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 Topic: The Chat Thread

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  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #240 - August 08, 2012, 12:19 AM

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  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #241 - August 08, 2012, 01:04 AM

    There's nothing funny about sexism. You think it's funny because you haven't experienced its oppressive force.

    And I should add that saying "mee-yow" to a girl for pointing out a sexist remark is quite sexist.

    This isn't a personal attack, but please be aware of the words you use. I see "bitch" and "whore" and other oppressive terms being thrown around by some guys here like they're meaningless terms, and that can alienate some people. It's unacceptable. One of the purposes of this forum is to be a safe virtual space for people living in oppressive environments. Don't take away from that.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #242 - August 08, 2012, 01:27 AM

    Oh. I'm sorry I didn't realize you guys were making sexist jokes on the chat these days. My bad.

    Hey, amina was the one who started it. Tongue

    "Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well."
    - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #243 - August 08, 2012, 01:35 AM

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  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #244 - August 08, 2012, 05:57 AM

    I don't think it's sexist at all. I'd say the same thing about a man who behaved the same way.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #245 - August 08, 2012, 07:09 AM

    Have you ever said the word whore out loud before, to anyone? Or any other "bad word" for that matter? The internet is a great place to be all funny and stuff.

    "If intelligence is feminine... I would want that mine would, in a resolute movement, come to resemble an impious woman."
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #246 - August 08, 2012, 07:52 AM

    I have, as a mater of fact. But I really think you're going overboard here, I don't see how the joke was sexist in the slightest. It in no way implied superiority of one sex over another. Males and females alike can be whores. The only thing I suppose you could take issue with is that it implied that promiscuity was something to be looked down upon. But that isn't sexist. At all. I think you guys need to lighten up.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #247 - August 08, 2012, 08:06 AM

    Whether or not you say it for both men and women is irrelevant. 'Whore' is a term socially used to put women down, to put them in their place in a patriarchy. Men don't get called whores when they dress up. They don't get called catty when they speak up. They don't get called bitches when they fight for their rights.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #248 - August 08, 2012, 08:44 AM

    Just because that is true in some instances doesn't mean every instance of the word is sexist. It's a word. To jump down someone's throat for merely using a word doesn't help your cause, it only hurts it by giving that word more power. The joke here wasn't sexist.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #249 - August 08, 2012, 09:00 AM

    Words already have power. When you call someone a whore, you don't know what her experience with the word is. She might have been called a whore her entire life by people who didn't want her to stand up for herself, and by using that word, you'd be reminding her of and perpetuating her past experiences.

    If you want to use a word, make sure the person you use it on doesn't have an oppressive experience with it. And make sure no one listening/reading has either.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #250 - August 08, 2012, 09:11 AM

    Words only have as much power as you give them. If one is inclined to read so much into such a trivial matter, everything has the power to become incredibly offensive to someone, somewhere.

    Once again: the joke was not sexist, and the intention was not malevolent. This has gone far beyond what it ever should have been: a harmless, perhaps (at the most) slightly misguided remark, with the intention of being humorous.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #251 - August 08, 2012, 09:17 AM

    Look, words have socially constructed power. You can't go around calling black people niggers, because black people have historically been called niggers to put them in place in a racist society. Saying words have power if you give it to them is bullshit. You don't create the meaning of words, their meaning exists through their use in a society.

    A joke does not have to be intentionally sexist for it to be oppressive. I've already made my point, and now you're repeating yourself.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #252 - August 08, 2012, 09:20 AM

    That's a straw man. The joke he made is in no way comparable to going around calling black people niggers, and you know it.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #253 - August 08, 2012, 09:21 AM

    You said words have power if you give it to them. If you think it's a straw man, it's because you have oversimplified your argument, because my argument fits yours.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #254 - August 08, 2012, 09:22 AM

    I think my argument was taking context into consideration, a factor you seem to be oblivious to.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #255 - August 08, 2012, 09:25 AM

    Let's not get sidetracked here. I can remove my analogy and just say that words exist in a social context that needs to be taken into account, and a joke can have ramifications beyond its intentions.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #256 - August 08, 2012, 09:28 AM

    Well, judging from the gross overreaction seen here, I would say it would be best to not make jokes at all, lest we offend an unseen victim of societal subjugation.

