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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #720 - May 30, 2008, 01:20 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:12 PM
    I'm going to write a letter to her today, covering all the points I did note down before I ran out of the room, and also saying I want to make a formal complaint that I was made to go in without representation, and that the judge only spoke to me as an afterthought, where he said "Oops, I suppose I better speak to the mother" (his face said it all)

    W_T_F_! Translation: "Oh shit, I just remembered that I'm supposed to be impartial and act like there might be two sides to this case."
    Devious, treacherous, murderous, neanderthal, sub-human of the West. bunny
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #721 - May 30, 2008, 01:23 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 12:52 PM
    Quote from: diotima on May 30, 2008, 12:47 PM

    keep kicking that solicitor´s arse!
    I really don´t understand, how your system works...
    she was probably afraid she´d end up not being paid, if she went, and legal aid couldn´t be sorted...



    I don't know, she said she was legally not allowed to accompany me to court or to act on my behalf anymore than a letter until the finances were sorted, that the court could have actually penalised her firm for acting on my behalf.  wacko


    Is this the Patal women???
    Left the forum: http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=22997
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #722 - May 30, 2008, 01:25 PM
    Quote from: osmanthus on May 30, 2008, 01:20 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:12 PM
    I'm going to write a letter to her today, covering all the points I did note down before I ran out of the room, and also saying I want to make a formal complaint that I was made to go in without representation, and that the judge only spoke to me as an afterthought, where he said "Oops, I suppose I better speak to the mother" (his face said it all)

    W_T_F_! Translation: "Oh shit, I just remembered that I'm supposed to be impartial and act like there might be two sides to this case."


    That's exactly how it came across.

    Oh, I forgot to add, one of the shocking moments was when the cafcass officer said "With the level of severe abuse mr ***** inflicted on Ms ****, and in turn the severe abuse Ms ***** inflicted on Mr *****"  Shocked ...... finmad  when I have a finding of facts against my ex proving that everytime he said I was the violent one he was lying, and making it up as he went along.  The judge says everything I said turned out to be true and backed up with evidence and that I presented as extremely honest"  so WTF did she mean?

    Another worker who met with the cafcass officer says she presents as being biased in favour of my ex, which I would agree with, and now the new judge is the same.

    The last judge I know wasn't completely giving me what I wanted, but he also wasn't giving my ex what he wanted either, he had seen my ex making faces, he had seen proof of the lies and the violence, he also wanted more details on my depression so that he could factor that in when deciding about access.

    The new judge is shit  finmad

    Good thing is my solicitor says her first move when she is financed will be to apply to have it taken to a higher court, because that's where we will win.
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #723 - May 30, 2008, 01:26 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:23 PM


    Is this the Patal women???


    No lol turns out that's just the name of the company.  Cheesy
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #724 - May 30, 2008, 01:27 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:26 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:23 PM


    Is this the Patal women???


    No lol turns out that's just the name of the company.  Cheesy


    So this woman is she an Indian? am sure you said she, she said, she had dealt with ex Muslims before...
    Left the forum: http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=22997
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #725 - May 30, 2008, 01:28 PM
    I am happy to hear that your solicitor tried to get a postponement.  I think your statement idea is great.  I believe it will motivate her more.

    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:12 PM
    ... and that the judge only spoke to me as an afterthought, where he said "Oops, I suppose I better speak to the mother" (his face said it all)


    Unbelievable!  This really does need to go to a higher court.  This Judge is unfit, biased and incompetent!

    In any case, you are taking all the right steps. The next court date is going to be a much different situation for you.

    Mohammed ordered Kinana b. al Rabi' to be gruesomely tortured and then decapitated.  The 'prophet' then 'married' Kinana's wife, Safiyya.  He had her husband, her father and her people killed.  

    Sirat Rasul Allah by Ibn Ishaq 

    Mohammed was a rapist and a murderer.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #726 - May 30, 2008, 01:29 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:27 PM

    So this woman is she an Indian? am sure you said she, she said, she had dealt with ex Muslims before...


    The family therapy worker I have arranged for this firm because she spoke to a solicitor there who said she had experience in dealing with these cases and with ex muslims and muslims.  When I turned up for the meeting, the first solicitor I met with here I didn't like, the next one I did like. 

