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  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #90 - May 11, 2014, 07:47 PM
    It's great advice for a lot of things, TDR. Grin
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #91 - May 11, 2014, 07:50 PM
    I would also think that most people would view taking it deep down in the throat as a good thing. Sorry for being a weirdo Grin
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #92 - May 11, 2014, 07:56 PM
    Kissing is good if not too open mouthed and slobbery as a general rule. When things are getting hot and heavy in the bedroom dept. however things can get quite slobbery and passionate and OMG that is so good!
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #93 - May 11, 2014, 08:01 PM
    Quote from: Cornflower on May 11, 2014, 07:50 PM
    I would also think that most people would view taking it deep down in the throat as a good thing. Sorry for being a weirdo Grin


    And we're still talking about kissing, right? Grin
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #94 - May 11, 2014, 08:10 PM
    What do you think Roll Eyes
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #95 - May 11, 2014, 08:23 PM
    Quote from: Cornflower on May 11, 2014, 07:42 PM
    It can go both ways Grin

      Wink
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #96 - May 12, 2014, 12:07 AM
    *TDR jots down notes*

    You know it is soo tempting to go down to a gay bar and make out with a guy just for practice.   

      It's time like this I wish was gay or at least bisexual.  We men are easier to seduce and since you have the same body parts as your partner it's easier to navigate...

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #97 - May 12, 2014, 12:10 AM
    Oh and out of curiosity let's say your sitting on a train and the person sitting on the other side of the aisle in another seat looks you up and down periodically while smiling at you does that mean they are flirting ?? 

    It happened to me once and I wasn't too sure what to make of it... 
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #98 - May 12, 2014, 12:14 AM
    For newer members here ya go. The surah I wrote on sexual urges might be of use to you.

    Turns out the angle Gabriel also sends revelations down to murtads as well. 

    Quote from: TheDarkRebel on February 03, 2013, 07:24 PM
    Surat of Sexual Desire

    - ALIF LAAM MEEEM. WUL ORGASM HAKEEM -
    1. I swear by the desires of the young man
    2. That striketh his member with his hand, unclean
    3. Oh yeh ummah of muhammad!
    4. Your lord commandeth thee to enjoy nookies, blowjobs and porn of unending amounts
    5. Are these not signs of the mercy of Allah ?
    6. So go forth and enjoy thy bodies for allah loves the orgasm of the believer
    7. And oh ye women thy lord forbideth thee to deceive thy husbands with fake orgasms
    8. Say bismillah and seek pleasure from your man, for the unsatisfied women shall never enter the gates of jannah
    9. Oh you who believe! be content, seek pleasure and give thanks to thy lord. These are signs for men of understanding 
    10. YA ALLAAAH.......Alhumdulilah


    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #99 - May 12, 2014, 12:15 AM
    That surah is my proudest work of poetry by the way.  Cheesy
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #100 - May 12, 2014, 12:50 AM
    Quote from: TheDarkRebel on May 12, 2014, 12:10 AM
    Oh and out of curiosity let's say your sitting on a train and the person sitting on the other side of the aisle in another seat looks you up and down periodically while smiling at you does that mean they are flirting ?? 

    It happened to me once and I wasn't too sure what to make of it... 

    Seems like it. If it happens again, smile back and say hello. You can handle small talk right?
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #101 - May 12, 2014, 03:13 AM
    The woman was in her late twenties and was sitting there with her friends.   

    I'm not good at starting convos with people significantly older than me unless it's a professional/job event or they are reading a book i've read before.
    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #102 - May 12, 2014, 03:19 AM
    Significantly older? Fuck off, I was 18 yesterday. Tongue
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #103 - May 12, 2014, 04:00 AM
    lol dude.  almost a decade older is significantly older. Think about the shit you learn in a decade.

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #104 - May 12, 2014, 04:04 AM
    Quote from: Cornflower on May 11, 2014, 07:50 PM
    I would also think that most people would view taking it deep down in the throat as a good thing. Sorry for being a weirdo Grin

     

    Your not a weirdo.  Smiley

    Your one of the wise anonymous people on the internet that advise me on my sex life. 

