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  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #390 - June 21, 2010, 05:40 PM

    No, that's what the Qur'an says.

    [2:222]
    They will question thee concerning the monthly course. Say: ’It is hurt; so go apart from women during the monthly course, and do not approach them till they are clean. When they have cleansed themselves, then come unto them as God has commanded you.’ Truly, God loves those who repent, and He loves those who cleanse themselves.

    As al- Jalalayn explain:

    They will ask you about the monthly period. Say: ‘It is an ailment, filth; so part with women, refrain from sexual intercourse with them, in the monthly period, in this time, or in the part affected; and do not approach them, for sexual intercourse, until they are pure, that is, until they have cleansed themselves after its cessation; when they have cleansed themselves, then come to them in sexual intercourse as God has commanded you’, by avoiding it, the female organ, during menstruation and not resorting to any other part. Truly, God loves those who repent and He loves those who cleanse themselves, from impurities.


    It is my understanding that "do not approach them" means "do not have sex with them" based on the same wording in the context of the fasting prohibition.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #391 - June 21, 2010, 05:46 PM

    Judging by some of your answers here, your world is more cut & dry and simpler than I see it.


    I believe in good/evil, blessings/cursings, right/wrong.  I believe that certain issues are far more complicated than human minds can assess for rulings and judgments and that matters seen as "grey" to us, are best left to Allah to Judge.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #392 - June 21, 2010, 05:51 PM

    My advice?  REPENT!  And believe in the Lord who created you once again.


    Hi Rashid,

    I appreciate there are lots of posts to follow, so I'll ask just two questions. (I did ask them before but you probably missed them in the crowd of posts.)

    1. How does one choose to believe something one finds unbelievable? Could you have a go, now, and choose to believe that pigs can fly and explain the process how you do it?

    2. How can God be Just, Merciful, Forgiving or Loving if he tortures people forever?
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #393 - June 21, 2010, 05:53 PM

    The Qur'an itself acknowledges that Allah does not define what is moral and immoral, just and unjust:

    [6:131]
    That is because thy Lord would never destroy the cities unjustly, while their inhabitants were heedless.


    He's saying that He wouldn't punish them without warning them to knock it off first.

    If Allah did define what is moral and immoral, it wouldn't matter whether he destroyed the sinful inhabitants of the cities with or without warning them before hand.


    That doesn't make a lick of sense.  First He has to tell them that what they are doing is indeed sinful and/or immoral and to cease and desist.  If they don't, then He smashes them.

    If Allah decides what is moral, then he has every right to destroy them without warning them, or to destroy them for not even doing anything in particular to deserve it. He can even, for the matter, demand that children be sacrificed to him, as there is no moral standard other than the one he sets.


    Agree.  Allah has the power and perogative to do whatever He wishes.  And in the case of the Qur'an, He told us what He wishes and what the rules are.

    Do you see the inherent absurdity in this kind of morality?


    I see that you aren't making a lick of sense.  It SEEMS like you are saying "God can do whatever He wants, therefore, why would He set arbitrary rules that wouldn't mean anything to Him?"

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #394 - June 21, 2010, 05:54 PM

    I believe in killing the Kuffar. What right do I have to question what the Lord wants from me?

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  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #395 - June 21, 2010, 05:55 PM

    Hm.  It turns out it's not a hadith at all.  Just good common sense.  lol


    I am surprised Tongue
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #396 - June 21, 2010, 05:58 PM

    Hm.  It turns out it's not a hadith at all.  Just good common sense.  lol

    Like a lot of it as you delve deeper, Islam is not what you first think it is (ask DB & AbuY Wink )

    Ever heard of Educating yourself in China hadith or the prophet cutting his garments for his cat hadith  whistling2  Source please  dance

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  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #397 - June 21, 2010, 06:03 PM

    Hi Rashid


    ee > i   Wink

    I appreciate there are lots of posts to follow, so I'll ask just two questions. (I did ask them before but you probably missed them in the crowd of posts.)


    It think I answered your questions on page 5 (I think that was you anyway).

    1. How does one choose to believe something one finds unbelievable? Could you have a go, now, and choose to believe that pigs can fly and explain the process how you do it?


    Your actions will define your belief.  Simply make the effort to behave like a believer, in all sincerity, and I believe Allah will take a step towards you and help you with your faith and things will become clearer to you.

