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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #450 - January 14, 2011, 02:35 PM

    Babies get a free pass to the shady groves of paradise without running the risk of post-mortem interrogation.

     Cheesy

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #451 - January 14, 2011, 02:47 PM

    "O you who believe, do not befriend outsiders who never cease to wish you harm; they even wish to see you suffer. Hatred flows out of their mouths and what they hide in their chests is far worse. We thus clarify the revelations for you, if you understand." [3:108]

     grin12



    And now, along with epilepsy, psychosis, pedopheilia, and OCD, he's paranoid, too?
     Cheesy

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #452 - January 14, 2011, 05:35 PM

    And if the answers do not satisfy one's rational mind, then they cannot be blamed for rejecting that belief - no?


    Absolutely. Thats why you dont seem me coming in here telling people they're hellbound. Everybody has to believe in something, & I believe it has to appeal to your heart & mind.
    I have seen ppl of various religions not only belonging to Islam, who see no need for rationality. They are happy with closing their eyes & ears & following a leader.

    In your situation God knows best. I have never judged you.

    What I dont agree with is when someone embraces a religion or loses his/her belief in God, based on some psychological experience or trauma, or solely on emotions or some conceited person who becomes the centre of his own universe & thinks they are way too superior to believe in God & wastes their life in trivial pursuit.

    My cousin for example became an atheist, because his dad was horrible to him growing up & he thought he would get back at him. He used to say that he was a Jew & he hates Muslims. Despite the fact that he was never raised a Muslim & his dad never prayed & always came across as anything but a Muslim. His dad was just a stereotypical Arab who wanted his son to excel in his studies, but he was way too harsh.

    My neighbour, became an atheist too. After he went to university he fancied himself an intellectual heavyweight, so he became "embarrassed" to believe in a God.

    I met a really nice guy at work who is an apostate, his whole family is extremely religious, he was a humanist. That guy I knew from his story that he was sincere. He respected my beliefs & was open to being convinced that Islam is true, he just needed convincing arguments.
    He was an extremely rational & intelligent person, it hurt me that he wasn't a Muslim, but I can't judge because at one point in my life I was a Muslim by name, & religious ppl can be so judgemental because they see themselves complete & others lacking.

    Whereas I believe you have to accept ppl for what they are & not pass judgement as none of us are God.

    Jumuah Mubarak btw

     
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #453 - January 14, 2011, 06:07 PM

    Thanks for the reply AbaAbdillah - Juma Mubarak to you.
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #454 - January 14, 2011, 06:53 PM

    Seriously guys, Debunker makes a whole lot more sense when you realise he's a total sub.
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #455 - January 14, 2011, 07:57 PM

    Absolutely. Thats why you dont seem me coming in here telling people they're hellbound. Everybody has to believe in something, & I believe it has to appeal to your heart & mind.

    I believe it has to appeal to your heart & mind.
    I have seen ppl of various religions not only belonging to Islam, who see no need for rationality. They are happy with closing their eyes & ears & following a leader.

    In your situation God knows best. I have never judged you.


    You have a good outlook, and its the message that I would like to have taken from the Quran.  There are good verses, and some very kind verses, but unfortanately it mostly does not read that way to me.  

    As well as the message, I believe Allah could have chosen a better vehicle to deliver it.  

    Instead he chose to deliver mano-a-mano, which is highly unreliable, slow & the same technique employed by those goddamn scientologists.  Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence and all that jazz  Smiley

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    What I dont agree with is when someone embraces a religion or loses his/her belief in God, based on some psychological experience or trauma, or solely on emotions or some conceited person who becomes the centre of his own universe & thinks they are way too superior to believe in God & wastes their life in trivial pursuit.

    My cousin for example became an atheist, because his dad was horrible to him growing up & he thought he would get back at him. He used to say that he was a Jew & he hates Muslims. Despite the fact that he was never raised a Muslim & his dad never prayed & always came across as anything but a Muslim. His dad was just a stereotypical Arab who wanted his son to excel in his studies, but he was way too harsh.

