This is especially addressed to the women on this forum.
Have you guys read Shaykh Abdal Hakim-Murad's essays on gender? They're on Masud Ahmed Khan's traditional Islam website:
http://www.masud.co.uk/ISLAM/ahm/gender.htmhttp://www.masud.co.uk/ISLAM/ahm/boys.htmI'm going to write proper refutations at some point (when I have time -- right now I've got my hands full with a Master's thesis), but I thought I would point these out to others on the forum. Murad is a very articulate and evidently intelligent man, but if you read his essays carefully and strip away the literary dross, you'll see that what he's saying is patent nonsense. He subscribes to a premodern theory of gender which is a cosmological theory that holds that "male" and "female" are some sort of transcendent principles embedded into the very fabric of the cosmos, and the human male and human female are merely earthly realizations of these cosmic archetypes or principles.
Quite apart from the unashamed anthropocentrism of such cosmological theories (humans experience sexual dimorphism ... therefore, the entire cosmos is gendered! as if sexless species don't exist! ;-) ), these theories completely overlook the fact that intersexed people *do* exist, and that individuals who are totally atypical for their biological sex also exist. In fact there is a point where human sexual dimorphism becomes very blurry and the entire medical definition of sex breaks down (think of two overlapping bell curves, one for men and one for women, with the area of overlap representing intersexed and atypical individuals).
There's much more I could say on this topic, but Murad's articles have been annoying me for a while, and I've been meaning to critique them but haven't found the time. What bothers me is that Murad comes across as a sophisticated intellectual and the ordinary person who isn't an academic or a very deep thinker is going to buy what he says hook, line and sinker. However, I personally find him quite pretentious, particularly the way he will co-opt the West's internal self-critique via postmodernism (which is a very good thing) to argue that orthodox Islam is a legitimate alternative to Western culture, and also the way he opportunistically reads pop-sociobiology to argue for patriarchal polygamy and many other regressive ideas (while denying Darwinian evolution itself ... very convenient).
I'll wait for some feedback. Just thought I would put this out there. If I ever get down to writing my rebuttals to Murad's essays, I'll let you guys know.