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  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #30 - May 09, 2014, 03:41 PM
    Quote from: lua on May 09, 2014, 01:48 PM
    if you wait, the wedding night will be so special and unforgettable and so on, and otherwise it will be a routine bore with no meaning.




    My wedding night was extremely disappointing and my first kiss even worst. My ex practically couldn't wait to start once we got to the hotel and his breathe stank
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #31 - May 09, 2014, 03:45 PM
    I'm sorry to hear that...But yeah, it's more reliably going to be a good experience for the groom, for the bride it might be awful...

    If it's any consolation, my first kiss wasn't great, either. Nor was the second. Grin
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #32 - May 09, 2014, 03:46 PM
    lol ye it took a while for me to start liking kising my ex, altho he required a hand job in the car once
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #33 - May 09, 2014, 03:48 PM
    Required? Ick. Bet you miss that guy. Roll Eyes
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #34 - May 09, 2014, 03:50 PM
     Cheesy
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #35 - May 09, 2014, 03:53 PM
    W.T.F? I absolutely loath men who think they can require this or that from their partners. It's disgusting. That's Islamic code of conduct between couples right there for you.
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #36 - May 10, 2014, 11:24 AM
    Quote from: lua on May 09, 2014, 03:45 PM
    I'm sorry to hear that...But yeah, it's more reliably going to be a good experience for the groom, for the bride it might be awful...


    Indeed. Thats why I do have sex before marriage, so it could be fun for the two of us Cheesy
    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

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  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #37 - May 10, 2014, 11:24 AM
    I have also heard that not every couple does have sex on their wedding night...
    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

    Exmuslim Chat
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #38 - May 10, 2014, 11:27 AM
    If I don't have sex with someone before I marry them, how will I know I'm marrying someone who can satisfy me?
    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #39 - May 10, 2014, 11:27 AM
    this true, as not everyone can have sex with a perfect stranger. It makes more sense to date, get to know someone, get to know them intimately and then get married instead of going backwards
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #40 - May 10, 2014, 12:59 PM
    Just remember confudeagno, that Islam allows sex slavery, male adultery (in the form of secret 2nd/3rd/4th wives being allowed) and paedophilia. Meanwhile, Muslims will sneer at the filthy kuffar with their loose morals for having sex without marriage and allowing gay people to live and love freely Roll Eyes They're the ones with the fucked up sexual morality. Just be smart, safe and don't do anything to cause yourself or others harm and you're all good Wink
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #41 - May 10, 2014, 01:00 PM
    I always thought sex would super awkward the first time round in an arranged marriage where the two barely know each other. I'd be like having sex with a stranger; that'd freak me out.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #42 - May 10, 2014, 05:44 PM
    Quote from: Cornflower on May 07, 2014, 02:04 PM
    I can't wait to commit zina, just have to find someone cute and interested Grin dance

     

    Hear ! Hear!

    We so need a zina thread on this forum where we all describe our experiences having zina for the very first time 

     dance  dance  dance
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #43 - May 10, 2014, 05:46 PM
    ^ It'll be like losing your virginity (all over again for me) lol  dance
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #44 - May 10, 2014, 05:48 PM
    Quote from: Cornflower on May 09, 2014, 02:56 PM
    Why do I say stupid things I'll have to explain later that will undoubtedly be embarrassing for me Roll Eyes

     

    You asked me almost the exact same question in the masturbation thread so it was the perfect opportunity to turn the tables.  Cheesy

    Remember this

    Quote from: TheDarkRebel on April 03, 2014, 10:09 PM
    Oh and after leaving Islam I masturbate "normally".   When I was in my early teens and muslim I used to masturbate this really weird way and it was just so messy.

     

    Quote from: Cornflower on April 04, 2014, 05:05 AM
    Lol, I think you'll have to explain the difference between "weird" and "normal" in this case Cheesy

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #45 - May 10, 2014, 05:51 PM
    Which is funny because you still have never explained the difference. Grin
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #46 - May 10, 2014, 05:54 PM
    You know, "real sex." Cheesy  The kind that can land you with a kid.  yes
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #47 - May 10, 2014, 05:54 PM
    LOLOLOL you go first TDR and then I'll explain what I meant Tongue
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #48 - May 10, 2014, 08:30 PM
    This is the situation in conservative societies as said by an Indian, "Arranged marriage is such a funny concept. All your life your taught not to speak to strangers and suddenly you are asked to sleep with one! Pff..."
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #49 - May 10, 2014, 08:49 PM
    ^^^^ Afro
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #50 - May 10, 2014, 08:51 PM
    It's like a bad one night stand that ends up lasting for ever. Sometimes you luck out, sometimes you don't...
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #51 - May 10, 2014, 08:52 PM
    That's why I am scared of marriage.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #52 - May 10, 2014, 08:54 PM
    If possible, date and have sex, then if you find the right person, long term relationship and/or marriage won't be as scary.
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #53 - May 10, 2014, 08:57 PM
    rubaya out of curiosity have u been in a relationship before?
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #54 - May 10, 2014, 11:09 PM
    Quote from: TheDarkRebel on May 10, 2014, 05:44 PM
     

    Hear ! Hear!

    We so need a zina thread on this forum where we all describe our experiences having zina for the very first time  

     dance  dance  dance


    We have something like that. Feel free to contribute.

    http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=26373.msg751198#msg751198
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


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  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #55 - May 11, 2014, 03:40 AM
    If I hadn't committed zina before getting married I wouldn't have been able to teach my 30 yr old virgin husband everything he needed to know on our wedding night.

    My now ex husband who is a committed Muslim ; prays 5x a day, has a beard, prays all the sunnah and nafl prayers, has been on hajj and fasts Ramadan was actually glad I wasn't a virgin when we met. He expressly stated to me that he wast interested in marrying a Bengali girl because he knew she would probably just lay there like a dead log when it came to sex.
    Atheism is a non-prophet organization.

    The sleeper has awakened -  Dune

    Give a man a fish, and you'll feed him for a day Give him a religion, and he'll starve to death while praying for a fish!
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #56 - May 11, 2014, 07:46 AM
    Quote from: confusedagno on May 10, 2014, 08:57 PM
    rubaya out of curiosity have u been in a relationship before?


    Yes. But I was cheated by 98% of my boyfriends. So, I m taking the route of arranged marriage. But the prospect of living with a stranger scares me. And sorry to be so open but love making is very painful for me, so I don't have much interest in it. Imagine how it will feel like on the first night?
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #57 - May 11, 2014, 08:44 AM
    Why do you have to get married or be with someone at all if sex makes you that uncomfortable?
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #58 - May 11, 2014, 09:26 AM
    ^^ who is this in reference to?

    sex doesnt make me uncomfortable, sex is amazing. Its the thot that I am doing something my fam would disaprove of that makes me uncomfortable
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #59 - May 11, 2014, 09:35 AM
    Quote from: Rubaya on May 11, 2014, 07:46 AM
    Yes. But I was cheated by 98% of my boyfriends. So, I m taking the route of arranged marriage. But the prospect of living with a stranger scares me. And sorry to be so open but love making is very painful for me, so I don't have much interest in it. Imagine how it will feel like on the first night?


    it gets better Smiley u just need the right person
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
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