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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #30 - May 15, 2009, 08:03 PM

    Rashna, I just read your original post. I do agree with much of it. Please do stick around. Smiley
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #31 - May 15, 2009, 08:21 PM

    Cheers Zaephon, same goes for you too.

    I cannot understand why everyone keeps going on about the issue being sensitivity over Islam.  Rubbish.  For the record Islam is less valid than a pile of horse poo, and less useful (at least you can use the horse poo as fertiliser

    I couldn't agree more, Islam is just a pile of toxic waste. But it is important to keep in mind that there are posters who are complaining (or have complained) about the language used to condemn Islam here, and some people have tried to soften this criticism and marginalise people who speak against Islam with too loud a voice. The phrase "bigots who hate Muslims and Islam" was repeated many times, like a mantra. We had to argue for pages and pages to come to the conclusion that Mohammad was, indeed, a pedophile. For some people, it seems, calling a spade a spade is "too hateful."

    Remember the "toilet paper" statement? To some, it was unacceptable too. I really don't understand why we are supposed to apply self-censorship regarding Islam, and this PC atmosphere is difficult to breathe sometimes. I find myself thinking "if I say this, will I be accused of stereotyping Muslims, or anti-Muslim bigotry?" too often. And this is despite the fact that I am an apostate.

    Also, I dislike this "we have Muslim family members" argument. My parents are nationalists and I have paternal relatives who are Islamists. I oppose them all. I cannot respect their reactionary delusions just because they are family members. Muslims, like all other human beings, have inalienable human rights of course. But I don't think extending any additional sympathy based on family relations is a good idea.

    Islam: where idiots meet terrorists.
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #32 - May 15, 2009, 08:24 PM

    I don't think Rashna is treating all muslims as a single group , but there is a real problem in parts of Britain , including my own neighbourhood of East London , where an increasingly vocal islamist faction , encouraged by well meaning but misguided attempts at  'tolerance ' , has succeeded in imposing their own values . And the people really suffering as a result are their british born children , especially the daughters .


    Well, your first query was answered by Islame, so I won't quote or answer that. Anyway, thanks for your comments-as a Brit citizen, a completely non religious person & someone significantly older to me, you cannot be blamed for lacking first hand experience, maturity or even accused of religious biases-maybe accused of supporting the BNP though, which I do not think you do! Wink Or maybe accusing someone's family members & friends when you spoke of people in your neighbourhood starting a vocal Islamist faction with attempts at takeover! Wink


    However, it seems like anyone who disagrees with you in any way is somehow an apologist for the Islamofascists or blind to realities or hates Zoroastrians or something.   

    From what I remember you say you are 14 years old.  Perhaps you need to consider that as an eighth or ninth grader, you make errors and don't know everything, and I say that as someone who wishes that had been made clear to her when she was your age. 


    I have said this & I repeat again, I am not a devout, believing & practicing Zoroastrian, this is another baseless assumption. Why do we have to be labeled into one of the multiple groups victimized by Islam worldwide if we simply happen to dislike Islam? I do identify myself as a cultural Zoroastrian when asked about my religion & I have liked loads of stuff in that faith, just like I admire quite a few stuff in plenty of other faiths-in their founder, theology, mythological stories, history,ability to survive despite intense persecution, capacity for reform, universal salvation, educational benefits & so forth.

    I find stuff in practically all of Zarathushtra's words which can touch me many millennia later, I certainly do not like many of the later additions made to the texts in later eras by the Pre Islamic Persians. I have found plenty of stuff in the later additions which are difficult to digest as a modern person with my dispositions-& thats' what I have said in my intro thread & in other threads.

    I am also unsure about God(s) or the Devil's existence-& I'm glad Zoroastrian scriptures don't condemn me to Hellfire for that belief. I am also aware that had I not been born into a half Zoroastrian heritage, I would not in all probability even be aware of the faith, let alone practice it & I'm glad that all those folks have the same afterlife according to Zoroastrian scriptures. (sidenote:Zoroastrian scriptures I don't, can't & don't even attempt to wholly believe in, & the trait of universal salvation is shared by many faiths-including Judaism).

