I think this site is right on the mark. Hassan prefers a different attitude...catching flies with honey, I mean that its obviously difficult for Muslims to suddenly learn all these sordid stuff right? So its better to go sweet first.
Why do you prefer to have a go at Muslims with 'guns a blazin' attitude? Have you ever considered that there are Muslims out there whom are willing to listen, and are open minded? Sure some Muslims come at the non-believers with the 'guns a blazin' attitude, but not everyone is that way--and treating any conversation with a Muslim (or any religious folk) in the same manner, usually backfires-- because it represents one's maturity terribly.
I realize that such attitudes which you prefer, has gotten people like Berberella to become an ex-Muslim due to Ali Sina's rants, but it's also a well known fact that many Theists, as well as Atheists, reject such attitude--it's just not civil. Such way you propose only works very few times--for only those who are already on the fence anyways.
Mind you Rashna, when we talked shit about Zorostrians you took a very defensive stance, and hardly conversed and instead just defended your views. The same way works for Muslims and other theists.