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 Topic: Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce

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  • Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce
     OP - January 06, 2010, 10:16 AM

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    Yemeni schoolgirl Nujood was divorced by the age of 10 having been married to a man of 30 when she was only nine. As the BBC's Owen Bennett-Jones heard when he met Nujood and her parents in the Yemeni capital Sanaa, she took her fate into her own hands, getting the divorce herself.


    She had not even known she was to be married on the day of her wedding.

    With her father's consent, she was brought by her future husband to his village where his family laid on a big ceremony.

    Afterwards, when she saw everyone leaving, she wanted them to drive her back home but was told by her new husband that she was married.

    After less than a week in the new village, which she spent doing household chores, her tearful pleas to the husband's family persuaded them to bring her back to her parents.

    She told her father that she wanted to finish school but he refused to allow this and said she must return to her new home.

    Two attempts to run away, hiding in her uncles' houses, failed when her father, husband and brothers came looking for her.

    Getting to court

    On the night before she was due to go back, her stepmother advised her to file for divorce at a court and that is where she went the next morning.

    She took advantage of the absence of her father, her mother, her stepmother and her elder brothers to take a bus and a taxi to the court.

    A woman at the gate listened to her story and took her into the judge's office.

    She told him that she wanted a divorce and that she wanted to finish school and stay with her family.

    The judge took her home to his own house and family where she stayed for three days, being treated kindly.

    He then sent her with an escort to her parents' house. Her parents were not in but one of her sisters passed on the message that she had gone to court for a divorce.

    One of her uncles came to the court to collect her.

    After her father and her new husband came to the court themselves, they were arrested and sentenced to 10 days and 15 days in prison respectively.

    A few weeks later, the judge granted the divorce. Her husband was led into the court for the ruling but said nothing to her.

    Nujood has been living at home again since the divorce. She is going to school again and hopes to attend university.


    Source: http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/middle_east/8429074.stm

    Kudos to this girl for her bravery.

    How selfish of her family to deprive her of her education, childhood and the dream wedding that she would have wanted at an older age!  I bet her father sold her off to the highest bidder!  Fecking prick!  finmad

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  • Re: Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce
     Reply #1 - January 06, 2010, 10:19 AM

    All true Nour, but how heartwarming to hear that it was a male judge, in Yemen, that helped her and listened to her, protected her for a few days and ensured she got her divorce.  yes

    That's good stuff, even if her family is such a fucking let down.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce
     Reply #2 - January 06, 2010, 03:49 PM

    What a brave little girl. You can just tell she has such a proud and strong personality.  little angel

    Iblis has mad debaterin' skillz. Best not step up unless you're prepared to recieve da pain.

  • Re: Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce
     Reply #3 - January 06, 2010, 07:38 PM

    I read not too long ago that the girl is really struggling now.  She has refused to go to school many days (her tuition is paid for), and is very confused / angry about the journos visiting and all that stuff.  I worry about what will happen to her.

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  • Re: Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce
     Reply #4 - January 06, 2010, 09:06 PM

    I read not too long ago that the girl is really struggling now.  She has refused to go to school many days (her tuition is paid for), and is very confused / angry about the journos visiting and all that stuff.  I worry about what will happen to her.

    Exactly.
    Getting focus is one thing, but getting TOO MUCH focus is another. I dunno why all the fuss about her in particular when there are probably hundreds or even thousands like her. I mean the incident is almost 2 years old, and it still is up.

    "In every time and culture there are pressures to conform to the prevailing prejudices. But there are also, in every place and epoch, those who value the truth; who record the evidence faithfully. Future generations are in their debt." -Carl Sagan

  • Re: Yemeni Child Bride Fights for Divorce
     Reply #5 - January 09, 2010, 12:04 PM

    Poor girl. There are so many things wrong with yemeni society and culture, kudos to the judge, at least some people there have decency.

    It is not the way you live your life that is important, it is how well you enjoy it that matters.
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