think is ban is necessary.

    It’s been nice reading your thoughts, thanks. It's nice to be challenged with your points like the one on drink driving or being a social recluse. This is what I call a very decent debate. You should post more often. Afro
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #117 - October 31, 2010, 02:41 PM

    As for those converts who do it out of their misguided choice – if a person had a misguided choice to kill all people in a town – then it is up to the state to stop that. You might not see ther difference between being reclusive and wearing a burqa, and I highly recommend reconsidering this point.

    It's a wildly exaggerated comparison.

    The woman who chooses to wear the burqa troubles none other but herself, and willingly so.

    So why should the state care?

    "Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well."
    - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #118 - October 31, 2010, 02:47 PM

    Whatever it’s root, Neocons are starkly different.


    Only in their vision of the economic order, really.

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    Plus, you’re the communism lover here if you don’t mind me saying so! Tongue


    1. I'm a revolutionary libertarian socialist, I apply some Marxian theory, but my ethics aren't Marxian, nor is Marx my starting point for my ideological beliefs. I have some idea which could be considered "communist", but I'm much closer to anarchism, really.

    2. Even if I were a "communism lover" that doesn't mean I have to love Lenin-- The Left Communists, Council Communists, Kronsdadt sailors, Left SRs, Democratic Centralists and Workers Opposition certainly didn't care for Lenin, and thought he hijacked the revolution.

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    Q-Man, please grow up. Smiley


    HO, please suck my cock

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    Pure relativism.


    No, sir, YOUR position is pure relativism-- that if you have enemies it's good cause it means you stand up for something. I pointed out that what you're standing for actually matters. You're the relativist, and not just in this little side-debate either.

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    Now I’m really interested, why does this not make sense to you two?


    You owe me an answer to my questions that you just quoted first.

    "In battle, the well-honed spork is more dangerous than the mightiest sword" -- Sun Tzu
  • Re: Another question for ex-Muslims
     Reply #119 - October 31, 2010, 03:16 PM

    Which ones in particular? There are so many I answered the ones most relevant. Either way Q-Man we're done for this thread I think. You think I don't get it. I think you don't get it.
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