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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #30 - February 22, 2009, 07:10 PM

    20yrs ago, we also had beaches with bikinis in Egypt. Today, I can not wear a swimsuit on most beaches. There is half a dozen topless beaches in the country, but they are highly exclusive.

    That was just black humour. I am rather pessimistic about the future of my country, and I am vaguely aware that the conditions in Egypt used to be better in the past.

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    There are definitley one or two here looking for some sort of sympathy and with regards to Muhammed Ali I wouldn't hold him up as an example of a good Muslim as he used to celebrate wins in the ring by hiring prostitutes for himself and his team while he was a Muslim.

    Sorry, what's wrong with hiring sex workers? As for being "Islamophobic," what's wrong with that again?

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #31 - February 22, 2009, 07:58 PM

    20yrs ago, we also had beaches with bikinis in Egypt. Today, I can not wear a swimsuit on most beaches. There is half a dozen topless beaches in the country, but they are highly exclusive.

    That was just black humour. I am rather pessimistic about the future of my country, and I am vaguely aware that the conditions in Egypt used to be better in the past.

    Quote from: speaklow
    There are definitley one or two here looking for some sort of sympathy and with regards to Muhammed Ali I wouldn't hold him up as an example of a good Muslim as he used to celebrate wins in the ring by hiring prostitutes for himself and his team while he was a Muslim.

    Sorry, what's wrong with hiring sex workers? As for being "Islamophobic," what's wrong with that again?


    I have no problem with people hiring sex workers in general. I only have a problem with those people that project a 'holier than thou' image while doing it. That was exactly what Muhammed Ali used to do.

    On this matter my references are a BBC series of documentaies called 'Reputations' that aired approximately 20 years ago. I remember watching it at the time as I was fan of Ali. I stopped being a fan that evening.

    I also see nothing wrong with being an Islamaphobe if that is how some people on this forum want to categorize me.
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #32 - February 22, 2009, 10:02 PM

    I dont see a problem with being Islamaphobe, provided you are Mormonophobe, Christianaphobe and Religionaphobe in general. 

    The problem with these religious ideologies, is that they were written in the past by primitive or egocentric individuals and can at some level be contrued negatively.  With the power of God behind them, they can, in the wrong hands, be used very dangerously.  Most muslims are good human beings like we find in all religions.  The problem with Islam is not necessarily Muhammed or the Quran, but that it can be interpreted by the wrong people for their own agendas in the same way history had proved with these other religions. 

    So when somebody who is religious non-muslim, accuses Islam as being the problem, they dont realise that they are firstly being hypocritical, as the problem is the interpretation and believing in something 100% without question.  This applies not only to religion, but to all ideologies such as dangerous forms of communism or faschism.

    Admittedly Islam has got more to answer for as it has not been formally adapted for the modern era yet, but that is primarly because Christianity for the moment exists is the developed world.  If Islam existed in Europe under the same conditions, then I have no doubt it would have modernised and left Christians feeling like the underdogs and conversely fighting to rid the world of evil Islam via similar means such as terrorism.

    Lets not forget countries in Africa,  Wesboro baptists and Hitler were Christians, which prove the above.  Getting rid of Islam will not rid the world of the problem, it will only push it onto someones elses doorstep.


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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #33 - February 22, 2009, 10:13 PM

    That's about the size of it. Unquestioning belief in dogma, without or even despite evidence, is what tends to cause most of the problems. It does not necessarily have to be Islamic or even religious dogma. There are plenty of examples from other fields too.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #34 - February 22, 2009, 10:58 PM

    It may seem unfair at first, but I hope it partly explains why we as ex-muslims tend to judge Christian, or other religious criticism of Islam, more harshly than we do our own

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #35 - February 23, 2009, 12:04 AM

    Because they sound like a bloody bunch of hypocrites? Grin

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #36 - February 23, 2009, 07:24 AM

    It may seem unfair at first, but I hope it partly explains why we as ex-muslims tend to judge Christian, or other religious criticism of Islam, more harshly than we do our own


    Altho I agree with Os about Xtians who criticize Islam being hypocrites, I do really listen to such criticism, simply because a priest who?s ultra knowledgeable about Islam has opened my eyes to a lot of Islamic issues that have been buried for long.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #37 - February 23, 2009, 08:27 AM

    It may seem unfair at first, but I hope it partly explains why we as ex-muslims tend to judge Christian, or other religious criticism of Islam, more harshly than we do our own


    What you're really saying is you only want ex-Muslims to criticise Islam. Don't worry that particular culture within this forum is noticebale and has in fact caused others to leave, Neil Marr for one.