    2. How can God be Just, Merciful, Forgiving or Loving if he tortures people forever?


    His Justice is in setting the rules for reward and punishment, letting the people know what they are, and then rewarding those who earned reward based on those rules, and punishing those who earned punishment based on those rules.

    His Mercy is for those who decide to believe and strive towards Him; He will forgive them when they mess up as long as they sincerely strive towards the right way according to the rules He set.

    His Forgiveness is for all those who believe and sincerely repent.

    And He is Loving to all of His creation.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #398 - June 21, 2010, 06:03 PM

    It is my understanding that "do not approach them" means "do not have sex with them" based on the same wording in the context of the fasting prohibition.


    Yes, but the rest of the verse and the commentaries make it clear that menstruation is being regarded as 'unclean,' hence why one must not have intercourse with women until they are clean.
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #399 - June 21, 2010, 06:08 PM

    Like a lot of it as you delve deeper, Islam is not what you first think it is...


    The hadith are not the Qur'an, of course.  Of course manipulative and evil men would pull 'hadith' out of their butts for their own selfish ends.  Should I throw out the whole religion and proclaim that there is no Creator and doom myself because some folk in the past acted the way humans tend to act?  Please be reasonable.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #400 - June 21, 2010, 06:13 PM

    Yes, but the rest of the verse and the commentaries make it clear that menstruation is being regarded as 'unclean,' hence why one must not have intercourse with women until they are clean.


    uhhh... menustration is 'unclean.'  Isn't it her body purging itself of goo it no longer needs?  You don't think feces is unclean either eh?  Do you have sex when people are purging themselves of feces and urine?  What's your deal?

    It is okay to touch women and be alright by them but not to have intercourse with them while they are on their menses.  The Talmud says not to touch them at all; if they walk over a waterhose the water is now poluted forever or something crazy like that.  That's not what the Qur'an is saying.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #401 - June 21, 2010, 06:16 PM

    Mrasheed

    Do you believe the prophets like noah, soloman, muhammad were of black/african/negro descent?

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #402 - June 21, 2010, 06:17 PM

    I believe in killing the Kuffar. What right do I have to question what the Lord wants from me?


    You recognize that His saying that was in reference to the unbelievers having waged war against the Muslims, yes?

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #403 - June 21, 2010, 06:20 PM

    Mrasheed Do you believe the prophets like noah, soloman, muhammad were of black/african/negro descent?


    I believe that prophets from as far back a time period as Noah were black without doubt.  The more recent ones like King Solomon, David, Jesus, Muhammad, etc. I do not know and spend little effort in the speculation.  (Peace be upon them all.) 

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #404 - June 21, 2010, 06:23 PM

    I believe that prophets from as far back a time period as Noah were black without doubt.  The more recent ones like King Solomon, David, Jesus, Muhammad, etc. I do not know and spend little effort in the speculation.  (Peace be upon them all.)  


    Interesting. what about abraham and moses?

    I'm an asshat.
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #405 - June 21, 2010, 06:23 PM

    Your actions will define your belief.  Simply make the effort to behave like a believer, in all sincerity, and I believe Allah will take a step towards you and help you with your faith and things will become clearer to you.


    That's acting like one believes. That's not the same thing as actually believing.

    It's choosing to go through the motions - to act like a believer - in the hope that true faith will follow. (I have done that btw and it didn't work.)

    This also raises the question:

    Why would one want to act like they believe when they don't?

    Should one have a go acting like they believe in every single faith, belief and philosophy of life that one doesn't believe in - or only Islam?

    His Justice is in setting the rules for reward and punishment, letting the people know what they are, and then rewarding those who earned reward based on those rules, and punishing those who earned punishment based on those rules.


    Are you saying that eternal torture is a Just punishment because God warned us he would do it?

    Does it make sense to you, for God to torture people for eternity?
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #406 - June 21, 2010, 06:27 PM

    btw sorry for misspelling your name - force of habit - here's a book I wrote about you  grin12

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #407 - June 21, 2010, 06:32 PM

    Interesting. what about abraham and moses?


    I do not know.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #408 - June 21, 2010, 06:37 PM

    He's saying that He wouldn't punish them with warning them to knock it off first.


