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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #120 - January 22, 2012, 09:38 PM
    Quote from: Kodanshi on January 22, 2012, 09:32 PM
    ^ No. Dr David Holmes at Manchester Metropolitan University has done research showing that women are more prone to cheating…

    At any rate, your attitude to the differences between you and your wife is a very muslim–oriented one (it’s OK/less bad for the man to do it), and I believe it’s also known as hypocrisy.


    I've not seen the research. But traditionally we have thought men to cheat more often. But it is not about being OK for the one of the other, I told you I don't believe in those kinds of social norms. I personally would not like it if my wife did it, that does not mean because as I said I'd rather not be  in a marriage context then. I would not mind my girlfriend shagging around, that would be totally fine by me.
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #121 - January 22, 2012, 09:39 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on January 22, 2012, 09:35 PM
    I'm not even attracted to guys shorter than me normally

    That reminds me of another issue with women: wanting tall men. Which comes from our animal nature since evolution–wise, the bigger animals are seen as stronger, and therefore able to protect. The one time I came across as ‘confident’ on a different forum, the folks there expected me to be taller when they finally met me…
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #122 - January 22, 2012, 09:40 PM
    You just believe in Victorian-esque social norms for yourself right Tut?  man of the castle.  Mistress on the side, wife nice and complacent.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #123 - January 22, 2012, 09:40 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on January 22, 2012, 09:24 PM
    I wonder if the mods/admins are going to do anything about arX's increasingly bold flaunting of the forum rules? because personally I am getting sick and tired of these n00bs/sock-puppets/trolls being given leeway to break the rules.

    The fuck are you talking about? Crybaby.
    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #124 - January 22, 2012, 09:41 PM
    Quote from: Kodanshi on January 22, 2012, 09:39 PM
    That reminds me of another issue with women: wanting tall men. Which comes from our animal nature since evolution–wise, the bigger animals are seen as stronger, and therefore able to protect. The one time I came across as ‘confident’ on a different forum, the folks there expected me to be taller when they finally met me…


    Yea.  Its a tough call.

    See for me I feel very out of place being tall myself, like I already feel too masculine at times.  I like taller men because they make me feel more feminine.  It is just an initial reaction, a big personality compensates for the height.
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #125 - January 22, 2012, 09:42 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on January 22, 2012, 09:35 PM
    I believe I honestly can I say I haven't.

    Not even to just big myself up online, but I haven't.

    My exes make up an ecclectic style in which no one looks the same, and very few meet these super high beauty expectations. 

    I've always, always been in it for the personality.

    The amount of times I have had a friend say "but you're out of his league" and thought, "what the fuck ever, I don;t think so, I think he's awesome" and still believe it.

    I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I don't go for a specific look.

    I'm not even attracted to guys shorter than me normally, but I have dated a fair few who were shorter than me because at the end of the day, none of that shit matters when it comes down to it.


    Well I personally would find it hard. I need some sexual attraction there, having a good personality is all good and well, but if there is no sexual attraction there then, its better just to be friends. I find it very intriguing though, that you have that ability, but I mean how are you attracted to someone who is not at least semi-ok looking?  
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #126 - January 22, 2012, 09:43 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on January 22, 2012, 09:41 PM
    a big personality compensates for the height.

    Ah, so it IS about the size… Tongue
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #127 - January 22, 2012, 09:44 PM
    Quote from: Ishina on January 22, 2012, 09:40 PM
    The fuck are you talking about? Crybaby.


    Still trying to troll me. Like I said before you need to find something better. Now go away I was done using your ego as a urinal in the other thread.
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #128 - January 22, 2012, 09:44 PM
    I don't understand why arx had went his way out to be so hostile towards me. It was unbelievably uncalled for "miserable existence". But I leave it at that. Because I thought he was cool. Whatever. Its his problem if he wants to be a real arse.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #129 - January 22, 2012, 09:47 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on January 22, 2012, 09:40 PM
    You just believe in Victorian-esque social norms for yourself right Tut?  man of the castle.  Mistress on the side, wife nice and complacent.




    I don't know about that. But in a marriage context you just have more to lose if she does decide to leave with another man. Because then your almost committed into having children etc, or you already have children and then the breakup is just going to be messy. But in a girl/boyfriend situation, those things are unlikely to happen.
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #130 - January 22, 2012, 09:48 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on January 22, 2012, 09:42 PM
    Well I personally would find it hard. I need some sexual attraction there, having a good personality is all good and well, but if there is no sexual attraction there then, its better just to be friends. I find it very intriguing though, that you have that ability, but I mean how are you attracted to someone who is not at least semi-ok looking?  


    Of course there has to be some attraction.  Even I have some limitations. 

    Like I'm sorry, shallow as this may make me, I'm not dating this guy:



    But mostly I find the mind sexy.

    Make me laugh, make me feel special and nothing but you will matter.

    Honestly, I wish I had a picture of one of my ex boyfriends.  And this was when I was 17/18, and at hitting my attraction prime time, and I had untold choices, but to me he was fucking awesome. 
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #131 - January 22, 2012, 09:49 PM
    Quote
    Because I thought he was cool.

    Sorry but the feeling was not mutual.

    If you don't understand why you're getting the constant negative reaction from every reasonable person here then I would say you're either lying or a complete idiot.  I don't think that you're a complete idiot so you know what's up.
    Against the ruin of the world, there
    is only one defense: the creative act.

    -- Kenneth Rexroth
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #132 - January 22, 2012, 09:49 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on January 22, 2012, 09:47 PM
    I don't know about that. But in a marriage context you just have more to lose if she does decide to leave with another man. Because then your almost committed into having children etc, or you already have children and then the breakup is just going to be messy. But in a girl/boyfriend situation, those things are unlikely to happen.