    Ok ...yeah your a weirdo    Cheesy

    In my opinion a life without curiosity is not a life worth living
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #105 - May 13, 2014, 12:08 PM
    Quote from: Lilyesque on May 11, 2014, 08:44 AM
    Why do you have to get married or be with someone at all if sex makes you that uncomfortable?


    Sex doesn't make me uncomfortable. It is painful and not pleasurable for me. I think I am a frigid. I do enjoy foreplay and to exactly answer your question who will be there for me to give me romantically emotional support, which I do crave?
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #106 - May 13, 2014, 12:20 PM
    @Cornflower- Maybe it is because I was afraid of getting caught, heard about all sorts of bad experiences while doing and because I was doing it just to please my bf?
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #107 - May 13, 2014, 12:27 PM
    Oh well the most important thing when having sex is to really wanting sex. Just having sex because of someone else is a 100% chance that you won't enjoy it. Be aroused (if you are not aroused enough, sex will be painful), be willing and relax. I had similar problems as you, so I really want to assure you that sex can be wonderful and pleasurable even if you right now don't feel like that. I also think that sex gets better when you feel comfortable with your partner, so that you can relax and not constantly be self aware. Believe me, most guys are not scrutinizing every millimeter of your body and criticizing it, like we often do to ourselves, when they are in bed with someone they like Smiley
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #108 - May 13, 2014, 06:53 PM
    Quote from: Rubaya on May 13, 2014, 12:08 PM
    Sex doesn't make me uncomfortable. It is painful and not pleasurable for me. I think I am a frigid. I do enjoy foreplay and to exactly answer your question who will be there for me to give me romantically emotional support, which I do crave?


    Ahh I misunderstood you, I thought you meant mental discomfort. As cornflower says, sex with some you feel comfy with, your best friend almost is very different to sex with someone you haven't built up trust with. Also sex needs to be when you don't feel like you are going to get caught otherwise you will be all tense. If things are feeling sore then you need to have the trust between the two of you to be able to say what you want, to slow down, to stop, to be able to say no. I find also that kissing acts as a distraction from the sex stuff so feel more relaxed as focused on the kissing and not everything else.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #109 - May 13, 2014, 07:30 PM
    A bit of topic here, but im busy writing my new novel and im remembering my first night with my ex hub. the awkward first night sex, then i wanted to sleep naked as i am very comfy doing so and he made me put on my nitey because of the 'angels'

    Quote
    Jo’s first night with her husband was rather awkward, in a way it was all sweet and innocent, but it was also strange and unfamiliar. Not to go into too much detail, but going to bed with an almost stranger, letting him touch your breasts, your private areas and all just because you had a piece of paper that said you could, according to religion, it was not exactly ideal in anyway. It was strange. And yes, in some cases the new bride and groom wouldn't want to engage in such an intimate act so quickly, but most of the time put two horny, sexual deprived young adults of the opposite sex in an empty room and they will be curious. But don’t be fooled, it’s not going to be all romantic soft and sweet, a twenty one year old horny virgin man, who knows nothing about sex, how long do you think he would last? Do you think he would know what to do? Faisel was so horny on Jo’s wedding night that he went straight to the sex as soon as they were alone, it was awkward and incomplete, he slobbered on her neck, ears, breasts and came almost instantly not all the way inside of her. Jo was comfortable enough to sleep naked, she had no problem with her sexuality or nakedness, but her husband insisted she wear something as the ‘angels’ won’t be happy. Apparently they were happy when the he was practically dry humping her. 


    rough draft
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #110 - May 14, 2014, 07:57 AM
    I thought the Christian and not Muslim angels were the horny ones? By the way nice one CA.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #111 - May 16, 2014, 08:46 AM
    I hate that word "Pre-marital' , just another negative connotation used by self-righteous married people. Why not just "sex"?
    "I'm standing here like an asshole holding my Charles Dickens"

    "No theory,No ready made system,no book that has ever been written to save the world. i cleave to no system.."-Bakunin
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #112 - May 16, 2014, 08:56 AM
    Hear hear.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #113 - May 16, 2014, 09:51 AM
    That is for the 'ultra goodies' to use.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #114 - May 17, 2014, 02:50 AM
    This thread is good wank material.
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #115 - August 05, 2014, 12:13 AM
    Quote from: TheDarkRebel on May 12, 2014, 12:14 AM
    For newer members here ya go. The surah I wrote on sexual urges might be of use to you.