    That is correct. However, he's also saying that he would not punish people without warning them first because to do so would be unjust.

    Here's a similar verse:

    [11:117]
    Yet thy Lord would never destroy the cities unjustly, while as yet their people were putting things right.

    Again, same idea. If Allah gets to define what is right then he has every right to destroy them even if they are believers, pious, or whatever else. Indeed, Allah could make it the epitome of justice to destroy people who believe in and obey him.

    That doesn't make a lick of sense.  First He has to tell them that what they are doing is indeed sinful and/or immoral and to cease and desist.  If they don't, then He smashes them.


    This fails to take into account the matter of whether or not it is just or unjust of Allah to destroy any given people.

    The issue here is not that Allah warns people before destroying them. Rather it is why he does so.

    You see, you said that Allah defines what is moral and immoral. I simply replied by quoting these verses to show that Allah himself would regard his destroying people, without first warning them, as unjust. But you see, if it would be unjust of Allah to do so, then it follows that Allah does not, in fact, define what is moral.

    This is the case because if Allah did define what is moral, then it would be perfectly just of him to destroy people without first warning them, for the sins that they already committed. But the fact that Allah must warn people first before he destroys them, in order to remain just, shows that there is a moral standard outside of Allah's actions and decrees that he must abide by to be just.

    Do you understand now?

    Agree.  Allah has the power and perogative to do whatever He wishes.  And in the case of the Qur'an, He told us what He wishes and what the rules are.


    So you therefore agree that morality is entirely meaningless and is contingent solely upon the arbitrary dictates and preferences of Allah? Hence why he could decree that blood sacrifices of children be made to him?

    In this case, morality could be anything, it could even be incoherent and contradictory.

    I see that you aren't making a lick of sense.  It SEEMS like you are saying "God can do whatever He wants, therefore, why would He set arbitrary rules that wouldn't mean anything to Him?"


    I'm saying that such a completely arbitrary morality renders the word 'morality' completely meaningless and even contradicts the Quran itself.
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #409 - June 21, 2010, 06:40 PM

    That's acting like one believes. That's not the same thing as actually believing.  It's choosing to go through the motions - to act like a believer - in the hope that true faith will follow.


    Yes, and that's what I advised.

    (I have done that btw and it didn't work.)


    "Seek help with patient perseverance and prayer for Allah is with those who patiently persevere."

    So who told you to stop?

    This also raises the question:

    Why would one want to act like they believe when they don't?


    To save your immortal soul.  Why else?  Are you familiar with the work of Dr. Rick Strassman?

    Should one have a go acting like they believe in every single faith, belief and philosophy of life that one doesn't believe in - or only Islam?


    I advise doing it only with Islam.  grin12

    Are you saying that eternal torture is a Just punishment because God warned us he would do it?


    Exactly.  Justice was in telling us the clear rules, and then ruling in accordance with the rules laid down.  It would only be unfair if He acted in a way contrary to what He said.

    Does it make sense to you, for God to torture people for eternity?


    Is that not what He said the punishment was for disobedience?  Is He not the one who makes the rules?  So what difference does it make what WE think?  Do you want everthing you ever dreamed of and more for all of eternity or not???  What do you have to lose?

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #410 - June 21, 2010, 06:54 PM

    Yes, and that's what I advised.


    I see, maybe I misunderstood you as I originally said:

    Can you choose to believe something you find unbelievable and unconvincing?


    And you replied:

    Sure.  It is hard and you'll go up and down about it often, but it is all about trust.   "Even though you cheated on me, I'm going to believe you still love me."  Get it?

    I could... and be flung headfirst into the Pit for my pains.  lol

    Sure I can.  Nothing hampers BELIEF.

    Sure.  It is hard and you'll go up and down about it often, but it is all about trust.   "Even though you cheated on me, I'm going to believe you still love me."  Get it?


    So will this method - (i.e. acting like one believes so that it leads to true belief) - work if I try to believe Jesus is the son of God? Or that pigs can fly? Or fairies live in my garden? Etc...

    Or does it only work with Islam?

    "Seek help with patient perseverance and prayer for Allah is with those who patiently persevere."

    So who told you to stop?


    So how long should I try?


    Are you familiar with the work of Dr. Rick Strassman?


