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 Topic: How to tell my mum im moving out

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  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     OP - April 27, 2014, 02:13 PM
    So i found an affordable, safe and neat apartment near my new job that I can move into by thursday

    How do I tell my mum this, I am so terrified of her response
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #1 - April 27, 2014, 02:19 PM
    I would just tell her you need to be nearer to work plain and simple, i wouldnt bother saying it's because you make life hard etc, no point in causing a rift,  who knows she may be nicer to you once you have your own place..  youre a grown woman you can do as you want   : )

    X
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #2 - April 27, 2014, 02:19 PM
    There is no easy way agno. Just do it. Just tell her two days before your move that you found a place near your job and that's it. Two days is good, cuz you didn't postpone telling her in the last minute, but she won't have enough time to bully you out of it. Be strong. Her reaction will most probably be in line with her past behaviour. Anger, shouting and insults. Be prepared on her black mailing you and verbally/emotionally abuse you in order to put pressure on you not to go through with it. In the end, moving out is just one more step closer to freedom. You know that Smiley good luck!

    And as suki said, maybe this will give you distance to break lose from her control and subsequently it MIGHT give you both a chance to get along easier once you see each other. You can always hope Smiley
    "The healthiest people I know are those who are the first to label themselves fucked up." - three
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #3 - April 27, 2014, 02:22 PM
    Most parents bark is worse than their bite. If they are good religious parents, they would have done a number on you, hence all the fraught now. Be brave...
    I am my own worst enemy and best friend, itsa bit of a squeeze in a three-quarter bed, tho. Unhinged!? If I was a dog I would be having kittens, that is unhinged. Footloose n fancy free, forced to fit, fated to fly. One or 2 words, 3 and 3/thirds, looking comely but lonely, till I made them homely.D
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #4 - April 27, 2014, 03:00 PM
    Quote from: confusedagno on April 27, 2014, 02:13 PM
    So i found an affordable, safe and neat apartment near my new job that I can move into by thursday

    How do I tell my mum this, I am so terrified of her response

      good  good..

    So. confusedagno.,   other than your mom, who else in the family will agree or disagree with your decision of leaving home and living in an apartment  
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #5 - April 27, 2014, 03:03 PM
    Yeez, my grandparents  and thats about it, no one else will be bothered by it. Maybe my mums family, but they all crazy
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #6 - April 27, 2014, 03:03 PM
    Confused: Mum, I have found a nice apartment and I am moving out.
    Mother: *some sort of profanity followed by emotional plea*
    Confused: Mum, we are both too old for this, I will still visit you- I just need my own place.
    *Confused then walks away in an assertive manner & feels like a boss*
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #7 - April 27, 2014, 03:08 PM
    Quote from: confusedagno on April 27, 2014, 03:03 PM
    Yeez, my grandparents  and thats about it, no one else will be bothered by it. Maybe my mums family, but they all crazy

      Maternal grand parents? .. So your mom's family also lives in the same town?    Did you leak the news to your grandma??
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #8 - April 27, 2014, 03:11 PM
    No, no one but my brother knows. And my mums family live in a different town

    No one can really stop me, im just afraid of teh verbal attack, hoping no physical attacks

    I hate being a fucking precious indian girl
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #9 - April 27, 2014, 03:11 PM
    Quote from: Qtian on April 27, 2014, 03:03 PM
    Confused: Mum, I have found a nice apartment and I am moving out.
    Mother: *some sort of profanity followed by emotional plea*
    Confused: Mum, we are both too old for this, I will still visit you- I just need my own place.
    *Confused then walks away in an assertive manner & feels like a boss*

    O my word this sound good lol
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #10 - April 27, 2014, 03:26 PM
     grin12
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #11 - April 27, 2014, 04:11 PM
    *Takes copious notes for future reference*
    Just like Johnny Flynn said, the breath I've taken and the one I must to go on.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #12 - April 27, 2014, 04:13 PM
    ^ Let me know in advance  (if you ever need to take action), I will design a script for you to follow (including cues).
    My mind runs, I can never catch it even if I get a head start.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #13 - April 27, 2014, 04:15 PM
     yes Will do.
    Just like Johnny Flynn said, the breath I've taken and the one I must to go on.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #14 - May 02, 2014, 07:41 PM
    I was all amped up to tell my mum i moved out, Im at her place tonight

    I planned to do it tomorrow when we both fresh, gonna take her for a drive and explain it to her and take her to see my new place

    Although in my head I had this whole speech planned out but when I saw her I lost all my nerve, I still plan to tell her tomorrow but not feeling confident anymore

    but ye i need to rip this bandage off
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #15 - May 02, 2014, 07:43 PM
    Don't do it while driving, what is she starts raging in the car?
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #16 - May 02, 2014, 07:44 PM
    i think shes less likely to rage while im driving,
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #17 - May 02, 2014, 07:46 PM
    Whatever you feel is best, I'm just worried about your safety.  Smiley
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #18 - May 02, 2014, 07:46 PM
     far away hug
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #19 - May 02, 2014, 08:10 PM
    Quote from: Wiselyskeptical on April 27, 2014, 04:11 PM
    *Takes copious notes for future reference*

     Cheesy
    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

    Exmuslim Chat
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #20 - May 02, 2014, 08:16 PM
    Ladybird, I have questions about your icon and also I have terrible eyesight. Are those birds? Or did someone draw a face over a picture of the sky? Or did the birds arrange to form that face and that's why you chose it? Or am I the only one who sees that face? Too curious, must know! Grin
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #21 - May 02, 2014, 08:20 PM
    ^I think that's the point. It is a face made of birds flying.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #22 - May 02, 2014, 08:21 PM
    I really need my glasses back. To me it just looks like the pen tool in MS paint.  wacko
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #23 - May 02, 2014, 08:22 PM
    Quote from: Descent on May 02, 2014, 08:20 PM
    ^I think that's the point. It is a face made of birds flying.

    Bet you never thought you'd say that today.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #24 - May 02, 2014, 08:24 PM
    Cheesy Wait, I zoomed in and I see their little bodies now.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #25 - May 02, 2014, 08:27 PM
    Confused you changed your avatar!!!  finmad

    Jasmine>Ariel
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #26 - May 02, 2014, 08:28 PM
    lol

    sorry, i love them both tho
    "I Knew who I was this morning, but I've changed a few times since then." Alice in wonderland

    "This is the only heaven we have how dare you make it a hell" Dr Marlene Winell
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #27 - May 02, 2014, 08:33 PM
    If we rank the Disney princesses (the ones I know)...IMO

    Mulan>Elsa/Anna>Rapunzel>Merida>Jasmine>Belle>Cinderella>Ariel>Snow White

    I know there's more but these are the ones from the movies I've seen.
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #28 - May 02, 2014, 08:43 PM
    Quote from: lua on May 02, 2014, 08:16 PM
    Ladybird, I have questions about your icon and also I have terrible eyesight. Are those birds? Or did someone draw a face over a picture of the sky? Or did the birds arrange to form that face and that's why you chose it? Or am I the only one who sees that face? Too curious, must know! Grin


    I think it is fake though, but these are indeed birds arrange to form that face
    Glasses do some miracles ;p
    Dogs never bite me - just humans. ~ M. Monroe

    Religions seem to cause more grief than good.

    Exmuslim Chat
  • How to tell my mum im moving out
     Reply #29 - May 02, 2014, 08:46 PM
    I know, I used to have some, but I'm just so so so lazy. One of these days!
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