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  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     OP - August 11, 2015, 11:11 PM
    Just FYI I am more active on Facebook these days than I am on here and in fact I will not be posting here much from now on (but I still love you all), so if you want to stay in touch and be my Facebook friend grin12 then just send me a friend request and say who who you are (your nick here will do lol)

    https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100006745147497

     Afro
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #1 - August 12, 2015, 02:39 AM
    Okay!
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #2 - August 12, 2015, 04:04 AM
    Yay... Thanks Smiley
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #3 - August 12, 2015, 06:37 AM
    Why will you not be posting on Cemb as much?
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #4 - August 12, 2015, 09:13 AM
    Well basically because it's preaching to the choir. But I will still be here just to socialise and hang out.
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #5 - August 12, 2015, 09:25 AM
    So I need to reactivate an account on a site I hate and was bullied into joining to interact with a person I enjoy interacting with when the place I already interact with him suits just fine?

    Sigh. Be so much easier if I actually liked facebook.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #6 - August 12, 2015, 09:51 AM
    I'm not going to post my facebook but you can message me if you guys want to be friends (we're already friends, Hassan!) My estranged husband is on one of his pissy fits where he hates everyone and I told him idgaf and so he's all "I'm blocking you! No I'm srs! I'm blocking you! Pay attention to me, I'm angry!" waiting for me to come grovelling back but I've developed some self esteem, so fuck that shit. Zero fucks are being given by me, if he decides to be friends it's going to be on my terms, not his, and one of those terms will be to accept that I can believe whatever I want. It's been a year since he moved out, he's not paying my bills, fuck him.  dance

    So anyway the point of that rant was that he had been isolating me and intimidating me over the past few years and now I feel like I can add friends because he's not the boss of me, and if he wants to be friends, he needs to be friends on my terms.
    Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for I have a sonic screwdriver, a tricorder, and a Type 2 phaser.
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #7 - August 12, 2015, 09:57 AM
    Good for you.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #8 - August 12, 2015, 10:25 AM
    I only use facebook for discussion groups, plus the fact that i have no social life whatsoever to post anything of interest lol
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #9 - August 12, 2015, 10:44 AM
    What happened to your daughters? A harem of beauties is what you offered me, if memory serves.
    `But I don't want to go among mad people,' Alice remarked.
     `Oh, you can't help that,' said the Cat: `we're all mad here. I'm mad.  You're mad.'
     `How do you know I'm mad?' said Alice.
     `You must be,' said the Cat, `or you wouldn't have come here.'
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #10 - August 12, 2015, 10:48 AM
    Hassan if you don't mind me asking what do your children think about your religious views? How are theirs?
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #11 - August 12, 2015, 10:55 AM
    ^^lol they are very beautiful..  they havent got time for boyfriends they are studying hard.  It's so difficult when they leave home for university, it took me a whole year to get over my first daughter going last year and another leaves for london uni this september : (   funny thing is i still feel like a kid myself, lol i havent grown up yet, more like a big sis than a mom.

    x
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #12 - August 12, 2015, 11:37 AM
    Quote from: Quod Sum Eris on August 12, 2015, 09:25 AM
    So I need to reactivate an account on a site I hate and was bullied into joining to interact with a person I enjoy interacting with when the place I already interact with him suits just fine?

    Sigh. Be so much easier if I actually liked facebook.



    LOL.... Awwww... sorry, Quod.

    It's just that Facebook is a place where I can interact with my family and friends and many other Muslims I know without the meaningless polemic but on the basis of the fact they know me and know who I am.

    I'm done with anonymity - it is not helpful imho

    Of course this site is very important and provides an essential safe refuge for ex-Muslims, but it has pretty much served that function for me and I shall be forever grateful to the place and the wonderful ppl here.

    Having said that I will still be here to socialise with you guys Smiley
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #13 - August 12, 2015, 11:39 AM
    Quote from: gal_from_usa on August 12, 2015, 09:51 AM
    I'm not going to post my facebook but you can message me if you guys want to be friends (we're already friends, Hassan!) My estranged husband is on one of his pissy fits where he hates everyone and I told him idgaf and so he's all "I'm blocking you! No I'm srs! I'm blocking you! Pay attention to me, I'm angry!" waiting for me to come grovelling back but I've developed some self esteem, so fuck that shit. Zero fucks are being given by me, if he decides to be friends it's going to be on my terms, not his, and one of those terms will be to accept that I can believe whatever I want. It's been a year since he moved out, he's not paying my bills, fuck him.  dance

    So anyway the point of that rant was that he had been isolating me and intimidating me over the past few years and now I feel like I can add friends because he's not the boss of me, and if he wants to be friends, he needs to be friends on my terms.


    hugs
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #14 - August 12, 2015, 11:40 AM
    Quote from: Helaine on August 12, 2015, 10:48 AM
    Hassan if you don't mind me asking what do your children think about your religious views? How are theirs?


    Everything is fine on that front I'm glad to say. Let's say they are liberal Muslims who share many of my perspectives Smiley
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #15 - August 12, 2015, 11:41 AM
    Actually most of my wider family are now very comfortable with my position regarding Islam and I see in fact that some are extremely sympathetic to the view that the Qur'an is not infallible!!
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #16 - August 12, 2015, 11:43 AM
    Anyone who does befriend me on Facebook just remember that most of my family and friends are Muslims and so I am very respectful and gentle in my discussions - no angry polemics please - lol xx
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #17 - August 12, 2015, 12:19 PM
    I’ll miss you here, Shaikh. I’ve never been a huge fan of facebook, but I have an account that I occasionally log into to lurk on old friends and acquaintances. I’ll be doing the same to you now. Grin

    On anonymity, it has its pluses and minuses, I suppose, but I understand what you mean. It has dawned on me recently that many of us have shared so much of our lives and souls here with people whose first names we often scarcely even know. Does that allow you to share more? Share less? Share things you would not have shared otherwise? Share them differently? Allah ‘alam.