    Yes, I do dislike Islam, which I remember someone saying is no crime, which I agree. I certainly won't harass, ridicule or deport individual Muslims & I believe one cannot or should not interfere with others religious beliefs as long as they don't hurt anyone & we need to treat every single individual Muslim with the exact same dignity & human rights as we treat people of other faiths or no faith. I personally do not find much reason to respect Islam, or even remain neutral about it.

    I also feel that there is quite a bit about Islam which might well make one not have a favorable opinion about it. I don't think many will come away with an extremely unfavorable opinion about Jain theology after a thorough reading  of Jain scriptures, or absolutely detest the founder of Christianity- Jesus after reading the NT even if they dislike much in Christian scriptures or a few of Jesus' words, or one will hate the way Jews currently practice their faith, irrespective of its Scriptures, or dislike very much in Bahai scriptures & practices.

    Its possible to feel poorly about Islam-even if one isn't a right wing bigot of any race or nationality with very good reasons.Yes I know Islam provides a great deal of comfort or solace to many & I certainly don't go about abusing or ridiculing their scriptures or Prophet without invitation-infact I refrain from doing so to my grandpa as it would needlessly hurt him even though he preaches to me. If however I'm on a message board, or in conversation with a dawa giving Muslim, I will probably make my views clear.

    As for my age & naivete, I'm sure that could well make me ignorant about a few issues. So are all other people, regardless of age, an older person could well be senile! This is an ageist thing, but unlike race or sex which are unchangeable, I'm sure I will grow more knowledgable as I grow older. Smiley

    Thanks for advising me as a person more mature in years & I mean it. We all have our blind spots, regardless of age, sex,race or otherwise. I remember the Bukhari hadith I had quoted, which even without the parenthesis had Ayesha stating that she & Muhammad were intimate when he died-& there was absolutely no reference to al Salah which would be difficult considering the position he was in but there was certainly quite a bit about their love making.

    While it was perhaps dumb of me to assume that it was an intense love making session that killed him or increased his sickness-it is a Sahih Bukhari hadith that he & Ayesha were in an intimate love making session when he was ill & passed away, as narrated by Ayesha, the sole spectator herself.

    I have learnt many stuff from your lovely posts too, though you are not as active as me, all your posts have been brilliant & I sincerely mean that!

    Everyone who disagrees with me is certainly no apologist-but if there are additions to my words to make them mean something that I have neither stated or implied-its not something which delights me. I didn't say Muslims come to the West with sinister intentions of takeover, although I did say that they do often impose their values once they are in the West or are very vocal in their opposition to stuff like Motoons, which a Westerner raised on a diet of Monty Pythons might well find unpalatable-an opinion someone like aife-who's a self professed irreligious person, lives in a Muslim majority neighbourhood, also happens to share.Neither of us lumped all Muslims into a single, homogenous category or blamed any individual Muslims, let alone speak of harassment or deportation.

    Yes I know that Islam is a faith which Latin American ancestry or ethnicity isn't. I also know that as Islam is a faith, its possible to quit or change one's views or one's seriousness about practicing the faith, become an extremely liberal person from a seriously practicing one for instance.

    I have said in many posts that there are plenty of extremely tolerant Islamic nations & given illustrations in support of this position. Yet its a present reality that a significant numer of Muslim majority states aren't so & anyone who's aware of this might find it unpleasant.

    We had a poster here who made a brief appearance saba 7 saba 7-while I didn't agree with everything he said-he claimed to have a wide experience of travelling in many Muslim nations & had a Muslim wife. He said that the number of interfaith marriages in Britain where the woman was Muslim was pretty low & a faith can't really claim to be tolerant if it did this which I agree with. I too think that there's a double standard & religious discrimination in allowing Muslim men the right to marry non Muslim women, but not vice versa. Men are mostly required to convert, which they do for marriage. Again, I made no sweeping generalizations in this case, & gave illustrations where it wasn't so, including the Aga Khan's daughter or my own parents.

    I also said that a person who's spent a substantial part of their life living in Muslim nations which denied them equality or who have been at the receiving end of Islamic persecution which hasn't even been acknowledged, let alone atoned for might well not like the discrimination they've suffered & might not be particularly fond of Islam, even theough they're otherwise very fond of multiculturalism & tolerance.I don't think Robert Spencer is a super tolerant person, but his grandparents were survivors of the Armenian Massacre, unacknowledged to this day. People like Baal on our forum, who grew up in Egypt, people from Iran & Singapore whom I've met fall into this category & their reading of Islamic scriptures certainly hasn't done much to change their opinions & I can't blame them for that either.-they're certainly not supporters of any fundie religious agenda but their unpleasant experiences might well have colored their opinions & they're certainly no racist bigots either. This again is no slur on individual Muslims, but I find it difficult to believe that discrimiation happens without the support of the majority in Muslim nations.