    I have no idea which specific solicitor was the one with experience in this, or if they just said that to impress.  wacko
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #727 - May 30, 2008, 01:33 PM
    Quote from: Serquet11 on May 30, 2008, 01:28 PM
    I am happy to hear that your solicitor tried to get a postponement.  I think your statement idea is great.  I believe it will motivate her more.

    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:12 PM
    ... and that the judge only spoke to me as an afterthought, where he said "Oops, I suppose I better speak to the mother" (his face said it all)


    Unbelievable!  This really does need to go to a higher court.  This Judge is unfit, biased and incompetent!

    In any case, you are taking all the right steps. The next court date is going to be a much different situation for you.




    Totally, I have close to 7 weeks to prepare my case as I want it presented at court, and the solicitor has 7 weeks too to get sorted and ready for this.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #728 - May 30, 2008, 01:34 PM
    Don't trust the lawyers, too much. Unless they are your personal lawyers, and throw enough money at them. Its the lawyers that fuck you in the end, they plot and contrive with the judges... Basically, in others words you just don't have the right contacts, don't you have a barrister? You need some barristers, they understand the law better then solicitors.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #729 - May 30, 2008, 01:36 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:34 PM
    Don't trust the lawyers, too much. Unless they are your personal lawyers, and throw enough money at them. Its the lawyers that fuck you in the end, they plot and contrive with the judges... Basically, in others words you just don't have the right contacts, don't you have a barrister? You need some barristers, they understand the law better then solicitors.


    I'm not clued up on the whole process, so far it's been a solicitor, who contracts a barrister to represent me in court.  I haven't met the person who's going to be my barrister hired by this new firm.

    Are you saying you can contract your own barrister?  wacko
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #730 - May 30, 2008, 01:37 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:29 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:27 PM

    So this woman is she an Indian? am sure you said she, she said, she had dealt with ex Muslims before...


    The family therapy worker I have arranged for this firm because she spoke to a solicitor there who said she had experience in dealing with these cases and with ex muslims and muslims.  When I turned up for the meeting, the first solicitor I met with here I didn't like, the next one I did like. 

    I have no idea which specific solicitor was the one with experience in this, or if they just said that to impress.  wacko


    Of course, they bullshit... Just change the firm... They will tell you the sky is green and the grass is blue to make money out of you... These kind of "Indian" firms are shit, they have to make money, for the firm...
    Left the forum: http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=22997
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #731 - May 30, 2008, 01:38 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:37 PM


    Of course, they bullshit... Just change the firm... They will tell you the sky is green and the grass is blue to make money out of you... These kind of "Indian" firms are shit, they have to make money, for the firm...


    But the solicitor isn't Indian, she's English, maybe she is doing her job to help people.  Cry
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #732 - May 30, 2008, 01:38 PM
    Berbs, I already told you - make a complaint about the judge, try and have him taken off the case on account of him being biassed - same goes for the caseworker!

    Get the lawyer to do it for you ASAP.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #733 - May 30, 2008, 01:41 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:38 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:37 PM


    Of course, they bullshit... Just change the firm... They will tell you the sky is green and the grass is blue to make money out of you... These kind of "Indian" firms are shit, they have to make money, for the firm...


    But the solicitor isn't Indian, she's English, maybe she is doing her job to help people.  Cry


    NO lawyer can afford to do their job ONLY to help people - we have to finance our offices, and want to eat, occasionally.
    I know there are tons of bad arseholes around, but MOST lawyers work FOR their clients. Make her explain things to you, Berbs. Ask questions - you HAVE to be able to trust your lawyer!
    and forget about Tut!  Roll Eyes
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #734 - May 30, 2008, 01:41 PM
    Quote from: diotima on May 30, 2008, 01:38 PM
    Berbs, I already told you - make a complaint about the judge, try and have him taken off the case on account of him being biassed - same goes for the caseworker!

    Get the lawyer to do it for you ASAP.



