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 Topic: Equality ???

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  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #120 - September 26, 2011, 02:06 AM

    Liking what you said Allat- I agree with you. The fact is the liberation of women (from oppression) is working towards an equal society where a person is regarded based on their individual attributes and contributions. The problem is there are many ignorant people out there who take a fragment of a good idea, get the wrong end of the stick and run with it. There are roles that need to be accomplished in society- and if only one gender CAN fulfil that role (only women can birth kids for example) then a value must be placed on this. The liberation of women (work in progress) is not about what job women can do, how women are better than men at everything etc, it's about respect.

    I hate it when people get an idea then sulk cos the world doesn't falll into line. Like men who fantasise about the 'perfect woman' who is beautiful, faithful and OBEDIENT!  Cheesy Not only do they demand this but they sulk when women aren't happy with this! I just don't get it. I see this in other things too- like my family wanting me to not only be muslim but to like it too, to marry a man and be inferior, and be grateful and pleased with it too! I hate it even more when people use positive words to oppress women into subservience, like 'women are so precious like a diamond so she needs to be taken care of by a man'- translation, women are too weak/stupid so need a man-boss.

    There is no need for gender oppression for a happy family. Many men have been liberated due to the female movement- enjoying the financial contributions of his wife, enjoying the love of children as a direct result of participating in the raising of the child (changing diapers etc), getting true respect and not cowed subservience as a result of giving respect.
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #121 - September 26, 2011, 04:41 AM

    Actually as a guy who's really into physical fitness but not sports, I'd automatically presume you're gay. Just sayin.


    ITS CALLED METROSEXUAL

    jeez

    Formerly known as Iblis
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #122 - September 26, 2011, 05:03 AM

    Why I, as an ardent anti-feminist, feel sorry for women

    By Erin Pizzey

    I feel sorry for women of my generation who were tricked into believing that the so-called women's movement had anything to offer women except tears.

    Professor Ruth Wisse from Harvard, has this to say about the women's movement......... 'By defining relationships between men and women in terms of power and competition instead of reciprocity and cooperation, the movement tore apart the most basic and fragile contract in human society, the unit from which all other social institutions draw their strength.'


    I believe that the women's movement internationally has been the most extreme and the most influential cause of the destruction of family life in this century.  The history of this movement goes back to the early sixties in America when the women's liberation movement was born out of the rage and frustration of American women working along side men in the left wing movements that were sweeping across the western world.  Like many women of my age, I was transfixed by the writings of feminist gurus.  I passionately believed in the message that was being touted through the pages of newspapers.  The seductive message was that women were going to cease to fight and to compete with each other.  We were going to come together to improve our role in society and to take advantage of choices that would enable us to compete in the work place, if we so wished.  We would be given control over our bodies and be able to make our own decisions over abortion.

    To this end we were invited to attend conferences where 'a new future for women' would be revealed.

    What was all too quickly revealed was an agenda that made my blood run cold.   Hundreds of women, all white, mostly middle class and largely from academia, assured us that they had the solutions to all our problems.  My problem as I saw it, was that I had recently moved into Hammersmith and was suffering from a great deal of isolation.  I supposed that the women's movement was geared towards helping women, like myself, at home with small children, to learn to reach out to others in our communities.

    I was very wrong. It soon became obvious that the women's movement was bent on infiltrating and destroying family life.   The enemy I needed to identify was behind my own front door.  Useless to protest that my husband paid our mortgage and enabled me to stay at home full time to be with my two small children.  I was howled down and ridiculed. Within a matter of months after that first conference the subject of women's liberation had become so fashionable that very few women would dare even suggest that they were happy to be at home and even less likely to admit that they were happily married.