    And before Hassan jumps on my case regarding Neil my message to you is you should have read his posts more carefully reagrdless of what he said to you in a personal message because he even as an atheist felt Islam wasn't being criticised here.
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #38 - February 23, 2009, 09:23 AM

    I dont see a problem with being Islamaphobe, provided you are Mormonophobe, Christianaphobe and Religionaphobe in general. 

    The problem with these religious ideologies, is that they were written in the past by primitive or egocentric individuals and can at some level be contrued negatively.  With the power of God behind them, they can, in the wrong hands, be used very dangerously.  Most muslims are good human beings like we find in all religions.  The problem with Islam is not necessarily Muhammed or the Quran, but that it can be interpreted by the wrong people for their own agendas in the same way history had proved with these other religions. 

    So when somebody who is religious non-muslim, accuses Islam as being the problem, they dont realise that they are firstly being hypocritical, as the problem is the interpretation and believing in something 100% without question.  This applies not only to religion, but to all ideologies such as dangerous forms of communism or faschism.

    It seems your argument contains a very strong contradiction: "the problem is the interpretation and believing in something 100% without question."

    See, you are talking about Two very different people. The interpreters, and the followers.

    Let's just assume you are talking about some people who will follow certain interpretations 100%, which is I think what you really mean.

    So people are interpreting the doctrine in their hand to best suit their needs. But what is new? What is different than any other ideology? Doctrines' raison-d'etre is to be interpreted to suit people's need.

    The issue with islam is that it does not permit for a lot of interpretations. It is more like it is islam that is interpreting its followers not the other way around. Even if a muslim does not believe 100% in his religion, my issue with islamic scripture is that it contains very little goodness within the folds of its pages.

    That is actually a major issue within islam. The lack of good/useful stuff compatible with our 20th+ Century sensibility. I wish there was some good stories or good subjects in the koran. Then it would have been easier to direct the muslim to the good stuff and compare the koran itself between good and bad. But I can not do this. Same with Muhammad. I wish there was some good deeds the guy did. So I can tell a muslim: Look, on that day muhammad was good, on that day muhammad was different. But I can not do this. I do not know of a day when muhammad was 'good'. It really sucks, not being able to find good stuff. It really makes my job of criticizing islam that much harder.


    Admittedly Islam has got more to answer for as it has not been formally adapted for the modern era yet, but that is primarly because Christianity for the moment exists is the developed world.  If Islam existed in Europe under the same conditions, then I have no doubt it would have modernised and left Christians feeling like the underdogs and conversely fighting to rid the world of evil Islam via similar means such as terrorism.

    That is a very wide jump. Basically you are implying that beliefs are pretty much inconsequential. You might as well replace the religions you mention with budhism and hinduism. You are making an assumption that it does not matter what religion the west had, all and any religion the west would have had, would have reformed and ended up giving us the developed world.

    "Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.' So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, 'Tell the Apostle the truth.'"
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #39 - February 23, 2009, 01:52 PM

    It may seem unfair at first, but I hope it partly explains why we as ex-muslims tend to judge Christian, or other religious criticism of Islam, more harshly than we do our own

    What you're really saying is you only want ex-Muslims to criticise Islam. Don't worry that particular culture within this forum is noticebale and has in fact caused others to leave, Neil Marr for one.

    No?  I said Christian or other religious people as it smacks of hypocracy, dont have an issue with any agnostic/atheists doing it. Please dont change what I said - you even quoted it!

    Sounds to me like you have a chip on your shoulder, go and have a cold shower..

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #40 - February 23, 2009, 02:32 PM


    I was not blessed with the ability to have blind faith. I cant beleive something just because someone says its true.
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #41 - February 23, 2009, 02:37 PM

    It seems your argument contains a very strong contradiction: "the problem is the interpretation and believing in something 100% without question."

