@skynightblaze
No

I'm talking about myself. And regular muslims. It's hard growing up, hearing how perfect he was, how loving he was. How the marriage was not for a sexual reason, but for a political tie and it would be rude and harmful to muslims if he didn't marry Aisha. And you read the hadits and the Sira and its like how are they connecting the dots?
It almost wants to make me cry, and I'm grown man. Not because I lost love for a Prophet, ridiculous thinking, but because of all the lies and deceit. Jesus its like being in a cult and brain washed and anytime you discuss it with Muslims they'll tell you are wrong and you will burn in hell for eternity, at best, at worst somebody might actually try to physically harm you. No matter how much I try to wrap my head around it, picturing a 9 year old and then picturing an adult, its just wrong. I?m sorry. It?s just wrong. This is not aimed at you either, but we have guests browsing CEMB forum and I suspect some of them are Muslims. This is one thread they will definitely read.
I've heard Muslim Arabs go well what's the problem? That's what they did back then. The West has a problem with this, not us kind of thinking. And they go on and say our grandmothers married when they were 13. But if it truly wasn't a modern problem, this marrying at 9, then why do Christian Arabs call Mohamed a Paedophile. Now some of them might hate Muslims and Islam and say it out of spite (ie they might agree that it was done back in the 7th century but they wont say it themselves) but I'm sure some of them don't have any problems with Muslim but simply find it to be a repulsive act. And they are Arabs and born and raised in Arabic countries. Not to mention the fact that there are Arabs who are ex Muslims, born and raised and still living in Arabic countries that have found this and find it to be a repulsive act. Not an excusable act. Not one that should be emulated, certainly not in today?s age. The problem is, that it is still emulated in today?s age, and it will be, even 200 years from now because the sunna of the prophet is always correct.