    Some newspapers, through their women's pages, and virtually all magazines carried their new 'deal' for women.  Marriage and family life were little more than gulags where women languished, forced to service the bestial needs of men.  Women, in this brave new world, were now fueled with the information that women's sexual needs, denied them for so many generations by selfish and controlling men, were now paramount.  Overnight the roles changed and men no longer were the pursuer but became the pursued.  The pill took care of any consequences and old fashioned morality was thrown on the scrap heap.  Chivalry towards women by men was met with sullen rudeness and men began to feel the chill wind of universal female dislike.  Maleness became radically unfashionable.  Little boys were to be brainwashed into abandoning their traditional games and toys and encouraged to adopt 'femaleness.'  Men were to be redesigned and repackaged into 'new men.'

    Many men, at first, responded with cries of delight.   Blinded by lust and the lure of relationships without any responsibility, many men fully concurred with the women's movement.   Slowly, as women moved into positions of power, men began to feel the iron fist of the women's movement on their backs.

    Today, millions of men look back at the devastation this movement created in their lives.  Publicly derided as useless, feckless idle wasters, men have retreated into their holes to lick their wounds.   A generation of young men in their early twenties is now adrift in a sea of misandry.  They are regularly exposed as less able than their sisters and pilloried as academic failures by the press.  No wonder they turn to mental illness, suicide and drugs.  Their feminist mothers, in many cases with multiple sexual partners, have abandoned their role as care givers.  Children come home to empty rooms, empty fridges and no warmth.  These are the children of the 'nobody home' generation.  The feminist movement decreed that all women must enter the work force and hand their young children over to the care of the  'mother' state.  As the divorce rates soar, men refuse to make any commitment that ties them to women who, when they are bored with the relationship, will  boot the men out and keep the money and the children.

    The gross injustice to men deserves our concern but save your tears for  innocent women.  Our daughters did not deserve the inheritance of malice and spite that my generation of women heaped upon the shoulders of men.  The feminisation of the schools where all male efforts were seen as malignant.  The natural attraction between boys and girls described as 'sexual harassment,' and the terrible loss of tenderness and romance that has been leached out of the lives of women.

    What we have left, thanks to this evil movement, is a vast number of lone women trying to keep what is left of family life going. They never asked to be foot soldiers in what has become a feminazi army.  They were not blessed with skills and college degrees that gave them economic power to make decisions when they were abandoned by their men.  They believed that the feminist movement was going to offer them choices.  What they did not understand was that there were never any choices.  Men, realizing that they had been cast in the role of sexual monsters, retaliated.  Those that didn't pitch into the war of the sexes with relish, simply faded away.  Women facing the new millennium have few choices.  One of them must be to take back our homes and our families from the clutch of the feminist movement.

    Fight back against the ridicule heaped upon men.  Those men are our sons and hopefully, our future son-in-laws.  Where are the men and women who want to preserve family life in this country?  Are they willing to stand up and be counted?

                           CLICK


    Sounds like Republican ass drippings.

    I'm the last person to be on the feminist side on this issue.. but fuck is that shit above such whining exaggerated bullshit. Are there problems with how men and women relate to each other nowadays? Sure. But stop acting like its the fucking holocaust just cuz Agnus isn't obediently feeding you mashed potatoes and jerking your limpdick off until you're asleep. It's called freedom, and 50% of the population in the west finally has it. Are you surprised there are changes to how women behave? Are these men really surprised a shit load of women don't like the gender roles that've been assigned to them (BY MEN) for the last couple of thousand years? If you don't like these bitches don't deal with them, there are plenty of other women who are fine with calling you daddy and making you dinner, I hear thailand has tonnes of em. Just don't let em have the green card too soon, hehe Wink

    Formerly known as Iblis
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #123 - September 26, 2011, 05:08 AM

    ^+1 except you're not on the feminist side? That's weird-

    feminism: "a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights and equal opportunities for women."

    So you DON'T think women should have equal rights etc?

    The word feminism has been warped, many people think it's a fuck men attitude and it's aim is to oppress men and place women as the ultimate leaders etc. The reality is feminism is simply about equality and women being treated as human beings with ideas, thoughts, rights, etc. How can you be against that?
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #124 - September 26, 2011, 05:11 AM

    It's considered cool for women and men to distance themselves from "feminism", largely because of residual misogyny in even western cultures, but also partly because some reactionary feminists have contributed to giving feminism a crappy, anti-sex, anti-men image.

