Granted my family may seem like an exception, but just because we are educating the some of the children in our family, does not make us priviledged or elite. My family still put an emphasis on reciting the Quran and sticking to the Muslim crowd. As for the rest of the kids, what about them? Maybe they ...
Yes, the rest of the kids, taught to recite..recite..recite. You see them on the buses and at work. Come on Heartbomb, it is me you are talking to here. And where are the IMO the 'few', who really know their deen? where are their blogs? Where are their editorials.
could afford it but their parents prefered to send them to a madrassa for some Islamic education. Maybe they wanted to send them to an Ahmadiyya institution where, from what I know, education is free and is taught in direct relation to how they live their lives and how they should apply the teachings to their own lives.
Whether they wanted or had no choice, it matters not, islam is not designed to be taught. And the reason your cousins have to spend so many years studying it, is because they are unable to learn it and wrap their heads around it. I know that loop. They will always blame the emptiness they get from islam on their own perceived lack of intellect and knowledge. To make up for the emptiness they will study harder and harder till life passes them by or they get tired of looking and just submit their inferiority to the deen and to the imam.
Meanwhile, the most self-informative years of their live are gone over an arab desert mirage and now they have to face the world and compete with a whole lot of emptiness to move forward with.
As an Atheist, I don't necessarily agree that this is how they should be taught, but to make an assumption that they are just taught to recite the Quran without any knowledge of what it means, is incorrect.
IMO Over 99% of muslims can not read/understand the koran. I might be wrong by maybe 5%? Sure they understand a word, or the occasional verse, but that is it. Yet most muslims are taught to recite the koran and they do recite at some time or another. Understanding the text hurts too much. Reciting becomes the easier option.