    If someone had a poor experience with a few Unitarian Universalists-I'm sure quite  a few would agree on reading their theology that it certainly does not justify or condone any vile actions. One can't say the same about Islamic scriptures, its history or founder & his sahabas so I don't & can't really blame Baal for not putting in good words about Islam.

    Its a sad but undeniable that that plenty of Muslim nations deny their non Muslim citizens the same rights of inter faith marriage or apostasy-sometimes even attire.

    If an Astaghfirullah said in his hilarious intro post that it was a brave, brave thing for the members of this forum to quit Islam, I do think that he knows what he is talking about-as a person who's lived in both Saudi & Britain. He too is irreligious & I remember he ridiculed YEC's somewhere.

    Astaghfirullah has lived in Islam's birthplace-we have an ex Catholic Tlaloc here who comes from the Land of the Vatican-Italy. I doubt many who have lived in Italy will dub quitting Catholicism an extremely brave thing to do.

    Incidentally, Saudi's neighbour Yemen too has the death penalty for apostasy & is a poor nation sending out economic migrants. While I'm sure not everyone in those nations shares the view that quitting Islam requires death, I find it hard to accept that laws would remain without the support of a significant mass of the population.

    Short version: it's a bit much to start claiming persecution (like Muslims love to Tongue ) just because someone tells you that you're not perfect. Take a deep breath and go smell the flowers. They most likely have not been booby-trapped by jihadis.


    Sure, I'm imperfect, so's everyone else-we all have our blind spots. But I certainly never claimed that all Muslims come to the West with sinister intentions of takeover-those aren't words I said & I just wanted to clarify that.

    I also have a bit of first hand experience-& others with more first hand experience who too aren't sinister BNP types seem to think the same about increasingly vocal Islamists imposing their values with their limited capacity.

    I guess I'll follow your & fading's advice-take time off to smell the flowers, there's no need to go out of the way in justifying myself in what is supposed to be a purely entertaining board.

    thnkyu everyone & sorry if this is all rambling & repetition!

    World renowned historian Will Durant"...the Islamic conquest of India is probably the bloodiest story in history. It is a discouraging tale, for its evident moral is that civilization is a precious good, whose delicate complex order and freedom can at any moment be overthrown..."
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #33 - May 15, 2009, 09:38 PM

    Wow, that was one long posting. You went off on a handful of tangents here and there and repeated the same points in a multitude of different ways. If I have understood you correctly, Rashna, your basic points are:
    1- You can hate a belief system without hating the people who adhere to it.
    2- There may be a coincidence between you and a bigot not liking the same thing but that similarity does not reflect on your views i.e. it doesn't make you a bigot.
    3- You believe not everything in Islam is bad and for those things you give credit where credit is due.

    ... Correcto?
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #34 - May 16, 2009, 04:09 AM

    Wow, that was one long posting. You went off on a handful of tangents here and there and repeated the same points in a multitude of different ways. If I have understood you correctly, Rashna, your basic points are:
    1- You can hate a belief system without hating the people who adhere to it.
    2- There may be a coincidence between you and a bigot not liking the same thing but that similarity does not reflect on your views i.e. it doesn't make you a bigot.
    3- You believe not everything in Islam is bad and for those things you give credit where credit is due.

    ... Correcto?


    Pretty much! Smiley

    Also, when we talk of unfair & discriminatory laws, "we" because many people out here have spoken of the same things-its not an attack on any individual's family & friends, but very much based on our observations & sometimes travel & life experiences-we do know what we talk about. Also, maybe no individual's family or friends support such discrimination, but these laws wouldn't exist in Islamist countries, nor would there be increasing vocalist Islamist factions in someone's London neighbourhood without obvious participation by plenty of Muslims in the neighbourhood.

    I say "we" because similar sentiments have been stated & experiences been reported by plenty of non Muslims, mostly irreligious folk or nominally religious folk here in this forum & I have heard such sentiments expressed in life as well by people who have lived or worked in Muslim nations in many parts of the world!