    However, IMO, the latter is blown way out of proportion by those (in the media and conservative/theological circles) who are actually anti-women, and who use reactionary feminists' misguided zeal as an exaggerated ploy to convince a lot of people, male and female alike, that feminism as a whole is a useless or a bad idea.

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #125 - September 26, 2011, 05:15 AM

    Feminism is more than liberation of women. Today it's also about liberation of men who don't fit into their socially prescribed gender roles and people who don't fit into the gender and/or sex binary.
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #126 - September 26, 2011, 05:20 AM

    The hatred of "feminism" is also often based on an uncomfortable relationship with what is seen as "femininity" - men who otherwise believe in gender equality may still not want to associate with a label that has "feminizing" connotations (a symptom of the residual misogyny of a culture that still looks down upon "femininity").

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #127 - September 26, 2011, 05:20 AM

    ^+1 except you're not on the feminist side? That's weird-

    feminism: "a collection of movements aimed at defining, establishing, and defending equal political, economic, and social rights and equal opportunities for women."

    So you DON'T think women should have equal rights etc?

    The word feminism has been warped, many people think it's a fuck men attitude and it's aim is to oppress men and place women as the ultimate leaders etc. The reality is feminism is simply about equality and women being treated as human beings with ideas, thoughts, rights, etc. How can you be against that?


    Nothing to do with oppressing men or anything. I don't think men are oppressed anywhere. It's a fucking joke.

    I just don't like a lot of periphery cultural aspects that are associated with feminism. And more importantly I just don't like a lot of the people associated with the movement. They are abrasive, defensive, pushy and overly aggressive. I just don't care for it much.

    Formerly known as Iblis
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #128 - September 26, 2011, 05:22 AM

    Feminism is more than liberation of women. Today it's also about liberation of men who don't fit into their socially prescribed gender roles and people who don't fit into the gender and/or sex binary.


    Exactly. At its best, it's about releasing all people from preconceived expectations of behaviour, emotion and life choices simply because of what is between their legs.

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #129 - September 26, 2011, 05:40 AM

    I like guns, big trucks, NHL, blond hair, big boobs, dirt bikes, huntin, fishin, drillin for oil, quaddin, yellin at immigrants n homos, just relaxin on da patio havin a beer n givin er. It's good to be a man in Alberta. Cool

    Formerly known as Iblis
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #130 - September 26, 2011, 06:06 AM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oECIKVaz5rc

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #131 - September 26, 2011, 06:40 AM

    I like guns, big trucks, NHL, blond hair, big boobs, dirt bikes, huntin, fishin, drillin for oil, quaddin, yellin at immigrants n homos, just relaxin on da patio havin a beer n givin er. It's good to be a man in Alberta. Cool


    I like guns, gaming, hunting, fishing, working hard, it's good to be a woman in Wales
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #132 - September 26, 2011, 06:51 AM

    Where in Wales? Roughly.

    We have a family place between Cardigan and Aberystwyth.
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #133 - September 26, 2011, 06:54 AM

    Near Lampeter but we're moving to Anglesea soon
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #134 - September 26, 2011, 07:10 AM

    Conti's cafe, the Old Quarry...

    Know it well.

    And the best chiropractor in the whole wide world is in Llanddewi Brefi.
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #135 - September 26, 2011, 09:22 AM

    no complains from me.

    i get turned on by strong powerful independent  women 001_wub
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #136 - September 26, 2011, 11:23 AM

    I don't think any of who strongly advocated the Womens Liberation Movement in the 70s coiuld or would have predicted that the end-product that now defines itself as liberated would turn out to be a simulacrum of the objectified woman/sex object men were back then (it seemed to me) rightly berated for having created.

