Way too often members seem to get confused about what this forum was meant to do and seem to think that it is and should be dedicated to exposing Islam, and serious debate, serious topics, with no frills attached.
However that was not what this forum was ever started for quite frankly. It was started to provide a place for ex muslims to find other ex muslims. To talk about whatever ails them, and not feel so isolated or alone having chosen to reject their former support networks.
This will mean that you get a mix, serious talk, not so serious, rude, jokey, hostile, infact its human, and social, so what do you expect?
I'm a bit tired of being judged by some members about the slipping standards of this forum, they aren't slipping, they were never meant to be there in the first place. Your idea that this forum is meant to expose islam is wrong. This forum is about being a social place for ex muslims. Should it expose Islam along the way, hey whoopee, but if it makes muslims feel better in their judgements too, so what.
What do you come here for?
Do you come believing we are here to work against islam and debate only?
Do you come because you like the company?
Enjoy finding ex muslims like yourself?
Feel less alone?
What do you come here for?
Well said, Berbs.

As you say this place was always and I hope always will be a place for ex-Muslims to come together, find support, help, vent, relax and chill etc...
I enjoy discussing serious stuff too - but don't do it to "expose" Islam (even less to "destroy" Islam) - but just coz I like discussing stuff - however I'm here mainly for the company - a place where others have been through similar things I have and I can share and just hang out.