    World renowned historian Will Durant"...the Islamic conquest of India is probably the bloodiest story in history. It is a discouraging tale, for its evident moral is that civilization is a precious good, whose delicate complex order and freedom can at any moment be overthrown..."
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #35 - May 16, 2009, 04:46 AM

    Also, another thing that I have said is that I do empathize with the feelings with the Chinese Singaporean-Malaysian cab driver or the Iranian Zoroastrian immigrants to London who've witnessed discriminatory laws first hand-I do know what I am talking about. Although I am a cultural Zoroastrian, I'm certainly no Malay Chinese so my sympathy for that guy isn't due to my nominal adherence to any faith or ethnicity! Roll Eyes

    We have two people from Singapore on our forums btw ex Muslim li & Holocaust denier BMZ. Both are very nice people & whether they're Muslim or ex Muslim, neither have supported stuff like stoning of adulterers, or support for harassment & deportation of Muslims.

    li had said all this in his different quotes:
    Quote from: li
    i have 2nd thoughts on doing no.2 as i get a clue that somwhow they know that i already left but was waiting for me to declare my apostasy so that they will be able to kill me. The reason i'm thinking like this is because there are 2 facts that had happend and set me thinking. My life is more important and telling the world about islam is even far more important. In addition, i know what they are capable of. I think that, migration will not all of problems but most of it and that is i can leave like a non-muslim.

     

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    There's once I've thought of getting a student visa and go to an Australian University but unfortunately, i don't have the means to do that and i'm not qualified for any loans. I should have save up my money since young but i don't. I'm planning to do a part-time degree here in my own country which, the cert. equivalent to it's full-time counterpart (how amazing is that?! a part-time degree that is equivalent to a full-time? you rarely see something like that!), then i'll migrate. It's roughly going to take around 5 years to complete. It's going to be a long and arduous road for me but, i have to do it. Now that I have thought of something, i've thought of sharing with you guys:

     (1) let my parents know I've apostatize (before taking off) which is for me, risky 'coz i still remember that he once said that he's rather get himself a death sentence then see his child apostatize

     (2) Hint at my parents by saying something like "This particular suras shook my faith....can you please explain?" then, tell my parents about my apostasy either by phone or msn or face-to-face, i.e. after i've took off.

     (3) Don't tell them, just took off and should my Dad found out that I've apostatize, he will blame the west.

    My move is going to be number 2, but what do you guys suggest? Anyway, about no. 3, i've already got books that is anti-islam (my dad thinks reading, even read anti-islamic book is better then laze around, he already told me to read more islamic book as those book are dangerous to your faith). So, the west will not be the only ones getting the blame  . If there is a better opinion, do tell me. thanks. 
     

     
       
    Quote from: li
    As you all know, i've already apostasize and am free. I've already got a job and only at my workplace can i be truely be who i am but, whenever i got home, i have to pretend to be a muslim that sometimes make me suffocate. Furthurmore, my family hint to me that they will arrange me a marriage should i already have a means to do so. This means that i possibly have to pretend and suffocate for the rest of my life and worst still, having a muslim family thus, helping muhammad in his nonsensical quest to islamised the whole world. To make matters even more difficult, my father will have the tedency to kill his own child should he found out that i have apostasized (his friend can encourage him to do so and i know it sounds rather far-fetched coming form where i am), which i already have. I don't like this and i really would want to be free from suffocating myself. I love my country and i think that i may have to migrate to achieve my goal (i.e. free myself from suffocating). If you all in my shoes, what will you all do?


    I'm sure li's statements aren't some sweeping generalizations about all Muslim families of his region & neither are mine, his statement was about his father.

    If I spoke about laws being different & discriminatory in Islamic nations, or attempted imposition of those laws in some places in the West-it wasn't a statement aimed at all Muslims or Muslim families, but only about some. On this forum itself, aife had something to say along the same lines about his neighbourhood.

    Its unneccessary to quote & requote my statements to make them sound like I said that Muslims come with a sinister intention of takeover, because I never said anything of the sort & such words won't be inserted into the quote by magic! Wink

    Also, one might not be part of any anti Muslim group of his particular region if one simply happens to dislike Islam, or speak about Muslim discriminations & double standards.