    See, you are talking about Two very different people. The interpreters, and the followers.

    Let's just assume you are talking about some people who will follow certain interpretations 100%, which is I think what you really mean.

    No, the contradiction is caused by misunderstanding what was written.  I was talking about 2 different problems, those that interpret negatively, as opposed to in a positive fashion. The others are those that do not question what they read/are told and therefore follow suit blindly.
    Quote
    So people are interpreting the doctrine in their hand to best suit their needs. But what is new? What is different than any other ideology? Doctrines' raison-d'etre is to be interpreted to suit people's need.

    No, when it comes to religion, the raison d'etre is to suit Gods need.
    Quote
    That is actually a major issue within islam. The lack of good/useful stuff compatible with our 20th+ Century sensibility. I wish there was some good stories or good subjects in the koran. Then it would have been easier to direct the muslim to the good stuff and compare the koran itself between good and bad. But I can not do this. Same with Muhammad. I wish there was some good deeds the guy did. So I can tell a muslim: Look, on that day muhammad was good, on that day muhammad was different. But I can not do this. I do not know of a day when muhammad was 'good'. It really sucks, not being able to find good stuff. It really makes my job of criticizing islam that much harder.

    Very biased.  There is a lot of good stuff in the quran.  In fact most of the bad stuff is directed solely at none believers.  Have you not come across any good stuff related to charity, family, children, parents etc.
    Admittedly Islam has got more to answer for as it has not been formally adapted for the modern era yet, but that is primarly because Christianity for the moment exists is the developed world.  If Islam existed in Europe under the same conditions, then I have no doubt it would have modernised and left Christians feeling like the underdogs and conversely fighting to rid the world of evil Islam via similar means such as terrorism.

    That is a very wide jump. Basically you are implying that beliefs are pretty much inconsequential. You might as well replace the religions you mention with budhism and hinduism.

    I am quite happy to replace Christians with Budhists and Hindus in the example I gave - any minority with a sense of injustice is perfectly capable of fighting when they feel vulnerable and oppressed.
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    You are making an assumption that it does not matter what religion the west had, all and any religion the west would have had, would have reformed and ended up giving us the developed world.

    Yes, I think any religion is capable of reforming, as most Muslims globally have.   If you take a look at the percentage of muslims who follow the Quran the way you describe it and you will see what I mean.  In reality I have only actually known of a handful of muslims who thought that way, and in practice it was all talk and hyperbole & amounted to very little anyway.  How many Muslims have you heard have been killed for apostacy, yet it is supposedly clear in the Quran that they all should be murdered.

    Religion can only slow human progress, it can never reverse it over a sustained period of time.  Beliefs are not inconsequential but they adapt according to the times albeit at different rates, but they still do and always will.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #42 - February 23, 2009, 02:46 PM

    Same with Muhammad. I wish there was some good deeds the guy did. So I can tell a muslim: Look, on that day muhammad was good, on that day muhammad was different. But I can not do this. I do not know of a day when muhammad was 'good'. It really sucks, not being able to find good stuff. It really makes my job of criticizing islam that much harder.


    Well there is the story of the woman who used to annoy Muhammad by throwing garbage in front of him or his house. But one day he not see her and enquired about her. He visited her and found she was sick. She then realized he was a prophet and became a Muslim.

    That's one of the few good ones I remember from childhood!

    Knowing Islam is the only true religion we do not allow propagation of any other religion. How can we allow building of churches and temples when their religion is wrong? Thus we will not allow such wrong things in our countries. - Zakir Naik
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #43 - February 23, 2009, 02:51 PM

    Where's this story from a.ghazali? Which hadith? I know the awful story of Asma bint Marwan, but this is a nice one Smiley.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #44 - February 23, 2009, 03:01 PM

    ..Yes, one day he did not have garbage thrown on his head and became worried about her.

    Funnily enough thats one I remebered too when I was writing my reply to Baal, but its hadith so did not put it down..

    There is also something or other about Prophet Mohammed giving a tired cat his own pillow which I also remember my mum telling me.. In fact my childhood memories of the prophet were as a nice guy and I begin to wonder if Baal only reads books by the likes of Robert Spencer to consolidate his narrow & biased interpretation of the Quran.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #45 - February 23, 2009, 03:10 PM

    It was a 'man,' not a women;


    @ IsLame, i don't know about this 'cat' story,' gonna look it up.