    My neighbour, became an atheist too. After he went to university he fancied himself an intellectual heavyweight, so he became "embarrassed" to believe in a God.

    I met a really nice guy at work who is an apostate, his whole family is extremely religious, he was a humanist. That guy I knew from his story that he was sincere. He respected my beliefs & was open to being convinced that Islam is true, he just needed convincing arguments.


    Yep, they certainly do exist - they are opportunistic (dis)believers - and at an ideological level can be ignored.  

    You seem to know a lot of exmuslims, when most of us meet them very rarely irl.  Where are you based?


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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #456 - January 14, 2011, 08:44 PM

    You have a good outlook, and its the message that I would like to have taken from the Quran.  There are good verses, and some very kind verses, but unfortanately it mostly does not read that way to me.  As well as the message.

    I believe Allah could have chosen a better vehicle to deliver it. 

    Instead he chose to deliver mano-a-mano, which is highly unreliable, slow & the same technique employed by those goddamn scientologists.  Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence and all that jazz  Smiley

    Yep, they certainly do exist - they are opportunistic (dis)believers - and at an ideological level can be ignored. 

    You seem to know a lot of exmuslims, when most of us meet them very rarely irl.  Where are you based?


    I am based in London.
    There are only three ex-muslims that I know personally, who I have briefly mentioned.
    The rest of the Muslims I know are either practicing, or psuedo-Muslims, or salafi's, or hizbi's, and a few shia.
    I think that many people out there reject the beliefs they grew up with, or are not very bothered about applying them, but they hold on to them because it has become part of their identity. So they remain Muslims, or Christians, or Jews, or whatever, merely by name.

    For somebody to boldly come out and say that they renounce their beliefs. They either looked at their beliefs very deeply and scrutinised it, and decided that it's not what they believe, or they didn't understand it very well to begin with and it overwhelmed them, or they became cynical because of a bad experience(s), or they find it hard to apply so they left it altogether.

    As for your other points, we'll agree to disagree.


  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #457 - January 14, 2011, 11:42 PM

    Good job putting it in retrospective.

    I don't think I've met many ex-Muslims, but I did know the "Muslims by name" type.

    They rarely pray, and maybe they are ignorant about Islam, but a few of them see fit to constantly announce with pride that they are Muslim.

    I think the issue of identity is also prevalent among devout Muslims, and I think that is one of the reasons why they don't leave their religion, or come to scrutinize it. Islam can constitute community and belonging, and for some, it's all that they know.

    "Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well."
    - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #458 - January 14, 2011, 11:53 PM

    Yes, culture & identity plays as a big part of Islam.  The number of people who would identify themselves as being a good Muslim or even having read the quran in a language they understand is much much smaller than their numbers suggest. 

    Thats why they are not as big a threat as the Pat Condells would like to suggest.

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #459 - January 15, 2011, 12:31 AM

    And about people leaving Islam due to bad experiences..

    Don't you notice when people go erratic with Islam (prayer beads, trembling, mad rambling about Jannah) after people die, or when something else happens?

    You could say emotions attach/tether people to Islam.

    "Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well."
    - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #460 - January 15, 2011, 01:49 AM

    And about people leaving Islam due to bad experiences..

    Don't you notice when people go erratic with Islam (prayer beads, trembling, mad rambling about Jannah) after people die, or when something else happens?

    You could say emotions attach/tether people to Islam.


    lol I don't think you saw my reply to hassan, I said the following:

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    What I dont agree with is when someone embraces a religion or loses his/her belief in God, based on some psychological experience or trauma, or solely on emotions or some conceited person who becomes the centre of his own universe & thinks they are way too superior to believe in God & wastes their life in trivial pursuit.


    I conceded that it goes both ways.
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #461 - January 15, 2011, 03:03 AM

    I just wanted to add in a side comment.

    I wasn't directly addressing you.     

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #462 - February 04, 2011, 02:15 PM

    @ donatelo

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    Because unless I agreed to any terms that he set before he created me, I'm not obligated to do anything for him.