    World renowned historian Will Durant"...the Islamic conquest of India is probably the bloodiest story in history. It is a discouraging tale, for its evident moral is that civilization is a precious good, whose delicate complex order and freedom can at any moment be overthrown..."
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #36 - May 16, 2009, 09:22 AM

    Isn't all this a little bit too obvious?

    What sparked this off?

    The unlived life is not worth examining.
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #37 - May 16, 2009, 09:32 AM

    Don't ask  Roll Eyes

    See http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=5331.msg136401#msg136401 if you want to know what happened before

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #38 - May 16, 2009, 03:45 PM

    Don't ask  Roll Eyes

    See http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=5331.msg136401#msg136401 if you want to know what happened before



    Do any of your random friends & families happen to live in aife's neighbourhood Islame? Coz this is what aife had to say:

    Quote from: aife
    I don't think Rashna is treating all muslims as a single group , but there is a real problem in parts of Britain , including my own neighbourhood of East London , where an increasingly vocal islamist faction , encouraged by well meaning but misguided attempts at  'tolerance ' , has succeeded in imposing their own values . And the people really suffering as a result are their british born children , especially the daughters .


    Again, no attack was directed at any individual's family or friends & no attempts were made to include all Muslims into one homogenous group, aife had just stated a fact as he'd observed it. He of course, has far more first hand experience than I do in the matter.

    Neither he nor I included all Muslims into a single homogenous category, pointed a finger at individual, innocent Muslims.

    All I said was about a possible imposition of values, a point corroborated by aife, who is better than me in age & first hand experience.

    I also spoke that it might bother people, especially people who have first hand experience, that many Muslim nations deny non Muslims the same rights-which is again an undeniable fact. This is again not a direct or an implied attack on individual Muslim citizens of nations with discriminatory laws.

    I also said that laws do reflect or are supposed to reflect the wil of the majority of citizens-a fact again. This is again no attack on any individual's friends or family. Thus if a nation has blasphemy laws, I suppose its because the citizens desire such laws & if such laws are outlawed, its because the citizens no longer want them. Fact again, no attack on individuals again.

    I also said that incidents which took place in Europe, like Motoon rage & threats, might lead some spectators to believe that the Muslims who participated in such demonstrations do believe that blasphemers should be silenced with death-as placards had stated. Again, no individuals family or friends were accused of participation in the demonstrations, & there was no finger of blame pointed at any individual Muslims-

                                                                exactly

    like aife's statements weren't meant as an attack on any individual Muslim of his neighbourhood, nor did he class all Muslims living in his neighbourhood into a single,homogenous category-just stated a fact about his neighbourhood that "but there is a real problem in parts of Britain , including my own neighbourhood[/bof East London , where an increasingly vocal islamist faction , encouraged by well meaning but misguided attempts at  'tolerance ' , has succeeded in imposing their own values [/b]"

    It was a general observation, based on his first hand experiences-while mine was a general observation about some issues, based on first hand experiences & of course, the media. If more was read into a statement than was either stated or implied, I don't know what to say.  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes  Roll Eyes

    World renowned historian Will Durant"...the Islamic conquest of India is probably the bloodiest story in history. It is a discouraging tale, for its evident moral is that civilization is a precious good, whose delicate complex order and freedom can at any moment be overthrown..."
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #39 - May 16, 2009, 05:33 PM

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    But it is important to keep in mind that there are posters who are complaining (or have complained) about the language used to condemn Islam here, and some people have tried to soften this criticism and marginalise people who speak against Islam with too loud a voice.

    We had to argue for pages and pages to come to the conclusion that Mohammad was, indeed, a pedophile. For some people, it seems, calling a spade a spade is "too hateful."

    Remember the "toilet paper" statement? To some, it was unacceptable too. I really don't understand why we are supposed to apply self-censorship regarding Islam, and this PC atmosphere is difficult to breathe sometimes. I find myself thinking "if I say this, will I be accused of stereotyping Muslims, or anti-Muslim bigotry?" too often. And this is despite the fact that I am an apostate.

    Also, I dislike this "we have Muslim family members" argument. My parents are nationalists and I have paternal relatives who are Islamists. I oppose them all. I cannot respect their reactionary delusions just because they are family members. Muslims, like all other human beings, have inalienable human rights of course. But I don't think extending any additional sympathy based on family relations is a good idea.