    That image has returned, reinforced this time by self-validation, showing just how we internalize for ourselves the shelf-life outward appearances capitalism commodifies, transvaluating belonging and mutuality into a collective frenzy of purchase then dump, with fashion celebrity and the shopping mall as its spiritual centre, so that now even prepubescents and young men are finding themselves caught up in body image.


    I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #137 - September 26, 2011, 12:37 PM

    Feminism is more than liberation of women. Today it's also about liberation of men who don't fit into their socially prescribed gender roles and people who don't fit into the gender and/or sex binary.


    +1, yup, that is why we want them to go and work, and earned money for themselves rather than solely depend on our bank account.I aint daddy and am not ready to be one.

    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #138 - September 26, 2011, 01:53 PM

    but also partly because some reactionary feminists have contributed to giving feminism a crappy, anti-sex, anti-men image.


    MacKinnon and Dworkin?

    fuck you
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #139 - September 26, 2011, 02:36 PM

    MacKinnon and Dworkin?


    Yep, those would be among the top ones I was referring to. Though, having actually read them and not just their critics, I can say they were spot on with a lot of their observations, but I almost completely disagree with their conclusions and prescriptions.

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #140 - September 26, 2011, 03:31 PM

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  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #141 - September 26, 2011, 03:58 PM

    hypo, do you think women can not be misogynistic? Have you heard of Ann Coulter or Phyllis Schlafly?

    You are not "gender blind" - you are presuming that your perspective is the "neutral" "unbiased" perspective, which is a bias itself.



     Cheesy OK! I am biased towards  the center.
    Seriously I am surprised by your 'violent' reaction to something you perceived as a grave dissent of your philosophy. FFS I didn't write that article!
    It was in the nature of an exploratory post, I wanted to see how people reacted to it more so because it was a western woman who was writing it.
    I am mystified why you called her a misogynist.
    Just because she expresses an opinion you don't like she becomes a misogynist?
    I have read Ann Coulter's outpourings and don't like what she has to say,because she's an extremist .[I assure you I am not her stealth admirer! Cheesy]


    Secularism has a history of being white, middle class and academically based. Does that make it a bad idea? Why don't you rail against secularism?



    If it was 'black' instead of 'white' and 'poor' instead of 'middle class' it would have been more credible. I am reserving my judgment here because I have not had access to the works of neutral historians.These days it has become a tough ask!
    Moreover oppression can mean different things to different people!
    Western Secularism was indeed started by white,etc.etc and IMO it's a good concept  and I have no problems with it at all ,so why should I rail against it?
    If you focus on the spirit of secularism it has been practised  all over the world in different forms, for eg. a good,astute businessman will never mix religion with his business in a multi-religious  society!

    Feminism is the radical notion that women are people, that is all, on its fundamental level. That means they get to make choices, and mistakes, and accomplishments just like men do. Why this notion is so threatening to some people is baffling.



    It's not a radical notion if you accept the fact that women are human beings. I accept that unconditionally.[though some self proclaimed feminists might have a different spin on this one in that they feel they are some sort of super human beings and men are animals,etc.etc.]
    Any reasonable human being[especially a gender blind one] wouldn't find this notion threatening at all!

    Oh yes and this old fogey's personal anecdotal experience invalidates all that feminists have achieved for women, men and children. Roll Eyes


    For argument's sake how do you know her case was a one-off?

    Guess what, they were gulags for many women. Just because some women were happy with sugar daddies or were lucky to end up with decent men, does not mean all were (or are in modern states with little or no gender equality).

    Gender  equality obviously doesn't  mean sameness. You can be different and equal!

    IMO the following is the right spirit:

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    There are roles that need to be accomplished in society- and if only one gender CAN fulfil that role (only women can birth kids for example) then a value must be placed on this. The liberation of women (work in progress) is not about what job women can do, how women are better than men at everything etc, it's about respect.

     
     
     BTW Aren't you extrapolating here? Just because you don't like being 'imprisoned' in a house doesn't mean all women want that.