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    ==
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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #46 - February 23, 2009, 03:13 PM

    Where's this story from a.ghazali? Which hadith? I know the awful story of Asma bint Marwan, but this is a nice one Smiley.


    Don't know off hand. I'm at work at the moment. Went I get home I'll do a search unless someone else knows.

    Knowing Islam is the only true religion we do not allow propagation of any other religion. How can we allow building of churches and temples when their religion is wrong? Thus we will not allow such wrong things in our countries. - Zakir Naik
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #47 - February 23, 2009, 03:15 PM

    It was a 'man,' not a women;



    No it was definitely a Jewish woman.

    Knowing Islam is the only true religion we do not allow propagation of any other religion. How can we allow building of churches and temples when their religion is wrong? Thus we will not allow such wrong things in our countries. - Zakir Naik
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #48 - February 23, 2009, 03:23 PM

    It was a 'man,' not a women;



    No it was definitely a Jewish woman.

    =========

    I apologize beforehand if I'm wrong, I'm gonna look this up too.  Smiley

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    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #49 - February 23, 2009, 04:53 PM

    It seems your argument contains a very strong contradiction: "the problem is the interpretation and believing in something 100% without question."

    See, you are talking about Two very different people. The interpreters, and the followers.

    Let's just assume you are talking about some people who will follow certain interpretations 100%, which is I think what you really mean.

    No, the contradiction is caused by misunderstanding what was written.  I was talking about 2 different problems, those that interpret negatively, as opposed to in a positive fashion. The others are those that do not question what they read/are told and therefore follow suit blindly.

    k, perhaps an 'or' instead of the 'and' but that's just my training as a programmer mindfudging with me.

    Quote
    So people are interpreting the doctrine in their hand to best suit their needs. But what is new? What is different than any other ideology? Doctrines' raison-d'etre is to be interpreted to suit people's need.

    No, when it comes to religion, the raison d'etre is to suit Gods need.

    Hmm, accepting that god either does not exist, either does not care about religion X from Y from Z, then your statement is not very useful to me. Suits who's need?

    All religions and all doctrines, will be interpreted to suit people's need. Smarter and more educated and more famous people will have more influential interpretations then your average pawn or ponce. But everyone will interpret what he/she is presented to the best of their ability, to suit their needs.

    Quote
    That is actually a major issue within islam. The lack of good/useful stuff compatible with our 20th+ Century sensibility. I wish there was some good stories or good subjects in the koran. Then it would have been easier to direct the muslim to the good stuff and compare the koran itself between good and bad. But I can not do this. Same with Muhammad. I wish there was some good deeds the guy did. So I can tell a muslim: Look, on that day muhammad was good, on that day muhammad was different. But I can not do this. I do not know of a day when muhammad was 'good'. It really sucks, not being able to find good stuff. It really makes my job of criticizing islam that much harder.

    Very biased.  There is a lot of good stuff in the quran.  In fact most of the bad stuff is directed solely at none believers.  Have you not come across any good stuff related to charity, family, children, parents etc.

    As far as Good Subjects go, I am not at all happy with the charity, family, children and or parents.

    The koran has 6200+ verses, less then 1% is for doing good to humanity and then another 1% is for doing good to muslims. However in the other 99% of the book is enough ammunition to counter and obliterate the goodness of those 2%.

    Worse, the 2% are not that good or enlightened or useful.

    For example, on the subject of Parents: Muhammad is always more loved then your parents, setting the kid to be a religious cop against his family which comes Second, with all the negativity such a role will wreck.

    Orphans: So little and few good verses in the koran, yet Five are 'spent' on the orphans. When I read those verses, I keep imagining the picture of Bush or Canada's Stephen Harper taking a picture beside a baby, to make themselves look more humane and they are not. To make it worse, on the subject of orphans, Muhammad prohibited adoption so he can get away with something, not very kosher with the quite young wife of his ex-adopted son.