    Yes, I will.  Smiley
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #735 - May 30, 2008, 01:41 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:36 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:34 PM
    Don't trust the lawyers, too much. Unless they are your personal lawyers, and throw enough money at them. Its the lawyers that fuck you in the end, they plot and contrive with the judges... Basically, in others words you just don't have the right contacts, don't you have a barrister? You need some barristers, they understand the law better then solicitors.


    I'm not clued up on the whole process, so far it's been a solicitor, who contracts a barrister to represent me in court.  I haven't met the person who's going to be my barrister hired by this new firm.

    Are you saying you can contract your own barrister?  wacko


    Its better if you know one personally. And not via the solicitors. Like through a friend or a family member...
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #736 - May 30, 2008, 01:43 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:41 PM


    Its better if you know one personally. And not via the solicitors. Like through a friend or a family member...



    Well I don't.  Wink
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #737 - May 30, 2008, 01:44 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:38 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:37 PM


    Of course, they bullshit... Just change the firm... They will tell you the sky is green and the grass is blue to make money out of you... These kind of "Indian" firms are shit, they have to make money, for the firm...


    But the solicitor isn't Indian, she's English, maybe she is doing her job to help people.  Cry


    Dude, they have to make money for the firm or face getting kicked out... Everything they make goes to the firm and then get paid salary.
    Left the forum: http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=22997
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #738 - May 30, 2008, 01:45 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:43 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:41 PM


    Its better if you know one personally. And not via the solicitors. Like through a friend or a family member...



    Well I don't.  Wink


    Go to court thats where they normally hang around... Try to contact one of them write a letter to them... or something...
    Left the forum: http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=22997
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #739 - May 30, 2008, 01:47 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:44 PM


    Dude, they have to make money for the firm or face getting kicked out... Everything they make goes to the firm and then get paid salary.


    Ugh  finmad, surely there are some who do it for real, who see the money as being something they need to earn by doing the best job they can?

    Isn't that the way to see your job?  I know I have always been that type of worker.  wacko
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #740 - May 30, 2008, 01:53 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:47 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:44 PM


    Dude, they have to make money for the firm or face getting kicked out... Everything they make goes to the firm and then get paid salary.


    Ugh  finmad, surely there are some who do it for real, who see the money as being something they need to earn by doing the best job they can?

    Isn't that the way to see your job?  I know I have always been that type of worker.  wacko


    Well I don't know about all that shit... After such a long time, in such a work you start to lose empathy... The only thing which keeps you in the job is money. The only good lawyers, are the highly paid lawyers, they have to keep a reputation of winning for the client. Those are the best lawyers. The onces that will charge you £1000 just to appear in court.
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  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #741 - May 30, 2008, 01:54 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:47 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 01:44 PM


    Dude, they have to make money for the firm or face getting kicked out... Everything they make goes to the firm and then get paid salary.


    Ugh  finmad, surely there are some who do it for real, who see the money as being something they need to earn by doing the best job they can?

    Isn't that the way to see your job?  I know I have always been that type of worker.  wacko

    It´s a mixture, Berbs.
    ALL firms have to make a profit. But there ARE lawyers who ALSO want to do good for their client (if only so they come back, lol)
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #742 - May 30, 2008, 01:58 PM
    Well I don't have the money to be picky with a solicitor, I also don't have time to risk changing firms yet again. 

    I will simply not allow this new firm to muck me around the way I let the last firm.

    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #743 - May 30, 2008, 02:03 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:58 PM
    Well I don't have the money to be picky with a solicitor, I also don't have time to risk changing firms yet again. 

    I will simply not allow this new firm to muck me around the way I let the last firm.




    The point I was trying to make was, just remember only tell them what you need to tell them... To be honest with you drop the whole ex Muslim thing. It just seems like your doing it to piss your ex off. Just stick him abusing, not mention your an exMuslim and he will kill my blah, blah blah... I want to feed my kids pork but I can't out of fear of him, all this just makes you come across and vindictive. 
    Left the forum: http://www.councilofexmuslims.com/index.php?topic=22997
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #744 - May 30, 2008, 02:07 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:58 PM
    Well I don't have the money to be picky with a solicitor, I also don't have time to risk changing firms yet again. 

    I will simply not allow this new firm to muck me around the way I let the last firm.




