Hello Berberella and Luthiel
We have not become acquainted.
My account here is old but I've only been posting a few months now
When the idea of a girls event was first floated, it was my friend, one of the regular girls, that said the word "cake" and it started from there. It was the girls themselves that decided and agreed on the venue. They wanted a change of scenery. There will likely be drinks afterwards anyway if people don't like sweet stuff

I am posting here because they are not registered on CEMB.
And why does the title sound like a strip club advertisement? It certainly wasn't supposed to though by this point I can see how it was read that way
http://www.redsome.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/sex-bart-vote-advertising.jpg Building Ex-muslim communities is not easy. Finding Ex-Muslims is not easy. Getting Ex-Muslims to come out so that you can build a viable, self sustainable community is a gargantuan task. The beginning of that is getting the word out. And getting attention is the way to do that. That also means using every trick in the book

If you're offended by my post, that certainly was not my intention. I'm trying my best here. 9/10 Ex-Muslims I meet tell me they'd never met another Ex-muslim til they came to one of my events. I'm proud of that. And I use whatever I can to find those Ex-Muslims. Very few people are willing to dedicate themselves to that. I would hope you might appreciate what I'm trying to do here.
Even if you don't like sugary treats
I'd appreciate whatever help you could offer me