Then I am lost.. So what is the discussion is about RamiRustom ?
Most atheists argue with theists by asking for evidence of their god claim. But of course there is no evidence since their god claim is not a scientific theory, which means that it doesn't make any testable predictions. (here I'm talking about the harder god claim, the one that doesn't make any testable predictions). So it's a bad question.
And then the theist argues by asking the atheist for evidence of his claim that there is no god. But there is no evidence again.
So by asking for evidence, the atheist gives the theist a way out -- to ask for evidence.
Both claims have no evidence, so it's a mistake to ask for evidence.
But we don't need evidence. All we need to do is find a contradiction, and the theory is refuted.
And every god claim I've encountered contains a contradiction. And it's pretty easy to find it and explain it to the theist (though if he's not willing to adopt a rational attitude then he won't change his mind).
What I do with theists is to ask them: What question does your god claim solve? i.e. What problem does your god claim solve? i.e. Why do you believe in god?
This puts the ball in their court. Don't take the ball back until they form a question. Once you have their question, then criticize it, in order to reveal the contradiction. Once you've found it, the idea is refuted.