    And I disagree with those that are sensitive to criticism about Islam - whats that got to do with this?  I dont have an issue with slating Islam as it is fiction anyway.  I dont agree with slandering people, particularly when they dont fit your negative opinions about them.

    Do any of your random friends & families happen to live in aife's neighbourhood Islame?

    Yes, I used to live there before too.  There is a global problem worldwide with extremists, Muslims & otherwise.  But I dont think Muslims who came to Britain came here to spread Islam by marriage or other means. 


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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #40 - May 16, 2009, 06:53 PM

    Do any of your random friends & families happen to live in aife's neighbourhood Islame?

    Yes, I used to live there before too.  There is a global problem worldwide with extremists, Muslims & otherwise.  But I dont think Muslims who came to Britain came here to spread Islam by marriage or other means. 


    Your first few comments were answering Zaephon's quote, so I won't go there.
    As for your second quote, which was something I had asked, I'm sure the person called aife who self identifies himself as an atheist isn't in all probability a BNP supporter either & really knows what he posts due to living there.

    I repeat, I never said, nor implied in that Dewinter thread that Muslims migrate to the West with the sole purpose, the main purpose or for that matter any purpose of spreading the faith by dawa giving, marriage or any other means-so quoting & re quoting what I had stated won't really insert that into that post. I did say, both on that thread & on this that Muslims migrate to the West to better their economic situation, just like everyone else.

    But I did say that once in the West, in places, they do impose their values-this is something corroborated by aife's giving examples of his neighbourhood-a neighbourhood you lived in & where your loved ones still do. I am sure he did not lump every Muslim in his neighbourhood into the category of those seeking to impose their values-he did not include you or your friends or family when he stated his observations. Possibly in his neighbourhood, there are ex Muslims like you & very liberal practicing Muslims as well, obviously his description didn't include these people, neither did my statement.

    All I said was that-once in the West, some do impose their values-corroborated here by aife with first hand examples from his neighbourhood- & that in case of marriage, often there is a requirement of conversion to the faith whether or not one sincerely accepts the faith-again corroborated by someone called saba 7 saba 7 in the thread,Cultural Marxist Campaign,
    Here's one of saba 7 saba 7's quotes from that particular thread-mind you its his quote, not mine:

    Quote from: saba 7 saba 7
    One is not moderate if one objects to one's female relatives marrying someone of a different faith, an attitude that obtains amongst so-called 'cultural' Muslims as well as extremists.  This is demonstrated by the pitifully small number of marriages that take place each year in the UK between non-Muslim men and Muslim women.  I bet the number barely reaches double figures.


    Again, just because I am quoting saba 7, doesn't mean that I agree with his opinion, was just quoting him to show that he too said something on similar lines. Of course, my first statement was corroborated by aife.

    I did not lump all Muslims into a homogenour group, nor explicitly or implicitly said that the aim of migrating to the West was a takeover-as for spreading the faith, I fully support anyone's right to practice, preach or wed anyone irrespective of faith, nationality or even gender.

    All I said was that discrimination & double standards in the laws of Islamic nations or the demands of certain groups in certain places in the West might bother some who really do not have a sinister agenda,nor lump all Muslims into a single category, nor support right wingers. People who've lived in Islamic nations-from Astaghfirullah to Baal to Khalil to saba 7 all said so about discriminatory laws.

    It was certainly no attack on individual families, people or friends-so its useless repeating the same stuff ad nausem to make it seem like it was.

    I'm sure there are fantastic practicing Muslim families, free of any prejudices or unneccessary demands & I'm sure most of your families & friends belong to that category & so do most posters families, so do my grandparents. Afro

    None of our statements-mine, aife's, saba7's or for that matter Baal's or Zaephon's statements in that Dewinter thread or this thread was an attempt to slander individual families or people, or to take away basic human rights of any group-Muslim or non Muslim-& all have some first hand knowledge & experience to know what we're talking about, the others have more experience than me.Quite a few of us are regular posters & we have all acknowledged that peaceful, nice & liberal Muslims exist & none had supported Hesperado's opinion about mass deportation. No need to pounce on any of us without reason.  Roll Eyes

    World renowned historian Will Durant"...the Islamic conquest of India is probably the bloodiest story in history. It is a discouraging tale, for its evident moral is that civilization is a precious good, whose delicate complex order and freedom can at any moment be overthrown..."
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #41 - May 16, 2009, 07:08 PM

    Fucking hell Rashna, thinking of writing your Magnum Opus anytime soon?