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #257 - August 08, 2012, 09:29 AM

    Great. You do that.
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #258 - August 08, 2012, 09:30 AM

    Afro

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #259 - August 08, 2012, 09:32 AM

    I'll be sure to keep you to your word.

    The Anti-Joke Police. cool2
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #260 - August 08, 2012, 09:33 AM


    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #261 - August 08, 2012, 03:28 PM

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  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #262 - August 08, 2012, 03:43 PM

    Well, judging from the gross overreaction seen here, I would say it would be best to not make jokes at all, lest we offend an unseen victim of societal subjugation.


    It's the general attitude in the chat. There's nothing wrong with joking around. It just concerns me when it's a group of people that grew  up in oppressive environments. Their only interaction with women is online and they have some obvious disconnect between reality and the internet. It disturbs me when I see it on the chat.It's been a few times lately where I've just left because of it. There's a latent misogyny and joking about it doesn't make it go away.

    And condsidering you're on an exmuslim forum I wouldn't say the victims are unseen, solara. There are people struggling with this on the forum as you speak.

    Now how about you let Godot argue for himself.He's apologized about twice now.

    "If intelligence is feminine... I would want that mine would, in a resolute movement, come to resemble an impious woman."
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #263 - August 11, 2012, 02:24 AM

    Grin

    22:23   Godot   fucking zooby
    22:23   Solara   how does he work

    Life is what happens to you while you're staring at your smartphone.

    Eternal Sunshine of the Religionless Mind
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #264 - August 11, 2012, 03:18 AM

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  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #265 - August 11, 2012, 08:47 PM

    15:45   Solara   sounds like a ghoul cat being skinned
    15:45   zooby   lol
    15:45   zooby   there was one reciter at my local mosque
    15:45   zooby   he sounded like  a walrus being shot
    15:46   Solara   lol
    15:46   Solara   they all sond terrible imo
    15:46   Solara   I hate when they fake emotion too
    15:46   Solara   they'll stop for a few seconds to sob
    15:46   Solara   and swish their spit in their mouth
    15:46   Solara   like they're crying
    15:46   Solara   both annoying and distgusting at the same time

    "Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well."
    - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #266 - August 14, 2012, 04:07 AM

    23:03   Godot   I can watch 2g1c without even flinching
    23:03   Godot   XD
    23:03   asbdsp   yeah
    23:03   asbdsp   you just have to desensitize yourself to it
    23:04   Godot   yup, after the 2nd/3rd time, it's noraml
    23:04   asbdsp   it can work for almost anything
    23:04   Godot   normal*
    23:04   asbdsp   unless there's a latent personal trauma
    23:04   asbdsp   then you might have more difficulty
    23:04   Godot   involving shitting into a cup and eating it?

    "Life is not a matter of holding good cards, but of playing a poor hand well."
    - Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #267 - August 14, 2012, 04:28 AM

    It's the general attitude in the chat. There's nothing wrong with joking around. It just concerns me when it's a group of people that grew  up in oppressive environments. Their only interaction with women is online and they have some obvious disconnect between reality and the internet. It disturbs me when I see it on the chat. It's been a few times lately where I've just left because of it. There's a latent misogyny and joking about it doesn't make it go away.


    Ban zizo and 95% of it evaporates into thin air.

    Considering you're never really on there much anymore, I don't think it's wise to make such sweeping generalizations. Chat has really cleaned up in recent months, and I don't think there's any need for anyone to feel uncomfortable or unwelcome there, at least on the front that has been mentioned here.

    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #268 - August 14, 2012, 04:36 AM

    Lol. The sad part is that Zizo isn't joking most of the time.  But you're probably right. I'm not saying that y'all are always sexist in there. You only account for the 5 %. Tongue

    That's not true, I go on the chat sometimes. And if I haven't been on recently, I've just been busy with other things, It's not because I hate you all or feel unwelcome at all.   I figured I'd let you guys have space to bitch about me and my feminazism in any case. :p

    I just logged in now, there. Ha.

    "If intelligence is feminine... I would want that mine would, in a resolute movement, come to resemble an impious woman."
  • Re: The Chat Thread
     Reply #269 - August 14, 2012, 04:37 AM

    Nothing in this thread makes sense to me.

    Too fucking busy, and vice versa.
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