    LOL! I know you will find this funny, but the Quran has it that you DID acknowledge (in a previous life?) that God is your Lord. 
    Regardless, I believe that I have no say in this, like I explained to you before, simply because I believe I was created by Him and thus He owns my soul. I’m referring to the same simple argument that the created is owned by the Creator.

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    Also, I don't see any evidence of his involvement in my life. I was born when a sperm fertilized an egg, and then the usual 9 months of pregnancy happened during which my mother had to take care of my nutritional needs, I got my food through her body and not by god's angels feeding me, etc. Finally I was born when she gave birth to me. Where in the process is the involvement of god which suggests that I owe anything to him? It was the result of natural processes.


    You’re asking me to show you the evidence that the Creator (of this creation) exists? If so, then I’m sorry, but I cannot help in this regard.

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    Of course I like my life. However, if before i was created, god told me the terms of my life which would be eternal slavery to him specially when I learnt of his views on women, allowing of a number of things that I consider unethical and outright disgusting, I would have chosen to not be created rather than to be the slave of someone I have 0 respect for.


    Like I said, you didn’t even exist before He created you to take your opinion. Anyway, that’s only part of the answer (which I gave in the previous post).

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    Wrong. When I promise to you that I will do something for you, I owe it to you that I'll keep that promise. When god promises in the quran that he is the most merciful, he owes to humans to show them this mercy that he has promised. Otherwise please explain how, after promising to be the most merciful, he doesn't owe it.

    If I created a robot, promised that robot that I'm the most merciful, and then went back on my promise and tortured the robot for all eternity, fuck yeah, I'd be one right unjust motherfucker.


    By saying that God owes it to Himself, and only Himself, to keep His promises, I wasn’t evading the question you NOW are more explicitly asking. So let’s drop this discussion about whether or not the Creator owns His creation and thus He owes His creation absolutely nothing (it was a simple yes/no question that you chose to ignore), your question really is how can God call Himself merciful when He’s ready to throw some of His creation for all eternity in a raging inferno.

    I already answered this in a previous post. Would you call yourself unmerciful if you chose to throw a heap of dust, or tiny clump of atoms, in your fireplace? After all, isn’t this what you (probably) believe? We’re nothing but soul-less heaps of stardust? So why should He care to give any of us, anything easier than eternity in Hell except He’s too merciful as to care for some of us?     

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #463 - February 04, 2011, 02:18 PM

    @ muddy the moron

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    Did you seriously said that?

    I was seriously thinking you were actually a nice logical minded muslim. But you completely destroyed your image with this statement.

    What do you seriously think human life is worth? it is comparatively nothing at all to your cosmic daddy, but you are a human too. If you have no respect for a fellow human's life, you are just a moron.


    It seems you’re mistaking me for someone who gives a fuck what you think (stealing this line from Hassan  Wink)

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #464 - February 04, 2011, 02:20 PM

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    Do your parents own you? No.


    You answered a yes/no question by posing a different yes/no question and then answering that surrogate question instead. Anyway, the answer to your question is no. The process through which I was created is not my creator and thus my parents do not own me.

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    We wasn't created. If there is something to dislike here, it's baseless assertions, like 'you were created'.


    Let’s take a step back. I wasn't discussing with donatelo whether the premise of my argument was true or not.

    The premise, again, was: only the Creator and His creation exist.
    The argument based on the above premise is: the creation is owned by its Creator and thus the Creator owes His creation ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.

    You simply refuse to discuss the argument and instead choose to reject the premise upon which the argument is based, which is fine, but that's not what I thought donatelo chose to do when he decided to discuss further with me, and that's why I continued the discussion with him.

    Your comment here reminded me of what happened in the other thread when we were discussing the nature of God and then one of the people partaking in that discussion declared that the point I was trying to make regarding the nature of God was invalid since there’s no evidence God exists. That left me wondering as to what was the purpose of debating the argument, when the premise was rejected, in the first place.

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    Also, you present these two choices like they are the only two choices - cherish the creator, or take your own life. What the fuck? What are you thinking? What's going through your mind?