    Charity: Reduced the customer charity of the time from 10% to 2.5%. Also the concept of using charity to pay for sin does not lead to a fair society. Sure today, a rich person can hire better lawyers, but at least that is a fault of the system, not an enshrined command.

    Unfortunately for me, I can go on. You can read some good verse here and there, but when you try to come up with a complete subject, some matter or subject that the koran handles and support with verses, the koran will always fall short.

    You might not be aware of this, but I have a request (often misconstrued as a challenge), for people to give me a good subject from the koran. I need good subjects in the koran. It is integral for my criticism of the koran to have some good subjects from the koran. Without good subjects, I will always be accused of being biased, even by Brucepig.

    So please, if you have a couple of good subjects from the koran, give them to me. Even if you are not sure, give them to me and tell me you are not sure. I will research them. Give me anything, that the koran is anti-fascism, anti-communism, anti-monopoly, honorable, good for old women, good for young women, good for unmarried women, good for married women, good for young men, good for old men, good for business, etc.. Anything, One or Two good subjects is all I ask for now.

    Quote
    Admittedly Islam has got more to answer for as it has not been formally adapted for the modern era yet, but that is primarly because Christianity for the moment exists is the developed world.  If Islam existed in Europe under the same conditions, then I have no doubt it would have modernised and left Christians feeling like the underdogs and conversely fighting to rid the world of evil Islam via similar means such as terrorism.

    That is a very wide jump. Basically you are implying that beliefs are pretty much inconsequential. You might as well replace the religions you mention with budhism and hinduism.

    I am quite happy to replace Christians with Budhists and Hindus in the example I gave - any minority with a sense of injustice is perfectly capable of fighting when they feel vulnerable and oppressed.

    Non-Sequitur. You stated that if islam was placed under the same conditions as Christianity in Europe, then islam would have reacted the same way. Then your answer to me, was about minority and injustice. Two very unrelated points. I guess you can Either rewrite the opening statement, either re-explain it for me, either rewrite the answer.

    You are making an assumption that it does not matter what religion the west had, all and any religion the west would have had, would have reformed and ended up giving us the developed world.


    Yes, I think any religion is capable of reforming, as most Muslims globally have.   If you take a look at the percentage of muslims who follow the Quran the way you describe it and you will see what I mean. 

    Globally, muslims are become more radicalized, in their own countries as well as immigration destinations. Also globally, muslims who move away from the koran, which I agree with you is the majority of muslims, are falling into the traps of the hadith.

    In reality I have only actually known of a handful of muslims who thought that way, and in practice it was all talk and hyperbole & amounted to very little anyway.  How many Muslims have you heard have been killed for apostacy, yet it is supposedly clear in the Quran that they all should be murdered.

    A bit of non-sequitur on your part. I never stated my concern with islam is just the apostate-killer. It is also the man who thinks he can hit his wife and divorce her with 1 word. Also the man who thinks apostates should not be killed, yet would be more then happy to turn their lives into hell.

    Religion can only slow human progress, it can never reverse it over a sustained period of time.  Beliefs are not inconsequential but they adapt according to the times albeit at different rates, but they still do and always will.

    Destruction through adaptation.

    I have no problem with reforming islam. In fact that is my stated goal. However I do not think that islam will survive its reform. I think islam will be destroyed when it reforms. I also think it is a fallacy to believe that every organism has the right to survive its evolution.

    The only right any organism has, is to evolve. Surviving the evolution is a privilege that most organisms did not get.

    I also accept that we both agree that islam should be reform and accept that whatever happens after the reform is of no consequence to you or me. I would call it a win-win situation. If we end up with a reformed and thriving islam, we win. If we end up with a reformed and destroyed islam, we still win.

    Cheers,




    ~ Edited to fix quote tags ~

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #50 - February 23, 2009, 05:42 PM

    A bit of non-sequitur on your part. I never stated my concern with islam is just the apostate-killer. It is also the man who thinks he can hit his wife and divorce her with 1 word. Also the man who thinks apostates should not be killed, yet would be more then happy to turn their lives into hell.





    I think a reformed or a naturally nicer Islam survives and thrives in quite a few locations. The Muslim Minagkabau of Sumatra, who at 7-8 million are the world's largest matriliny, the Javanese Kejawen Muslim, the Ismailis, the Turkish Alevis, Islam in Senegal, Mali, Niger etc are quite naturally nicer and thriving Islams.

