What you are doing is equating our human need to understand reality with the claim God made it so. The former is an evolutionary trait which has helped us to survive the harsh reality, the latter is pure conjecture. Before you claim all our feelings are from god please give us a definition of God.
Let us take a look at the compiled definition of Allah taken from Quran scriptures.
The Most Lovingly Beneficent, The Most Kind and Giving, The Most Gracious, The Infinitely Good, The Most Merciful, The Most Compassionate ..
The One who continually showers all of creation with blessings and prosperity without any disparity. The One who is most kind, loving and merciful. The One whose endless, loving mercy is perfect and inclusive. The One who is overflowing with the quality of loving mercy and is continually pouring it upon all of creation. The One whose perfect mercy and loving beneficence endlessly embrace all of creation. The One who loves and cherishes all of creation. The One who is most loving, gentle and merciful. The One who grants even more grace and greater rewards in response to our good actions and high thoughts. The One who greatly rewards those who use the Divine bounties and beneficence in a good way. The One who has mercy on the merciful and so on.
Wait a minute, are seriously telling me that our senses is what you interpret to meaning God is communicating with you. You seem to have a definition of God which sounds similar to that mystics use to say that god is everything which is very very vague and inconsistent. Also when your body gives warning signs like a stroke or severe headaches etc it usually a good indication to go see a doctor rather than claim its the souls time to leave the body.
Agreed a stroke or severe headaches and illnesses can be treated but not signal signs when the souls want to leave the body because we have never died before, we don't know the warning signs of death
I know all about Islams view on destiny/fate. what you are doing is applying mysticism to a natural event of dying. I see that for you it is a coping mechanism which is fine but don't assert meaning behind events like this which you clearly can't substantiate and are clear conjecture.
p.s I've been trying to understand your post best I can, this is the best I could do, If I happen to got the wrong meaning out of your post, you could at least try to explain in more detail rather using mumbo jumbo and vague claims. It would be much appreaciated.
I'll do my best.