    No

    Exactly. So what difference does it make what WE think?


    So even if it seems irrational I should try to believe it?

    Should I apply this to other religions too? Or only Islam?
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #411 - June 21, 2010, 06:54 PM

    uhhh... menustration is 'unclean.'  Isn't it her body purging itself of goo it no longer needs?  You don't think feces is unclean either eh?  Do you have sex when people are purging themselves of feces and urine?  What's your deal?

    It is okay to touch women and be alright by them but not to have intercourse with them while they are on their menses.  The Talmud says not to touch them at all; if they walk over a waterhose the water is now poluted forever or something crazy like that.  That's not what the Qur'an is saying.


    You originally wrote this:

    The 'menustration is a hurt' line is in reference to actually causing their bodies harm when they have intercourse during it.  It doesn't mean that you can't touch them at all.  That sounds more like something the Talmud would say.

    It seemed to me as though you were saying the Quran didn't regard menstruation as unclean. My mistake.

    It would only be unfair if He acted in a way contrary to what He said.

    Is He not the one who makes the rules?  So what difference does it make what WE think?


    How would it be unfair for him to do so if he defines what is right and what we think is moral or immoral doesn't matter? If Allah decides what is right and wrong, then he can do literally anything he wants, morally speaking. There's no standard other than the one he sets and therefore, no-one can criticise that standard or call it wrong, because that standard is the definition of right and wrong.
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #412 - June 21, 2010, 06:56 PM

    @Hassan

    I know you're trying to resume the conversation you were having with Rasheed before everybody piled in, so I'll shut up now  Afro
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #413 - June 21, 2010, 06:57 PM

    Again, same idea. If Allah gets to define what is right then he has every right to destroy them even if they are believers, pious, or whatever else. Indeed, Allah could make it the epitome of justice to destroy people who believe in and obey him.


    Of course He could if He so desired.  Is He not "God?"

    This fails to take into account the matter of whether or not it is just or unjust of Allah to destroy any given people.


    It is Allah who determines what is just or unjust.  Who is there to contradict Him?  To tell Him "no?"  Who is there to prevent Him from tossing you head first into the Pit for your insolence?

    The issue here is not that Allah warns people before destroying them. Rather it is why he does so.


    Because Allah is Supreme and He does whatsoever He willeth.  

    You see, you said that Allah defines what is moral and immoral. I simply replied by quoting these verses to show that Allah himself would regard his destroying people, without first warning them, as unjust. But you see, if it would be unjust of Allah to do so, then it follows that Allah does not, in fact, define what is moral.


    You are adding something to the equation that does not exist.  It was set then when He said it, what was just/unjust about the issue.  It is God who is Most Just.  It would not be fair... fundamentally... to punish a people without first warning them and arming them with the knowledge that what they are doing is wrong.  It is Allah Himself who set the rule for that AS IT WAS SAID.  As you read it.  There is nothing that exists beyond or above Him.  The only rules that He is limited by are those that He places upon Himself.

    This is the case because if Allah did define what is moral, then it would be perfectly just of him to destroy people without first warning them, for the sins that they already committed. But the fact that Allah must warn people first before he destroys them, in order to remain just, shows that there is a moral standard outside of Allah's actions and decrees that he must abide by to be just.


    Nay.  In order to be Just, He must act in accordance with the rules for justice that He Himself laid down.

    Do you understand now?


    I understand you, I merely 100% disagree.

    So you therefore agree that morality is entirely meaningless and is contingent solely upon the arbitrary dictates and preferences of Allah?


    It is Allah who provides the ultimate meaning for objects, laws and processes by letting us know of His preferences.

    Hence why he could decree that blood sacrifices of children be made to him?


    This is a reference to the circumcision?  It is Allah who knows and I who know not.  I admit to having done little research into that area.  My interest is actually too low to do so.

    In this case, morality could be anything, it could even be incoherent and contradictory.


    Only to the limited and inferior mortal mind.

    I'm saying that such a completely arbitrary morality renders the word 'morality' completely meaningless and even contradicts the Quran itself.


    I completely disagree.  All the rest of the creation performs according to perfect order; why do you assume that because you do not understand something, it is now meaningless?  Are you omniscient?  Can you even pretend to be?  Then by what criteria should I uphold your knowledge as worthy of accepting as Truth over the one who made us?

