I'm new here and without wishes either way. Just 2 cents, if that's all right:
I can certainly understand luftazure's reasons, the topics are very sensitive and admittedly sometimes degenerate.
However, luftazure, I'd point out that sensitivities are high
on all sides, not only one, and there isn't really a way around that. There just isn't.
I admit I might not be happy with every single post I read towards others' religious/spiritual beliefs, but on the other hand, some of the effects of institutionalized religion on people is outrageous and I'm not surprised people need to speak up without gloves.
I don't see a better way to handle it, there is a certain level of moderation from the staff that I can see, and I don't think it can be much more than that.
newsoul: actually there is an agreement at registration on the forum. Not an "oath" but an agreement nonetheless, which states pretty much something like: there will be passionate discussions, and there will be attacks, though there are limits - repeated personal unwarranted attacks will be moderated. (or so I remember it, not sure I read everything

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