If Jon snow has to choose to stay loyal to his girlfriend of what like less than year or become commander of the night's watch and help bring stability to the night's watch
of course he should go with being commander of the night's watch. Ditching Ygrette was the best decision he made so far.
I really wish I could argue with you on that, but you haven't read the books and I don't want to spoil them for you. But overall I think your attitude about it stinks.
Choosing love and honor over being practical was what got Rob Stark killed in the first place.
LOL what honor was there is Robb marrying some random chick when he had already pledged his word to marry another?? He just followed his cock, that's it. As for Karstark, are you kidding me? This is a feudal system we're talking about. Lord Rickard, his bannerman and vassal, openly defied him (HIS FUCKING KING) and killed hostages Robb was going to use to try and get his sisters back. There was absolutely no other way he could have dealt with the situation but executing him.