    If I ever got rich, you would be the first person I gave money to.  Dammit, why am I not rich?!?!
    Mohammed ordered Kinana b. al Rabi' to be gruesomely tortured and then decapitated.  The 'prophet' then 'married' Kinana's wife, Safiyya.  He had her husband, her father and her people killed.  

    Sirat Rasul Allah by Ibn Ishaq 

    Mohammed was a rapist and a murderer.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #745 - May 30, 2008, 02:08 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 02:03 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:58 PM
    Well I don't have the money to be picky with a solicitor, I also don't have time to risk changing firms yet again. 

    I will simply not allow this new firm to muck me around the way I let the last firm.




    The point I was trying to make was, just remember only tell them what you need to tell them... To be honest with you drop the whole ex Muslim thing. It just seems like your doing it to piss your ex off. Just stick him abusing, not mention your an exMuslim and he will kill my blah, blah blah... I want to feed my kids pork but I can't out of fear of him, all this just makes you come across and vindictive. 

    CRAP!!!
    You HAVE to be honest with your lawyer, if nobody else!
    Tut, just piss off, you are drunk, obviously, and a moron.
    All YOU know about lawyers is the kind you met in juvenile court!
     finmad
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #746 - May 30, 2008, 02:13 PM
    Quote from: Serquet11 on May 30, 2008, 02:07 PM


    If I ever got rich, you would be the first person I gave money to.  Dammit, why am I not rich?!?!


    For the same reason I'm not rich lol it's just not our time yet.  Wink

    Quote from: diotima on May 30, 2008, 02:08 PM
    Quote from: King Tut on May 30, 2008, 02:03 PM
    Quote from: BerberElla on May 30, 2008, 01:58 PM
    Well I don't have the money to be picky with a solicitor, I also don't have time to risk changing firms yet again. 

    I will simply not allow this new firm to muck me around the way I let the last firm.




    The point I was trying to make was, just remember only tell them what you need to tell them... To be honest with you drop the whole ex Muslim thing. It just seems like your doing it to piss your ex off. Just stick him abusing, not mention your an exMuslim and he will kill my blah, blah blah... I want to feed my kids pork but I can't out of fear of him, all this just makes you come across and vindictive. 

    CRAP!!!
    You HAVE to be honest with your lawyer, if nobody else!
    Tut, just piss off, you are drunk, obviously, and a moron.
    All YOU know about lawyers is the kind you met in juvenile court!
     finmad


    I'm with Dio, I have every intention of maintaining my honesty and integrity along the way Tut.

    It only looks vindictive to you and people who think like my ex, but to the real organisations who have worked with my family, who have seen the case files, it doesn't look that way at all.

    I am taking a stand for what I believe in.
    Inhale the good shit, exhale the bullshit.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #747 - May 30, 2008, 05:22 PM
    Quote from: Serquet
    If I ever got rich, you would be the first person I gave money to.  Dammit, why am I not rich?!?!


    You could take out a remortgage on your house, then you'd be rich.  Just a thought, like. Smiley
    "Befriend them not, Oh murtads, and give them neither parrot nor bunny."  - happymurtad's advice on trolls.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #748 - May 30, 2008, 07:33 PM
    Soon I will be in the process of buying a house... so, gotta buy before I refinance myself into more mega debt. wacko
    Mohammed ordered Kinana b. al Rabi' to be gruesomely tortured and then decapitated.  The 'prophet' then 'married' Kinana's wife, Safiyya.  He had her husband, her father and her people killed.  

    Sirat Rasul Allah by Ibn Ishaq 

    Mohammed was a rapist and a murderer.
  • Re: Berbs Blog, much madness within
     Reply #749 - May 30, 2008, 07:36 PM
    Quote from: Cheetah on May 30, 2008, 05:22 PM
    Quote from: Serquet
    If I ever got rich, you would be the first person I gave money to.  Dammit, why am I not rich?!?!


    You could take out a remortgage on your house, then you'd be rich.  Just a thought, like. Smiley


    Sell your kidneys, perhaps? One copy is redundant, at any rate.
    Islam: where idiots meet terrorists.
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