    Oh how awful for these laziest women to not be treated as property that can be bought, sold, exchanged. Cry me a river.



    That's insulting! And that's precisely what she was trying to point out--how feminists denigrated the family and stay at home mothers. They deemed that it was not a choice for 'real liberated' women
    As is too often the case with ex-muzzie men Roll Eyes, if this is the attitude you continue to have after you've apostated, you may as well have remained muslim.



    Ha! ha! I am not an ex-muzzie neither was I a muzzie so i am mercifully free of idelogies ,dogmas and 'isms'. Generally I don't like labels but I definitely don't mind SECULAR HUMANISM though.But  you do have that  certainty that the  muslims have in their ability to read people's minds and see hate in the most unlikely of places.

    Aww boo hoo grandma. How about chivalry that goes both ways? What happens if a woman holds a door for a man? Does the fucking universe collapse on itself? Roll Eyes


    Being pleasant to a fellow human being shouldn't be a part of 'sex politics'.The  universe doesn't collapse on itself but it's spirit contributes towards making the world a better place to live in. I personally never had a problem with this!
    Her gripe was with the fact that the feminists made a big deal about chivalry being demeaning to women!


    Yes how awful that gender roles were questioned at all. Tsk tsk tsk. Grin

    Oh FFS. No they did not. Read some actual history.



     Cheesy Was that directed at me? I might if time permits

    Yes it was so much better when only men could fist women and men. How dare women want any respect, autonomy, power-sharing or equality in any domain whatsoever??!
     finmad



    No that's only happening to the men who want a license to be assholes with no repercussions.


      Have not thoroughly researched it yet, so NO COMMENTS!

    Right... that's why the proportion of male students in the highest paying fields of science and engineering keeps increasing or has stayed the same. More bullshit... this granny's supersizin' it.


    I think her focus was on the overall figures which tell a different tale

    LOL. Yes it's perfectly okay for their daddies to be screwin' their secretaries. It's only mommy's sex that should remain pure. How Freudian Cheesy



     Cheesy Is it so common? The problem arises when the daddy of this particular mommy has a dick that doesn't engage in extra curricular activities because his biggest sex organ[brain] is engaged in more fruitful activities that benefit him and the family,what then? Tongue



    Yeah that's called a capitalist world economy where everyone needs to work just to be able to survive, you privileged bitch.



    I suppose swearing is 'halal' under certain conditions and poor truth-seeker couldn't discriminate! Lmao

    It was sooo much better when "women's work" was unpaid and subsidized capitalist industrialization so that men could bring home the bacon while women got shit for all they did. Now these broads want equal pay, equal rights, WTF? They oughta know their place, right, hypo?



    Sorry I don't take such extreme positions, Cheesy but yes I do believe in equal pay for equal work all things considered,no quarter asked none given.
    Equal rights without manufacturing equal outcomes.

    Aww poor victimized men. Boo hoo. Cause yeah women on men violence, and exploitation is soooooo much more than male-perpetuated violence and exploitation of women.
     handjob



    A little bit of sarcastic humor always helps to bring your BP down.

    Can't be bothered with the rest. You have a tendency for hyperbole and polemicism, hypo, but this article was really beneath what I think is your level of intelligence.


    If you were complimenting me thanks and please know that I am not your 'enemy' and  I am not congenitally inimical to genuine women's causes.
     
    But somehow I get a feeling from the way people have been talking that the women's movement is in a real danger of transmuting into something nasty,whose muse is hatred of men in general.
    If you are a fair minded person you would agree this utter madness has to be stopped.
    One Andrea Dworkin is enough for this world.
    She like Big Mo are probably one-offs hopefully!
     



    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
                                   Thomas Paine

    Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #142 - September 26, 2011, 04:17 PM

    hypo this is starting to get embarrassing for you-- just give it up.

    fuck you
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #143 - September 26, 2011, 04:19 PM

    This woman is reflecting the feminism she experienced at her young age (first-wave feminism) with feminism today (third-wave feminism). There are many differences between the two, including the recognition that women of different ethnicities experience gender oppression in different ways, and that some women do choose to be domestic and familial.

