One Question to beat them all
Reply #23 - March 09, 2018, 01:42 PM
I don't understand why some have such a binary, black and white view on abortion. There is clearly a difference between the moment of conception and what is at 8 or 9 months, and what happens in between is not on/off but a long line of gradual changes... The debate surely should revolve more around this point more than anything else.
The notion that women that abort don't value children is a hasty generalisation and not a fair analysis either. It can also be said that a woman may value a child's overall well being to the point where they may prevent conception or abort until they are ready to have a child. We have VERY strong biological instincts to procreate even though we may not be in the best position to do so, and sometimes contraception doesn't always quite work 100%- these need to be taken into consideration.
You can argue that perhaps one should just keep their legs closed, or use abstinence- anyone that's gone down that road knows all too well that also has its risks- what it can do to your mind is unbelievable. If you've lived in a sexually repressed atmosphere, you start thinking and doing all kinds of crazy stuff, I've been down that road and it is NOT HEALTHY.
It seems that if you're anti abortion, then you should be the strongest possible advocate of contraception to prevent pregnancies, maybe even support early abortion at least up to the week, at least you'd be for this for rape victims, At LEAST. You would also need to be an ardent supporter of providing resources or the environment in which soon to be mothers will feel comfortable and the child also. This usually entails state/government funds.
Unfortunately I have noticed particularly with the American strain of anti abortionists, they don't like preventing abortions via condoms, nor are they fond of the morning after pill, nor support soon to be mothers- the support may be up to birth but after that you're alone. Maybe this may not be your position.
Just my humble opinion =/