I see no point (logically or emotionally) in fetishising virginity.
+1
Srsly, if I stick my finger in your nose, i.e. i penetrate you with some random protrusion on my body, get some weird goop on my finger, etc. it's nothing, but when it's a penis and a vagina it's different?
granted nose fingering doesn't feel very good nor does it make babies, but surely that is incidental?
We have mind-fucked ourselves so much into equating sex with love, when logically it makes no sense to do so.
That being said, it's obviously not as simple as that. The sex and love connection it is so deeply entrenched in us now. Personally I am not advocating a switch as I think this system serves us fine, or better (as going around having sex with whomever would probably end in a lot of unwanted babies) but just if you examine it closely, putting so much importance and 'seriousness' on sex is absurd.