    What if your wife’s not ‘leaving’ with another man but just having sex with him?

    Quote from: BerberElla on January 22, 2012, 09:48 PM
    But mostly I find the mind sexy.

    I’m sorry, but if you prefer brains to everything else then that makes you a zombie… Tongue
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #133 - January 22, 2012, 09:49 PM
    don't be a  Nude nerd.. be a  pccoffee

     popcorn
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NV9vdUjuWxc
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #134 - January 22, 2012, 09:51 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on January 22, 2012, 09:48 PM
    Of course there has to be some attraction.  Even I have some limitations. 

    Like I'm sorry, shallow as this may make me, I'm not dating this guy:

    But mostly I find the mind sexy.

    Make me laugh, make me feel special and nothing but you will matter.

    Honestly, I wish I had a picture of one of my ex boyfriends.  And this was when I was 17/18, and at hitting my attraction prime time, and I had untold choices, but to me he was fucking awesome. 


    Well then everyone is like that, everyone looks for some sex appeal/attraction in the person. I like to have sex with the lights on!!! you know what am saying?
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #135 - January 22, 2012, 09:52 PM
    No greviance either. I think it would be pathetic to count on the affection vote of strangers on the internet.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #136 - January 22, 2012, 09:53 PM
    Quote from: Kodanshi on January 22, 2012, 09:49 PM
    What if your wife’s not ‘leaving’ with another man but just having sex with him?
    I’m sorry, but if you prefer brains to everything else then that makes you a zombie… Tongue


    What if I want to leave though? I probably would after a few years. I go really reclusive at times and want to be completely left alone.
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #137 - January 22, 2012, 09:55 PM
    i like berbs' advice.

    i generally avoid straight clubs. and the good thing about gay clubs in montreal is that they're mixed and have a lot of bi and straight people and the straight people tend to be less douchey than in straight clubs. but nothing beats raves and afterhours clubs. everyone there is really friendly and you can even have a proper conversation with a guy without the "no homo" element.

    one of my biggest problems is that i can't stick around with one person. i always have this fear that they're trying to get rid of me. one time a bunch of girls even came up to me, said "you're beautiful" and grabbed my hands to dance, but i for some reason decided to walk away. i have no idea what was going through my head at the time...
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #138 - January 22, 2012, 09:57 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on January 22, 2012, 09:44 PM
    Still trying to troll me. Like I said before you need to find something better. Now go away I was done using your ego as a urinal in the other thread.

    Don't answer then. You're no doubt full of shit anyway.
    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #139 - January 22, 2012, 09:58 PM
    Quote from: arX on January 22, 2012, 09:49 PM
    Sorry but the feeling was not mutual.

    If you don't understand why you're getting the constant negative reaction from every reasonable person here then I would say you're either lying or a complete idiot.  I don't think that you're a complete idiot so you know what's up.


    Don't exaggerate, the only friction I've had with so far is Ishina, Zaiba and nessrriinn(in this thread). You're currently the recent person in the bandwagon and you're deliberately fanning up shit.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #140 - January 22, 2012, 10:01 PM
    Quote from: Ishina on January 22, 2012, 09:57 PM
    Don't answer then. You're no doubt full of shit anyway.


    Stop it with your pathetic attempt at pretending that you were being reasonable. I am not one of the many idiots, who falls for your redundantly stupid antics. As if you don't know that there a forum rules here.
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #141 - January 22, 2012, 10:03 PM
    Quote from: passingaround on January 22, 2012, 09:58 PM
    Don't exaggerate, the only friction I've had with so far is Ishina, Zaiba and nessrriinn(in this thread). You're currently the recent person in the bandwagon and you're deliberately fanning up shit.

    I've said nothing to you in this thread Logical Mind.
    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #142 - January 22, 2012, 10:04 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on January 22, 2012, 10:01 PM
    Stop it with your pathetic attempt at pretending that you were being reasonable. I am not one of the many idiots, who falls for your redundantly stupid antics. As if you don't know that there a forum rules here.

    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #143 - January 22, 2012, 10:05 PM
    ^ Why Natalie Portman? And a cat?!
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #144 - January 22, 2012, 10:06 PM
    Quote from: Ishina on January 22, 2012, 10:03 PM
    I've said nothing to you in this thread Logical Mind.


    Ah so that's who he is. arX must be a sock-puppet of Liberated then.
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #145 - January 22, 2012, 10:13 PM
    Quote from: King Tut


    Now there's a complete idiot.
    Against the ruin of the world, there
    is only one defense: the creative act.

    -- Kenneth Rexroth
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #146 - January 22, 2012, 10:14 PM
    Quote from: arX on January 22, 2012, 10:13 PM
    Now there's a complete idiot.


    Thanks for the conformation of being a sock-puppet at least.  Cheesy
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  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #147 - January 22, 2012, 10:15 PM
    ^ Case in point.
    Against the ruin of the world, there
    is only one defense: the creative act.

    -- Kenneth Rexroth
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #148 - January 22, 2012, 10:16 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on January 22, 2012, 10:06 PM
    arX must be a sock-puppet of Liberated then.

    It seems to me the majority of arX's forum contributions involve sharing his delicious musical passions and that he very rarely ventures into these shit-slinging dramas. Unlike you, Drama Queen. That's why I'm asking you what the fuck you're talking about calling him a troll.
    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • Re: How to FAIL at picking up chicks
     Reply #149 - January 22, 2012, 10:18 PM
    Can you all stop arguing about nothing and just stick to the thread topic. 
    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
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