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    Ha! ha! I am not an ex-muzzie neither was I a muzzie so i am mercifully free of idelogies ,dogmas and 'isms'.

    That shows a huge deal about your attitude. Your claim to objectivity and neutrality is making you blind to the experiences and viewpoints of other people. You're taking your own viewpoint and claiming it's the objective truth. No person is free of an "ideology". We all have beliefs shaped by our society and experiences. In fact any ideology that claims to be objective has to be a very dangerous and oppressive one.
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #144 - September 26, 2011, 04:32 PM

    Hypo, I have will write back in more detail in a day or two, but I want to point out one thing: I called the author of the article you posted a "privileged bitch", not you. I called her that after I researched her background and work; I don't use the term "bitch" lightly, I only use it for women who enable men to act like dogs by not giving them a better option.

    Will get back to the rest later.

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #145 - September 26, 2011, 07:15 PM

    hypo this is starting to get embarrassing for you-- just give it up.


    ha! ha! that's what you feel! Your empathy is phenomenal dude!



    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
                                   Thomas Paine

    Facts do not cease to exist because they are ignored !- Aldous Huxley
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #146 - September 28, 2011, 07:44 AM

    I am biased towards  the center.


    Yeah you and everyone else in the world Grin

    Seriously I am surprised by your 'violent' reaction to something you perceived as a grave dissent of your philosophy.


    My reaction was passionate and reasoned, look it over again. Just because someone passionately disagrees with a bunch of bollocks you copy/pasted does not mean they are practicing violence. If you think passionate and reasoned arguments on the internet are violence, you are probably quite unfamiliar with actual violence.

    FFS I didn't write that article!


    No need to take my and other people's critique of it so personally then Smiley

    It was in the nature of an exploratory post, I wanted to see how people reacted to it more so because it was a western woman who was writing it.


    Meh, don't really care who is writing it - it's what they are saying that matters. Who they are is only useful for placing what they are saying in context. This woman born into privilege and of a dying generation has pretty much no clue what is going on in the world today, and we know this because of what she says in her own words.

    I am mystified why you called her a misogynist.
    Just because she expresses an opinion you don't like she becomes a misogynist?


    I said Ann Coulter and Phyllis Schlafly are misogynists. I implied that this woman may also be one, but I only just heard of her a few days ago so I can't say for sure. From what I've read of her, she may just be a misogynist i.e. a person who hates women. From her article she sure seems to have pretty much all bad things to say about women, while she both lauds men as being better at everything, and yet also coddles men for being poor widdle victims. More than enough to qualify as misogyny.

    I have read Ann Coulter's outpourings and don't like what she has to say,because she's an extremist .[I assure you I am not her stealth admirer!]


    Oh goodie. Well, I'm glad you can at least see her extremism.This author is so much different from Coulter... she spends a lot of time painting men as hapless, powerless, innocent little victims of the feminist conspiracy Cheesy

    If it was 'black' instead of 'white' and 'poor' instead of 'middle class' it would have been more credible. I am reserving my judgment here because I have not had access to the works of neutral historians.These days it has become a tough ask!


    Newsflash: there never was, is not and never will be a "neutral" historian. You are not neutral, you are not centre-based, you are not unbiased, you are not objective. None of us is. You are as biased, you have an agenda, you have insecurities, uncertainties, and life experiences that you are basing your opinions on. Just like we all have our unique lives, experiences, etc. You do not have a monopoly on objectivity. This author doesn't, I don't and neither does any historian. Best you or anyone can do is genuinely try to see things from other people's perspectives, because that is all we actually have. There is no neutral perspective.

    Feminism is credible whether you think it is or not. Whether you think it has to have been the domain of only non-whites or not. It's just an evolving, changing, diverse set of ideas, it is not a philosophical discipline - it is not a dogma that everyone follows the same way.