     

    I didn’t say that. Let me translate what I said in points: the argument that since the creator did not take my opinion when He created me, then He has no right in punishing me, is invalid because: 

    1- Before I was created, I did not even exist for anyone to take my opinion about the prospect of being created.
    2- Clearly, I am quite happy with the fact that I was created. Proof? I cherish my life and I’d do anything to stay alive. (this is what donatelo understood from what I said in my previous post, btw).

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    You cannot justify the heinous shit by simply asserting concepts such as justice don't apply to god and expect it to pass muster. You might not need a train of logic to take these things for granted, but other people do. Especially when this particular god expects us to enact its justice in this life and obey its commandments.

    I’m not justifying anything. I have been maintaining, all along, that nothing (done by God) needs to be justified. I again refer to the argument whose premise (that God exists) you reject.
     
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    This desert wraith you are worshipping should be setting an example, should it not?

    Of course not. None other than Him is the source of all existence, and thus thinking that I should emulate Him would only make me a monster.

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    So why does Allah care about our toilet habits and dress sense, or who we are friendly with/who we fall in love with? The grand architect of the universe, with the whole glorious cosmos for a playground, and he’s writing lists of prudish rules and dictating the toilet habits of some flash in the pan ape species on a tiny ball of rock in some backwater part of the galaxy. So caught up with human sexual areas and his own inadequacies that he has to set up some shabby and long-winded rat-maze ‘test’ just to keep his lonely, whiney, lazy, sorry arse busy. It's no wonder so many people have no respect for him. Who in their right mind could respect such an entity?

    And of all the people to choose as his prophet, he has to choose some dirty, illiterate pervert who has only slightly less mood swings than himself. Pathetic. What a fucking idiot god.

    Are you saying that you DO accept the notion that the infinite God should indeed care less if He sent all of His creation to an eternal inferno, yet there is a contradiction in Him being (seemingly) concerned with the minutest details of the lives of His creation? 

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    What is the attraction of reducing yourself this way? Are you a masochist? It isn't an attractive quality. What need is there to prostrate yourself in this manner?


    Like I explained, in a previous example, this has nothing to do with whether I *need* this or not. Again, if I believe I owe someone something, then I’ll return it to them whether I liked them or not, and regardless of whether they needed it or not. 

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    Square your shoulders, hold your head up high. Be your own man. Make yourself. Stop worshipping this desert phantom. It’s holding you back. Stop obsessing over ambiguous lines of text in a shitty, inferior book of superstitionist absurdity and mediocre oral traditions, full of petty local squabbles and the mundane micro-management of an age and culture you never even knew.

    Free your mind, man. You’re too bright to be Muslim. This Islam bollocks is indefensible and really quite silly.

    Now, I’m really curious: What makes you think it’s holding me back? I believe God exists, I maintain the 5 pillars and avoid the 9 greatest sins. That’s it.. that’s all.



    ++++++++++++
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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #465 - February 04, 2011, 02:23 PM

    Would you call yourself unmerciful if you chose to throw a heap of dust, or tiny clump of atoms, in your fireplace?

    After all, isn’t this what you (probably) believe? We’re nothing but soul-less heaps of stardust? So why should He care to give any of us, anything easier than eternity in Hell except He’s too merciful as to care for some of us?     

    Depends if they were conscious or unconcious bits of stardust.  You are mistakenly equating 'soulless' with 'unconscious'.

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #466 - February 04, 2011, 02:27 PM

    Seriously guys, Debunker makes a whole lot more sense when you realise he's a total sub.


    i don't understand. most people are subs, yet people are very different when it comes to their convictions. You, for example, are an absolute sub, yet you don't make sense to me either.

    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #467 - February 04, 2011, 02:29 PM

    Depends if they were conscious or unconcious bits of stardust.  You are mistakenly equating 'soulless' with 'unconscious'.



    stardust is NOT sentient. We have been all over this before, in another thread.

    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #468 - February 04, 2011, 02:45 PM

    stardust is NOT sentient. We have been all over this before, in another thread.

    You misunderstood what I was getting at.  I realise stardust is not sentient, but we are.  Thats why you're anology doesnt hold.