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #42 - May 16, 2009, 07:29 PM

    Fucking hell Rashna, thinking of writing your Magnum Opus anytime soon?

    She will be a great writer in the future. She is practicing right now.  Wink

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #43 - May 16, 2009, 08:11 PM

    All I said was that-once in the West, some do impose their values-corroborated here by aife

    I note the addition of the word 'some' - I just wish you had included that word then, and not now
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    None of our statements-mine, aife's, saba7's or for that matter Baal's or Zaephon's statements in that Dewinter thread or this thread was an attempt to slander individual families or people

    I never said they were slandering others?  I was only referring to your ill-considered comments. 
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    Quite a few of us are regular posters & we have all acknowledged that peaceful, nice & liberal Muslims exist & none had supported Hesperado's opinion about mass deportation. No need to pounce on any of us without reason.  Roll Eyes

    I never 'pounced' on them - stop making things up now, it is beginning to sound desperate.  Like I said before I have never bore issue with anything these other posters have written so stop attempting to garner support for you misdirected cause.

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     Reply #44 - May 16, 2009, 08:36 PM

     Firstly - I'm a life long socialist and I have absolutely no sympathy with the BNP . I may have given the wrong impression when I made a facetious response earlier when someone else mentioned the BJP  and I didn't understand the reference .
     Secondly - I'm female

         But to adress the main argument here , I've lived in London for almost thirty years ,  and in the east end for thirteen , and I'm shocked and alarmed at the changes I've seen in that relatively short period . There is a difference between disliking a PERSON solely because they were born into a certain racial/ religious / social group , and objecting to certain aspects or practices of a culture . Thirty years ago , when my generation were busy having street battles with the National Front I don't think anyone would have believed that a few years later we would walk past London PRIMARY schools where the playground is full of little girls in hijabs , that a British citizen would spend years under police guard because a group of zealots didn't like his book , that a London mayor would regularly extend civic hospitality to men who advocate killing people for exercising freedom of belief , beating women , throwing homosexuals off high buildings etc. Or that thousands of teenage girls would vanish from UK schools every year , married off against their will . And that well meaning people would attempt to stifle any debate by shouting 'racism' or 'islamophobia' whenever anyone tries to raise these issues .
      Like I said earlier , the people most affected by this are UK born muslims who are increasingly being denied the rights and opportunities afforded their fellow citizens . It's all very well having respect for other cultures but that respect has to be critical - no sensible person ever suggested we should respect the South African's apartheid regime on the grounds of 'cultural difference' , did they ?
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #45 - May 16, 2009, 09:34 PM

    All I said was that-once in the West, some do impose their values-corroborated here by aife

    I note the addition of the word 'some' - I just wish you had included that word then, and not now
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    None of our statements-mine, aife's, saba7's or for that matter Baal's or Zaephon's statements in that Dewinter thread or this thread was an attempt to slander individual families or people

    I never said they were slandering others?  I was only referring to your ill-considered comments. 
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    Quite a few of us are regular posters & we have all acknowledged that peaceful, nice & liberal Muslims exist & none had supported Hesperado's opinion about mass deportation. No need to pounce on any of us without reason.  Roll Eyes

    I never 'pounced' on them - stop making things up now, it is beginning to sound desperate.  Like I said before I have never bore issue with anything these other posters have written so stop attempting to garner support for you misdirected cause.


    Anyway, thanks for your comments, there never was a "misdirected" cause, just some observations. What was excluded was the term some, which I might have added. Considering I have never supported any extreme measures or deportation, & repeated multiple times the examples of tolerant Muslim nations & people-including my own family members, there was little reason to assume that I was attacking & tainting all Muslims or even your loved ones. Just missing out on a word does not make me into a bigot overnight.

    Yes extremism is a problem in all countries , but if we look at the West-the Last Temptation of Christ or for that matter books like the Da Vinci Code simply did not rouse anywhere near the same hostility or extreme protests as Motoons or Rushdie or Van Gogh did, although Christians are far more in number. This is a fact.

