ok.. so where does it lead you.
to a correct ethical code I hope
How do you assess your progress?
I dont have a litmus test or a graph as such. But by talking to a variety of people, debate, reading etc etc but the Golden Rule covers most things for me.
Do you, or is Islam enough? How do you decide that its not right to have sex with 9 years olds if the prophet did it?
(adequate for you islame?)
Of course, otherwise I would change it?