come on thats a bit of a generalisation
i have a great relationship with my wife and we have the 1 kid after 5 years of marriage
'maid' please how neathdral of you to say that (not in a mean way)
i generally agree with your points but lets be more respectful
peace
Dude, just because you are nice doesn't mean that it isn't degrading that women in patriarchal society are treated like maids.
"Happy" marriage in religious terms (both Xtian and Islamic) involves having the women taking care of all household chores, just like maids.
I would know, I lived that life for a long time. Dirty dishes? Women do it. Women scrub the toilet, do all the cooking, sacrifice her career and dreams to support the family.
Yes, I did feel like a maid. It's obvious that if guys do household chores they're just being "nice" because ultimately, as a woman that's my job. Women = go-to-maid.