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #469 - February 04, 2011, 03:21 PM

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    You misunderstood what I was getting at.  I realise stardust is not sentient, but we are.  Thats why you're anology doesnt hold.


    so you're saying we are more than stardust. Ok, so what else are we made of (other than stardust)?

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #470 - February 04, 2011, 03:38 PM

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    what else are we made of (other than stardust)?

    Primarily hydrogen, which is not produced in supernova events.  This makes up over half of our bodies' atoms.

    Against the ruin of the world, there
    is only one defense: the creative act.

    -- Kenneth Rexroth
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #471 - February 04, 2011, 03:41 PM

    thanks for the correction, arx.

    @ Islame

    what else are we made of (other than stardust + hydrogen)?


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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #472 - February 04, 2011, 03:43 PM

    btw, arx, i thought stars had lots of hydrogen. i understand most other Periodic Table elements (but not all) are cooked up in stars.. anyway, so where did all this hydrogen come from, if not from stars?

    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #473 - February 04, 2011, 03:46 PM

    so you're saying we are more than stardust. Ok, so what else are we made of (other than stardust)?

    Nothing else, we are made of the same constituent elements, but because of this you appear to be arguing we should treat them as one of the same thing?   Unless I misunderstood your point?  

    I am merely stating that we are obviously not the same, its a bit like saying 2455454544 & 245 are made up of the same numbers, but are they the same number?  

    It might be OK to stick a lump of coal in the fire, but throwing a human being into the fire has different connotations.


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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #474 - February 04, 2011, 03:48 PM

    btw, arx, i thought stars had lots of hydrogen. i understand most other Periodic Table elements (but not all) are cooked up in stars.. anyway, so where did all this hydrogen come from, if not from stars?

    Hydrogen was present in the Big Bang.  But here on earth, I guess living organisms got their hydrogen from water.

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #475 - February 04, 2011, 03:53 PM

    @ Islame

    the point whether we're sentient clumps of atoms or not is besides the point i was making to donatelo. Soul-less, yet sentient clumps of atoms, or not, that doesn't change my argument: we are infinitely insignificant *relative* to the infinite God.

    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #476 - February 04, 2011, 03:55 PM

    Hydrogen was present in the Big Bang.  But here on earth, I guess living organisms got their hydrogen from water.


    aren't their any hydrogen in burning stars?

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #477 - February 04, 2011, 03:58 PM

    @ Islame

    the point whether we're sentient clumps of atoms or not is besides the point i was making to donatelo. Soul-less, yet sentient clumps of atoms, or not, that doesn't change my argument: we are infinitely insignificant *relative* to the infinite God.

    I dont believe we are insignificant to him, otherwise he wouldnt ask us to pray to him.  We mean something to him, although that might be small.  

    Nevertheless unlike stardust we feel pain as I pointed out , and as he is merciful, I would expect him to follow that through.  Otherwise he is not (or some bloke with ruddy cheeks, a beard & a harem to suit made it all up  grin12)

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #478 - February 04, 2011, 03:59 PM

    aren't their any hydrogen in burning stars?

    yes, from what I remember of astrophysics there is, but  I thought you were questioning its form on earth.

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  • Re: Hi from on the fence muslim
     Reply #479 - February 04, 2011, 04:10 PM

    @ Isalme

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    I dont believe we are insignificant to him, otherwise he wouldnt ask us to pray to him.  We mean something to him, although that might be small.


    Are you saying that you DO accept the notion that the infinite God should indeed care less if He sent all of His creation to an eternal inferno, yet there is a contradiction in Him being (seemingly) concerned with the minutest details of the lives of His creation (like worshipping Him for example)?

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    Nevertheless unlike stardust we feel pain as I pointed out , and as he is merciful, I would expect him to follow that through.  Otherwise he is not (or some bloke with ruddy cheeks, a beard & a harem to suit made it all up   )


    Please refer to the simple yes/no question above.

    A googolplex is *precisely* as far from infinity as is the number 1.--Carl Sagan
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