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #414 - June 21, 2010, 07:08 PM

    The hadith are not the Qur'an, of course.  Of course manipulative and evil men would pull 'hadith' out of their butts for their own selfish ends.  Should I throw out the whole religion and proclaim that there is no Creator and doom myself because some folk in the past acted the way humans tend to act?  Please be reasonable.

    Here my point was not that you should follow hadith or leave Allah, you should know that no

    Of course not.  My point was that it was part of your understanding of Islam, until you got schooled by BD  grin12

    You seem to assume that we left Islam with as easy heart.  What you do not realise is that many here know, and have studied far more, about Islam than you or I could ever hope to achieve before they could take no more.  They're came a point where we believed it was more likely to be man-made that divinely inspired by your sky god.

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    Should I throw out the whole religion and proclaim that there is no Creator . Please be reasonable.


    Many here still believe there could be a God (including me), but certainly not the anthropomorpically egotistic & tyrannical God of the Quran.

    Although I am a little disturbed by you not denouncing slavery as wrong.  I hope it shows how religion can make a sound person accepting of such an abhorrent act.

    Like they say "With or without it you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion" Weinberg.

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  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #415 - June 21, 2010, 07:16 PM

    How would it be unfair for him to do so if he defines what is right and what we think is moral or immoral doesn't matter? If Allah decides what is right and wrong, then he can do literally anything he wants, morally speaking. There's no standard other than the one he sets and therefore, no-one can criticise that standard or call it wrong, because that standard is the definition of right and wrong.


    Is He not "God?"  He is the Supreme Creator of reality itself.  He is the author of the very concept of rules.  It is His standard that is the Ultimate Standard.

    Do YOU understand?

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #416 - June 21, 2010, 07:24 PM

    So how long should I try?


    Until you die of course.

    No.


    Dr. Strassman's studies into the substance called DMT showed that the 'spirit world' is indeed real.  It's fascinating.  Check it out.  To ME such a breakthrough implies that God is Right, and even though we may not understand, or our science isn't advanced enough, or something simply may not make sense to us, we should give God the benefit of the doubt, because He knows all.

    So even if it seems irrational I should try to believe it?


    That's a hard and fast rule when it comes to the Final revelation of God.

    Should I apply this to other religions too? Or only Islam?


    You ask this question of a Muslim?  As a former Muslim why don't you answer it for me?

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #417 - June 21, 2010, 07:28 PM

    Rasheed please care to comment on my question here?

    http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=10868.msg290591;topicseen#new

    ...
  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #418 - June 21, 2010, 07:34 PM

    Here my point was not that you should follow hadith or leave Allah, you should know that.


    Should I?  But I do not yet know you.

    My point was that it was part of your understanding of Islam, until you got schooled by BD


    God made us all different that we may learn from one another.  I am open to instruction...

    ...within limits.  I will not compromise my soul.

    You seem to assume that we left Islam with as easy heart.


    Easy or not the result is the same if you die in that state.  Be forwarned.

    What you do not realise is that many here know, and have studied far more, about Islam than you or I could ever hope to achieve...


    If the results of all that study set them on the path of hellfire, what good did it do?Perhaps they should have believed more as they studied.  Perhaps they studied the wrong things?

    Many here still believe there could be a God (including me)...


    Then why live in a why that would anger Him if you find out indeed that you will stand before Him on the Last day?What do you have to lose by obedience?

    ...but certainly not the anthropomorpically egotistic & tyrannical God of the Quran.


    I know no such God in the Qur'an.

    Although I am a little disturbed by you not denouncing slavery as wrong.  I hope it shows how religion can make a sound person accepting of such an abhorrent act.


    Instead it shows how people can use the actions of others to color their opinions of different topics to the point of being unreasonable.

    Like they say "With or without it you would have good people doing good things and evil people doing evil things. But for good people to do evil things, that takes religion" Weinberg.


    I reject "they" in favor of the Lord who created me.  This will be best.

  • Re: Peace, All
     Reply #419 - June 21, 2010, 07:35 PM

    Mrasheed

    Thanks for answering my questions I asked because I saw your comic where you depicted noah and soloman as black. Do mind me asking if youre one of those arm, leg, leg, arm, head guys?

    I'm an asshat.
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