I believe Islam warrants more criticism at this point in time. Thats because we live in an age where Muslims and their bullshit are a major issue. If things improve and problem subside and muslim reform their attitudes then why should I bother mentioning rock hadiths or that the prophet molested a 9 year old girl? It's like me going to a bahai and mocking their religion.. why? They don't bother any one us or kill any human beings.. so why should I 'confront' their religion even it it has values I disagree with?
So should Islam be confronted? Yes, obviously.. but that's because the existing social and political situation of our age demands us to do so in the defense of free speech and freedom of belief and the integrity of secular society. But confronting Islam for the sake of confronting Islam? Fuck that.
First of all, regarding those you singled out as Islamophobic because of their pursuit of essentialising Muslims. This isn't anything called Islamophobia. No – that is a sign of the failure of the intellect of those people to understand the difference between individuals and collective, between ideology and free will, and between the causative claims of Islam and the reality of complex lives, consciences, and morality. Taking anything at face value, especially when it comes to this realm, is to be taken in by a shallow value.
Now, the rest of what you say, you have swung around to what I believe, that Islam at this moment in time, and certainly in our particular context, warrants more criticism than other belief systems. And that there is nothing 'phobic' about that.
So I can't work out what the problem was with what was said in the first place. Also, I find this problematic:
confronting Islam for the sake of confronting Islam? Fuck that.
Because so much of what confronts Islam can be pushed by those who want to do so into that category. If someone wants to confront precepts of Islam for the sake of it, why shouldn't they?