    Much of the negative stuff in Islamic texts are also amply present in the OT-easy divorce through a get, suspicious husband feeding his wife mud water, killing apostates, Prophets with questionable morals etc, although Christianity was certainly an improvement, yet Jews have reformed.


    I have no problem with reforming islam. In fact that is my stated goal. However I do not think that islam will survive its reform. I think islam will be destroyed when it reforms. I also think it is a fallacy to believe that every organism has the right to survive its evolution.

    The only right any organism has, is to evolve. Surviving the evolution is a privilege that most organisms did not get.

    I also accept that we both agree that islam should be reform and accept that whatever happens after the reform is of no consequence to you or me. I would call it a win-win situation. If we end up with a reformed and thriving islam, we win. If we end up with a reformed and destroyed islam, we still win.

    Cheers,



    Very well expressed! Afro

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #51 - February 23, 2009, 05:48 PM

    It may seem unfair at first, but I hope it partly explains why we as ex-muslims tend to judge Christian, or other religious criticism of Islam, more harshly than we do our own


    Altho I agree with Os about Xtians who criticize Islam being hypocrites, I do really listen to such criticism, simply because a priest who?s ultra knowledgeable about Islam has opened my eyes to a lot of Islamic issues that have been buried for long.


    I too think criticism from any source, including Xtian sources can prove helpful, but I think we, or at least the ignorant need to be wary of Xtian preaching. Xtians, unlike many Muslims, often don't blindly believe, they conveniently leave the bad parts of their texts, and hilight only the good.

    I think, although reading both the Bible & Quran is boring, its a worthwile endeavour, simply to avoid falling into some missionaries trap who'll exaggerate the bad bits in your religion's\ex religion's texts, while downplaying or conveniently forgetting to mention the bad bits in theirs.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #52 - February 23, 2009, 06:22 PM

    Quote from: Rashna
    Xtians, unlike many Muslims, often don't blindly believe, they conveniently leave the bad parts of their texts, and hilight only the good.

    There are many intelligent and hypocritical Muslim preachers who do the same, concealing the worst truths about Islam. Fethullah Gulen is an example I can come up with.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #53 - February 23, 2009, 06:31 PM

    So people are interpreting the doctrine in their hand to best suit their needs. But what is new? What is different than any other ideology? Doctrines' raison-d'etre is to be interpreted to suit people's need.

    No, when it comes to religion, the raison d'etre is to suit Gods need.

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    Hmm, accepting that god either does not exist, either does not care about religion X from Y from Z, then your statement is not very useful to me. Suits who's need?
    All religions and all doctrines, will be interpreted to suit people's need. Smarter and more educated and more famous people will have more influential interpretations then your average pawn or ponce. But everyone will interpret what he/she is presented to the best of their ability, to suit their needs.

    Sorry, I dont understand your point - its nothing to do with you?  People follow religion in order to meet Gods expectations of them?
    Very biased.  There is a lot of good stuff in the quran.  In fact most of the bad stuff is directed solely at none believers.  Have you not come across any good stuff related to charity, family, children, parents etc.
    As far as Good Subjects go, I am not at all happy with the charity, family, children and or parents.

    The koran has 6200+ verses, less then 1% is for doing good to humanity and then another 1% is for doing good to muslims. However in the other 99% of the book is enough ammunition to counter and obliterate the goodness of those 2%.

    Worse, the 2% are not that good or enlightened or useful.

    For example, on the subject of Parents: Muhammad is always more loved then your parents, setting the kid to be a religious cop against his family which comes Second, with all the negativity such a role will wreck.

    Orphans: So little and few good verses in the koran, yet Five are 'spent' on the orphans. When I read those verses, I keep imagining the picture of Bush or Canada's Stephen Harper taking a picture beside a baby, to make themselves look more humane and they are not. To make it worse, on the subject of orphans, Muhammad prohibited adoption so he can get away with something, not very kosher with the quite young wife of his ex-adopted son.

    Charity: Reduced the customer charity of the time from 10% to 2.5%. Also the concept of using charity to pay for sin does not lead to a fair society. Sure today, a rich person can hire better lawyers, but at least that is a fault of the system, not an enshrined command.

