We could fight about it. But then there would have to be evidence submitted, and I am not sure how to go about that for this topic. Maybe I will remember you said that, and not feel self conscious the next time the children and I are running madly away from Doctor Octopus at the park.
The ages of your kids do make one feel older than norm. Equidistant between 35-40 and twelve year old kid means equidistant of 20-30 when with first child. In reality you have your whole life ahead of you, for better or worse.
A couple of years back a old amn knocked on the door. He was looking for people who listen to the radio and were willing to fill a form telling them what/when you listened to in a typical seven day period. I looked at him, all oldish and tired and little pleading, thought he is not going to get much luck round here and invited him in.
Cu a short story even shorter, he asks my age, 42 (ahh, I was that young) I say. I'm old I say. He says 'You got your whole life ahead of you'. I was taken aback - he says - yeah, you got a 'lifetime' yet, me on the other hand my time is done, I am 65. I thought wait till a 87 year old guy talk to ya.
Helps looking young, full head of hair, no wrinkles (babyface gene and baby lotion, the pink one, for forty years on face, no change in overall body shape since teenage, and no 'hard' work to keep hands the same size. My best friend born same day as me look 10 years older than his real age lol.
Looking older makes you mature quicker imo.