    If you can not see the nuances I am talking about, please do yourself a favour and go to your local library and read some books on the history of feminism. Really, don't just get all your info on the internet, there are wildly differing views on just about everything within feminist thought. Different racial, ethnic, religious and sexual orientations, economic classes, occupations, languages, regions... all have representations and voices. READ these things before painting a set of ideas with a broad stroke. This is how you can avoid embarrassing yourself in the future. Generally, it's a good idea to educate yourself a whole lot before you claim to know everything about something.

    MWestern Secularism was indeed started by white,etc.etc and IMO it's a good concept  and I have no problems with it at all ,so why should I rail against it?


    Then you are engaging in hypocrisy, which literally means not doing the thing you claim you do. You claim feminism is not very credible because it's white, middle class, academic based. You do not apply the same reasoning to question the credibility of secularism. That is hypocrisy and it makes obvious that you hold a bias against strong, independent, confident, self-respecting, feminist women, because you judge them through a different standard than what you apply to yourself or to secularists in general.

    It's not a radical notion if you accept the fact that women are human beings. I accept that unconditionally.[though some self proclaimed feminists might have a different spin on this one in that they feel they are some sort of super human beings and men are animals,etc.etc.]


    The women who spin it that way, are wrong. They are reacting to pressures put upon women for generations, and they are misguided, like I said in an earlier post here. Their behaviour does not invalidate the need for feminism, the need to break down preconcieved gender roles, the need to liberate women and men from "old fashioned morality" as granny in your article put it.

    Some women are assholes. So are some men. Do you think the number of all the asshole feminists put together is more than the number of all the men who abuse, rape, violate and exploit women today around the world and have done so throughout history? Think about it.

    That does not mean you or any man should be at the receiving end of a feminist's anger, if he has not abused, violated or exploited women. It does mean that you have to think of things in the context of history and not just presume that your narrow worldview is true everywhere all the time.

    Any reasonable human being[especially a gender blind one] wouldn't find this notion threatening at all!


    You are as "gender blind" as a white person who does not like the idea of having a black man as president is "colour blind".

    For argument's sake how do you know her case was a one-off?


    Because it is her article and she is stating what it says. I am sure others have had similar experiences. Still does not invalidate the work of feminists who are actually human rights activists. That is feminism: human rights activism. Unless you believe women are not human beings.

    As Abood said, today's feminists do not generally look down on housewives, stay at home moms etc. if these are the women's own choices. Your and this author's fantasy about a feminist conspiracy to force women to work, is very outdated.
     
    And that's precisely what she was trying to point out--how feminists denigrated the family and stay at home mothers. They deemed that it was not a choice for 'real liberated' women


    Again, you are stuck in the 1970's and 1980's. Go read some feminist literature that is more contemporary, please. Consider going to a library.

    The problem arises when the daddy of this particular mommy has a dick that doesn't engage in extra curricular activities because his biggest sex organ[brain] is engaged in more fruitful activities that benefit him and the family,what then?


    Huh? Translate into English, please.

    I do believe in equal pay for equal work all things considered,no quarter asked none given.
    Equal rights without manufacturing equal outcomes.


    What? "Manufacturing equal outcomes"? LOL WTF?

    One Andrea Dworkin is enough for this world.
    She like Big Mo are probably one-offs hopefully!


    I don't support her views a whole lot, but tell us this: which of her books or articles have you read yourself? Or have you only read the people who criticize/despise her?

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #147 - September 28, 2011, 08:05 AM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3YA13GNT8Mc

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #148 - September 28, 2011, 08:09 AM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cCQI-ougLsg

    "Blessed are they who can laugh at themselves, for they shall never cease to be amused."
  • Re: Equality ???
     Reply #149 - October 01, 2011, 06:27 PM

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyLSstqMvH8

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oftOCN1jkNo

    fuck you
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