loooool, for some reason this question has been most on my mind since I apostatised.
I would love to marry a Somali women, but never a Muslim, no way hosay. The problem is, where I live the Somali population is quite small, very small in fact, in comparison to Western Europe/North America that is. It would be a challenge finding a suitable personality to my liking let alone a godless one too. But on my trip to North America some years ago I found the Somali diaspora over there to be very integrated and progressive, I was actually quite impressed. Was also shocked (in a good way) to see so many unhijabed women over there, it was almost the norm. I don't know, I think I may need a trip to Canada and try my luck over there  
I've been thinking about this quite alot too. I want to marry a Somali girl, even a liberal Muslim one, but I cannot and will not partake in the indoctrination of any future children I may have. That is, to me, an unforgivable betrayal. And there are hardly any atheist or at the least, liberal sisters here in London. In fact, religion seems to be having a very strong resurgence among the Somali female population here with the first and last criteria of getting married these days being "do you have deen"?
@Anubis You have not shared with us how you have come to ditch religion. You seem to have an interesting story, one of your parents is irreligious and suspects you to be an infidel while the other is a borderline wahabi? What an interesting dynamic, please tell.
My family is from Somalia and, as far as I have gathered, most people, back when there was a government there (which was secular), were not as religious as they are now. So our family was like that. My mum become very religious after we moved to Kenya but the rest of the family weren't really that interested in religion (we were/ still are, apathetic towards it). And my dad is into lots of stuff which would be considered "shirk" (budhist eastern stuff) so he's pretty open minded and doesn't really care. Though it is funny how he sometimes says "warya, tukadaa" when my mum is around
For me, the whole thing started to unravel when I was 12 or 13. I was only believing because I was scared of hell and had no love for allah at all. In fact, he was my biggest enemy, with his constant guilt trips
Also my ubber laziness helped alot. You need prayer to keep the fear alive and you can't pray if you're as lazy as me, so things kinda worked out by themselves
@Al-Alethia: I'm in London.
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