    Turns out the angle Gabriel also sends revelations down to murtads as well.  

    Quote
    Surat of Sexual Desire

    - ALIF LAAM MEEEM. WUL ORGASM HAKEEM -
    1. I swear by the desires of the young man
    2. That striketh his member with his hand, unclean
    3. Oh yeh ummah of muhammad!
    4. Your lord commandeth thee to enjoy nookies, blowjobs and porn of unending amounts
    5. Are these not signs of the mercy of Allah ?
    6. So go forth and enjoy thy bodies for allah loves the orgasm of the believer
    7. And oh ye women thy lord forbideth thee to deceive thy husbands with fake orgasms
    8. Say bismillah and seek pleasure from your man, for the unsatisfied women shall never enter the gates of jannah
    9. Oh you who believe! be content, seek pleasure and give thanks to thy lord. These are signs for men of understanding  
    10. YA ALLAAAH.......Alhumdulilah





    Ahahahaha!  Cheesy Dude you're my new favourite person!
    I was being jealous of (ex-)Christians who have Powerwolf  (awesome satanic/heretic/Christian mocking power metal band, check them out if you don't know them, among their best songs you have "Resurrection by Erection", "Coleus Sanctus", "Die die Crucified", "Sanctified with Dynamite"...)

    We shall have TheDarkRebel. Make a Surat about masturbation, for it is Holy.  dance
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #116 - August 05, 2014, 07:01 AM
    There's also Seeds of Iblis, Fearless Iranians From Hell, Janaza, and of course Anahita who comes out with such gems as
    Quote
    I shall peel your god!
     With a middle finger in his eyes!
     I shall fuck his mind!
     And burn the Mosques of Islam!


    So yeah, don't despair just because you haven't found them. Grin
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #117 - August 06, 2014, 06:19 PM
    Quote from: feryel on August 05, 2014, 12:13 AM



    Ahahahaha!  Cheesy Dude you're my new favourite person!
    I was being jealous of (ex-)Christians who have Powerwolf  (awesome satanic/heretic/Christian mocking power metal band, check them out if you don't know them, among their best songs you have "Resurrection by Erection", "Coleus Sanctus", "Die die Crucified", "Sanctified with Dynamite"...)

    We shall have TheDarkRebel. Make a Surat about masturbation, for it is Holy.  dance

    Wahhabist in the morning, satanist at night  Wink

    PowerBuraq?
    "Ours is the age which is proud of machines that think and suspicious of men who try to."
    هذا من فضل جدي
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #118 - August 08, 2014, 09:53 AM
    If it's not already been said, I would like to contribute this loophole for Muslims. If you don't intend to get married to the person, then technically one could argue it's not pre-marital sex and therefore not a 'sin'. Bwahaha.

    Virginity and 'purity', mainly of women, has been fetishised for a long time. In the Bible, pre-marital sex was a sin because at that time a man had to buy his wife from the woman's father - if you slept with her before marriage, you were 'robbing' her dad. Yet again, it is to do with property. After the times of hunter-gathering, it seems that the idea of women as part of property became as wide spread as it still seems to be today.

    That Surah up there was hilarious, by the way. I will start collecting hadith about you.
    Don't damn me when I speak my mind, 'cause silence isn't golden when I'm holding it inside. - Guns n' Roses

    3 koiraa 1 kissa <3
  • The topic of pre marital sex
     Reply #119 - August 08, 2014, 04:28 PM
    i love surat al sexual desire <3
    its my fave

    the red district is our mosque, where the imam recites surat al desire every tuesday, all ppl should come to have sexual desire on that day Smiley
    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

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