    Anyhow, don’t be a stranger. far away hug 
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #18 - August 12, 2015, 01:12 PM
    Please continue the Agnostics muslim khutbah, it really is amazing and persuasive =)
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #19 - August 12, 2015, 02:12 PM
    Quote from: happymurtad on August 12, 2015, 12:19 PM
    Anyhow, don’t be a stranger. far away hug 


    I won't hugs

    This place - and you guys mean so much to me. CEMB played a huge and crucial role in my journey and I am very proud to have helped establish the online forum and the Youtube videos - it will always remain a part of me - and I will always be popping in Smiley
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #20 - August 12, 2015, 02:13 PM
    Quote from: Helaine on August 12, 2015, 01:12 PM
    Please continue the Agnostics muslim khutbah, it really is amazing and persuasive =)


    Thank you. I post them whenever I deliver them on both my Facebbok page and my Agnostic Muslim Blog:

    http://agnosticmuslimkhutbahs.blogspot.co.uk/

    Smiley
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #21 - August 12, 2015, 02:50 PM
    ah Ha!  I can post here ,,lol..

    Quote from: Hassan on August 12, 2015, 02:13 PM
    ....... I post them whenever I deliver them..................Agnostic Muslim...............

    http://agnosticmuslimkhutbahs.blogspot.co.uk/

    Smiley

    Ohyee  hassan...allah bless  you..
    Go.. conquer the world with your agnostic sermons ...
    Be and become Saud of Agnostic Islam .. .....
    .....King of Agnostic Islam.........  Cheesy
    Do not let silence become your legacy.. Question everything   
    I renounced my faith to become a kafir, 
    the beloved betrayed me and turned in to  a Muslim     
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #22 - August 12, 2015, 07:03 PM
    Wrong thread, sorry. Second time this has occurred to me.
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #23 - August 12, 2015, 07:33 PM
    You can also follow someone on facebook without adding them as a friend,  not sure what the difference is really..   I don't mind adding mine lol,  i will keep my profile private though, i have a fake name there anyway, after getting caught out by fellow muslim friends drinking a pint in a pub lol, photo went viral :/ 
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #24 - August 12, 2015, 07:45 PM
    Quote from: suki on August 12, 2015, 07:33 PM
    after getting caught out by fellow muslim friends drinking a pint in a pub lol, photo went viral :/ 


    Ouch!

    You see I don't want to live like that. I want to be open and ppl can like it or lump it.
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #25 - August 12, 2015, 07:48 PM
    Facebook itself scares me. “People you may know…” Yeah, I know them. But how the hell do *you* know that I know them. “We have reason to believe you are not using your real name…” Eff you, Face book! You don’t own me!
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #26 - August 12, 2015, 07:51 PM
    Facebook asked me to provide with my real ID, so that they could verify that my account was not fake.  finmad

    At first I though I was on the wrong Facebook, but it was the actual , original website..
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #27 - August 12, 2015, 07:58 PM
    Quote from: Hassan on August 12, 2015, 07:45 PM
    Ouch!

    You see I don't want to live like that. I want to be open and ppl can like it or lump it.


    I don't really care anymore what anyone thinks, been out of Islam too long anyway..   I cannot face my old male muslim friends though without wearing hijab, i still put one on if they pay me a surprise visit lol  :/
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #28 - August 12, 2015, 10:46 PM
    Quote from: Hassan on August 12, 2015, 11:37 AM

    LOL.... Awwww... sorry, Quod.

    It's just that Facebook is a place where I can interact with my family and friends and many other Muslims I know without the meaningless polemic but on the basis of the fact they know me and know who I am.

    I'm done with anonymity - it is not helpful imho

    Of course this site is very important and provides an essential safe refuge for ex-Muslims, but it has pretty much served that function for me and I shall be forever grateful to the place and the wonderful ppl here.

    Having said that I will still be here to socialise with you guys Smiley


    Cool Hassan. I've already friended you on facebook anyway.  Afro
    Quote from: yeezevee on February 11, 2016, 02:05 PM
    how fuck works without shit??


    Let's Play Chess!

    harakaat, friend, RIP
  • Be My Friend on Facebook
     Reply #29 - August 12, 2015, 11:12 PM
    Quote from: gal_from_usa on August 12, 2015, 09:51 AM
    I'm not going to post my facebook but you can message me if you guys want to be friends (we're already friends, Hassan!) My estranged husband is on one of his pissy fits where he hates everyone and I told him idgaf and so he's all "I'm blocking you! No I'm srs! I'm blocking you! Pay attention to me, I'm angry!" waiting for me to come grovelling back but I've developed some self esteem, so fuck that shit. Zero fucks are being given by me, if he decides to be friends it's going to be on my terms, not his, and one of those terms will be to accept that I can believe whatever I want. It's been a year since he moved out, he's not paying my bills, fuck him.  dance

    So anyway the point of that rant was that he had been isolating me and intimidating me over the past few years and now I feel like I can add friends because he's not the boss of me, and if he wants to be friends, he needs to be friends on my terms.


    Good! It took me a few years to get over that isolation and intimidation bit, it can be daunting.
    Don't let Hitler have the street.
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