    Unfortunately for me, I can go on. You can read some good verse here and there, but when you try to come up with a complete subject, some matter or subject that the koran handles and support with verses, the koran will always fall short.

    You might not be aware of this, but I have a request (often misconstrued as a challenge), for people to give me a good subject from the koran. I need good subjects in the koran. It is integral for my criticism of the koran to have some good subjects from the koran. Without good subjects, I will always be accused of being biased, even by Brucepig.

    So please, if you have a couple of good subjects from the koran, give them to me. Even if you are not sure, give them to me and tell me you are not sure. I will research them. Give me anything, that the koran is anti-fascism, anti-communism, anti-monopoly, honorable, good for old women, good for young women, good for unmarried women, good for married women, good for young men, good for old men, good for business, etc.. Anything, One or Two good subjects is all I ask for now.

    I agree with everything you say (except the %ages). However this lends to my point regarding interpretation.  The majority of Muslims will interprate the versus that they see as the good ones, and ignore the bad ones (as Islam commonly contradicts itself).  However I think the overall point you are attempting to make will only be true if we found a majority of Muslims were accepting of terrorist activities or say for example death for apostates.  So I am not sure what we would prove by going through this exercise.   Do you feel that the majority of Muslims are not good people?
    Admittedly Islam has got more to answer for as it has not been formally adapted for the modern era yet, but that is primarly because Christianity for the moment exists is the developed world.  If Islam existed in Europe under the same conditions, then I have no doubt it would have modernised and left Christians feeling like the underdogs and conversely fighting to rid the world of evil Islam via similar means such as terrorism.

    That is a very wide jump. Basically you are implying that beliefs are pretty much inconsequential. You might as well replace the religions you mention with budhism and hinduism.

    I am quite happy to replace Christians with Budhists and Hindus in the example I gave - any minority with a sense of injustice is perfectly capable of fighting when they feel vulnerable and oppressed.

    Non-Sequitur. You stated that if islam was placed under the same conditions as Christianity in Europe, then islam would have reacted the same way. Then your answer to me, was about minority and injustice. Two very unrelated points. I guess you can Either rewrite the opening statement, either re-explain it for me, either rewrite the answer.

    I'll rexeplain it as I think you misunderstood my point.  If Islam existed in the developed world, as opposed to mostly undeveloped countries, then you would see a different version of the religion being interpretated.
    You are making an assumption that it does not matter what religion the west had, all and any religion the west would have had, would have reformed and ended up giving us the developed world.

    Yes, I think any religion is capable of reforming, as most Muslims globally have.   If you take a look at the percentage of muslims who follow the Quran the way you describe it and you will see what I mean.

    Globally, muslims are become more radicalized, in their own countries as well as immigration destinations. Also globally, muslims who move away from the koran, which I agree with you is the majority of muslims, are falling into the traps of the hadith.

    agreed, and I also think world events and their inferiority complex, have also radicalised them
    In reality I have only actually known of a handful of muslims who thought that way, and in practice it was all talk and hyperbole & amounted to very little anyway.  How many Muslims have you heard have been killed for apostacy, yet it is supposedly clear in the Quran that they all should be murdered.

    A bit of non-sequitur on your part. I never stated my concern with islam is just the apostate-killer. It is also the man who thinks he can hit his wife and divorce her with 1 word. Also the man who thinks apostates should not be killed, yet would be more then happy to turn their lives into hell.

    Not sure if it a non-sequitor, I used death for apostates an an example that is often quoted as an example of Islam's tyranny.
    Religion can only slow human progress, it can never reverse it over a sustained period of time.  Beliefs are not inconsequential but they adapt according to the times albeit at different rates, but they still do and always will.

    Destruction through adaptation.

    I have no problem with reforming islam. In fact that is my stated goal. However I do not think that islam will survive its reform. I think islam will be destroyed when it reforms. I also think it is a fallacy to believe that every organism has the right to survive its evolution.

    The only right any organism has, is to evolve. Surviving the evolution is a privilege that most organisms did not get.