    If I say that Evangelicals supported the Iraq War in U.S.A., it does not include anyone's family or friends who might be evangelicals & oposed to the war-although I perhaps should add the word "majority.". I really haven't ever supported deportation or insulting individual Muslims because of the behaviour of Muslim nations or extremists.

    The exclusion of "some" doesn't exactly make one a supporter of right wingers overnight.

    The different laws in many Muslim nations, the freedoms plenty of Muslim nations deny their non Muslim citizens are facts & it is also factually correct that this might well make people offended, although this is no reason to deny Muslims their rights.

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #46 - May 16, 2009, 09:42 PM

    Doesn't anybody ever get tired around here?

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #47 - May 16, 2009, 10:12 PM

    Doesn't anybody ever get tired around here?

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #48 - May 16, 2009, 10:14 PM

    Where'd you find that ole' photo of me?
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #49 - May 16, 2009, 10:23 PM

    Seriously Rashna, Ferrero lucidly summarised your position in a few short sentences. This obsession with beating people over the head with massive walls of text is making you look silly. It's as if you have taken Ariel Sharon's doctrine of "Always escalate" to heart. Take a chill pill for chrissake. parrot

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #50 - May 16, 2009, 10:32 PM

    Seriously Rashna, Ferrero lucidly summarised your position in a few short sentences. This obsession with beating people over the head with massive walls of text is making you look silly. It's as if you have taken Ariel Sharon's doctrine of "Always escalate" to heart. Take a chill pill for chrissake. parrot

     Cheesy I know that, I am silly sometimes, actually many times. I don't like to be misconstrued as a hater for a line where I didn't mention the word "some". I have over 1000 posts here, while I haven't exactly been an apologist, I haven't been an Ali Sina type or ever said anything to the effect that Muslims are animals or all criminals or supported someone like Hesperado. I don't see what the huge deal was to make me seem like that. 

    Anyway, I'm scared Os will give me that avatar if I continue with this topic! Wink I'll not post in this anymore.

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #51 - May 16, 2009, 10:36 PM

    You could have clarified this in a much more concise fashion. Wink

    Anyway, I'm scared Os will give me that avatar if I continue with this topic! Wink I'll not post in this anymore.

    Now there's a thought. Hmmm. evil
    We could probably award you both "Poster of the Month" and "Jester of the Month" while we're at it.

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #52 - May 16, 2009, 10:37 PM

    It's okay Rashna. No one thinks you're a hater. You just have to stop caring so much. It's an online forum. That's all.


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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #53 - May 16, 2009, 10:43 PM

    It's okay Rashna. No one thinks you're a hater. You just have to stop caring so much. It's an online forum. That's all.




    What she said ^
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #54 - May 16, 2009, 10:45 PM

    Interntz iz srs bznss. cool2

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #55 - May 16, 2009, 10:51 PM

    I dont think you are a hater, you just get carried away at times.  Take a deep breath and start again.

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #56 - May 19, 2009, 05:26 PM

    Seriously Rashna, Ferrero lucidly summarised your position in a few short sentences. This obsession with beating people over the head with massive walls of text is making you look silly. It's as if you have taken Ariel Sharon's doctrine of "Always escalate" to heart. Take a chill pill for chrissake. parrot

    what you recommend instead?

    "Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.' So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, 'Tell the Apostle the truth.'"
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #57 - May 19, 2009, 05:50 PM

    peace Rashna.

    Long time not see!
    I just want to say,that I dont think you are a hater.
  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #58 - May 19, 2009, 06:37 PM

    Where'd you find that ole' photo of me?


    Hey, Astaghfirullah, your slogan "I was an Atheist, then I discovered I am God" reminds me of the Egyptian Pheros... Do you think they were initially Atheists then decided to be Gods!! Just wondering!

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  • Re: Some Honest Opinions:
     Reply #59 - May 19, 2009, 06:43 PM

    Where'd you find that ole' photo of me?


    Hey, Astaghfirullah, your slogan "I was an Atheist, then I discovered I am God" reminds me of the Egyptian Pheros... Do you think they were initially Atheists then decided to be Gods!! Just wondering!


    According to the Discovery channel (irony at every corner) they all did it as some sort of power symbol, I think they found a diary or a letter or something of one of the pharoes who was laughing at the peoples' guillability. But I can't remember where I saw this
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