Well I think using the conventional way to designate God is a good reason for me.
but whose conventions/convictions are they? you are clearly a believer in God that was formulated by some one as
"He" . Don't you want to question the conventions/convictions when it comes to this "god" that controls the lives of billions of people overtly or covertly on this earth?
We make a concept which supposed to be living, you can call it or she, it does not mean much apart from how we represents him.
I know I can call it(god) as she, it, gay, lesbian, dog, cat, rat .
But do you really think it doesn't make any difference for you if you start thinking god as
she, it, gay, lesbian, dog, cat, rat etc ??
I don't think so . Try this from to day., Try formulating your god in your mind "NOT AS HE" but something else anything "she, it, gay, lesbian, dog, cat, rat " ., and NEVER CALL YOUR GOD AS "HE". Do that for year. And you must do that on paper "when you are writing" or when you are talking to people and when you are praying to god.
I can assure you .. you will change for ever and your thinking about god will change for ever..