    I also accept that we both agree that islam should be reform and accept that whatever happens after the reform is of no consequence to you or me. I would call it a win-win situation. If we end up with a reformed and thriving islam, we win. If we end up with a reformed and destroyed islam, we still win.

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #54 - February 23, 2009, 10:13 PM


    I too think criticism from any source, including Xtian sources can prove helpful, but I think we, or at least the ignorant need to be wary of Xtian preaching. Xtians, unlike many Muslims, often don't blindly believe, they conveniently leave the bad parts of their texts, and hilight only the good.

    I think, although reading both the Bible & Quran is boring, its a worthwile endeavour, simply to avoid falling into some missionaries trap who'll exaggerate the bad bits in your religion's\ex religion's texts, while downplaying or conveniently forgetting to mention the bad bits in theirs.

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    That what brain is for; no matter what the missionary says, I can analyze and notice if he/she is playing around, exaggerating or whatever.

    "I'm Agnostic about God."

    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #55 - February 23, 2009, 10:15 PM

    There are many intelligent and hypocritical Muslim preachers who do the same, concealing the worst truths about Islam. Fethullah Gulen is an example I can come up with.

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    Agree, even here in Saudi,

    many moderates, liberals, and of course conservatives, do this..Many friends of mine hide some issues, brag about others...*SIGH*

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    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
     George Carlin == "...The so-called moderates are actually the public relations arm of Al-Qaeda and the Islamic Republic of Iran."  Maryam Namazie
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #56 - February 24, 2009, 07:12 AM

    I'm afraid I can't find the hadith or Quran reference to that story about woman\man throwing garbage on Prophet Muhammad after extensive search All Muslim sites say is that it is a tradition, but don't mention from where. Funny how Muslims refuse to accept many sordid stuff which the Prophet is believed to have done, claiming they're from unreliable hadiths. 001_tongue

    The site underneath claims that this particular story is plagiarized from Bahai sources. I don't want to accept on face value all claims that anti Muslim sites make, but why isn't the story in Ibn Ishaq, Bukhari, Muslim or even Timidhi?

    I repeat that I'd be extremely happy if someone could tell me the source of the story. Smiley

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #57 - February 24, 2009, 09:23 AM

    I'm afraid I can't find the hadith or Quran reference to that story about woman\man throwing garbage on Prophet Muhammad after extensive search All Muslim sites say is that it is a tradition, but don't mention from where. Funny how Muslims refuse to accept many sordid stuff which the Prophet is believed to have done, claiming they're from unreliable hadiths. 001_tongue

    The site underneath claims that this particular story is plagiarized from Bahai sources. I don't want to accept on face value all claims that anti Muslim sites make, but why isn't the story in Ibn Ishaq, Bukhari, Muslim or even Timidhi?

    I repeat that I'd be extremely happy if someone could tell me the source of the story. Smiley

    www.islamreview.com/articles/regainuniversalglory.shtml

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    Till now I found no source, we've been taught this as a fabricated fact when teachers and scholars never mentioned a reference,


    I'll keep looking for it tho.

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    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
     George Carlin == "...The so-called moderates are actually the public relations arm of Al-Qaeda and the Islamic Republic of Iran."  Maryam Namazie
  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #58 - February 24, 2009, 09:37 AM

    Till now I found no source, we've been taught this as a fabricated fact when teachers and scholars never mentioned a reference,
    I'll keep looking for it tho.


    Gosh, another good story gone then? Cry I can mention quite a few good stuff Buddha or Jesus did, and few if any bad stuff.

    I do think if Muhammad existed, or whoever wrote his script if he didn't should've written a better story, perhaps had Ibn Ishaq or Bukhari been a good spin doctor, we'd have a better example for Muslims to emulate...

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  • Re: Ex-Muslim Liberals, Please Wait a Minute!!
     Reply #59 - February 24, 2009, 09:57 AM

    No one is 100% bad Rashna, Mo. did some good stuff (ie good stories), not necessarily with non-Muslims.

    "I'm Agnostic about God."

    Richard Dawkins
    ==
    "If there is a God, it has to be a man; no woman could or would ever fuck things up like this."
     George Carlin == "...The so-called moderates are actually the public relations arm of Al-Qaeda and the Islamic Republic of Iran."  Maryam Namazie
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